[issues] Cutover

2001-06-04 Thread jenn
ogated enough, we'll tell the lists to use linuxchix.org as their domain. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED] Jenn Ve

[issues] IMPORTANT: Linuxchix is moving

2001-06-01 Thread jenn
Thanks for your attention, support, and patience, while we make these changes. Dancer and Jenn Vesperman, & the various volunteers who are making this possible. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - D

Re: [issues] Re: [techtalk] Sick of surf and porn addicts

2001-05-31 Thread jenn
at American Movie Culture tends to depict them badly. Neither of us intended at all to trivialise /your/ issue, which appears to be fraternities-who-rape. Both of us are ignorant of your issue, it seems, though to different extents. Please don't get angry at side threads, that'

Re: [issues] Re: [techtalk] Sick of surf and porn addicts

2001-05-31 Thread jenn
ainly hope I haven't > given up freedom except according to the most trivial definition. Loose choice of words, and trivial definitions of 'giving up' and 'freedom'. It never even OCCURED to me that anyone might interpret what I said as tightly as you appear to have.

Re: [issues] Re: [techtalk] Sick of surf and porn addicts

2001-05-31 Thread jenn
up my freedom to behave in an unprofessional manner while in the work environment. Hm. Not 'giving up' per se .. but 'choosing to hold in abeyance for the set period of time'. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture

Re: [issues] Re: [techtalk] Sick of surf and porn addicts

2001-05-31 Thread jenn
Daniel Bravo wrote: > Jenn, > > Well, if American teenage college movies showed > the good side of fraternities and sororities, I don't > think that they would be too entertaining. Just keep > in mind that there are two sides to every coin. Oh, I don't kn

Re: [issues] Re: [techtalk] Hi.I'm new.Postfix/mail server questions...

2001-05-31 Thread jenn
(PS: docbooked the articles. Decided I might as well write the last two before I send them in. Have the first (data transmission) mostly done, and the second will be quick.) Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss

Re: [issues] Re: [techtalk] Sick of surf and porn addicts

2001-05-30 Thread jenn
Daniel: This is one instance where I'm very glad to be wrong. Thank you. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED] Jenn Vesperman http://www.simegen.co

Re: [issues] Re: [techtalk] Sick of surf and porn addicts

2001-05-30 Thread jenn
ing in a new staff member. > Yes - a lot of companies export work to countries with lax laws, since > it's cheaper that way. The ethics of this are rather questionable, but > that's another issue... New Zealand is hardly a country with lax labour laws! Jenn V. -- &qu

Re: [issues] Re: [techtalk] Sick of surf and porn addicts

2001-05-30 Thread jenn
er *LEGAL* contracts about employment. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED] Jenn Vesperman http://www.simegen.com/~jenn/ ___

Re: [issues] Re: [techtalk] Hi.I'm new.Postfix/mail server questions...

2001-05-30 Thread jenn
. We need to see women writing and > producing publicly, not behind pseudonyms. I agree... but why is there the pressure which leads women to be more comfortable using male pseudonyms? (BTW: I'm planning to docbook those articles today, David.) Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder

[issues] Re: [techtalk] Hi.I'm new.Postfix/mail server questions...

2001-05-21 Thread jenn
gt; I don't mean it. I think that's where it all started. > So, for you and anyone else reading. If I'm being arrogant or > egotistical it's either a) a joke or b) > I need a smack. :-) Enough people ARE egotistical that it's damned hard to tell when it

[issues] Re: [grrltalk] Volunteers

2001-05-19 Thread jenn
> Can you repost with some pointers as to how to do this please? I don't think > you included them the first time around. Is there a webpage to visit? URK! Did I forget to do that! My error, my apologies. Go here: http://www.simegen.com/mailman/listinfo/volunteers And sign up.

[issues] Volunteers

2001-05-19 Thread jenn
will almost certainly be overwritten. Please bear with us, we're hoping to transfer things as smoothly as possible, for Deb's sake and .. well, everyone's. :) Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by be

Re: [issues] Open Source as political?

2001-05-09 Thread jenn
it. I just see it as something I want to do, that I feel is worthwhile in and of itself. I don't know a way to fight the gradual slide to plutocracy. If I knew of an effective one, I'd be doing it. I feel disenfranchised. Taxation without representation, and all that. Oh, there's

Re: [issues] Open Source as political?

2001-05-07 Thread jenn
ut, we get > a world full of companies like microsoft, with few alternatives. I don't like > that scenario. Neither do I. But I don't see the options as strictly binary - closed or open. I see room for both. To me, most of the questions you just asked are non-issues - I suspect

Re: [issues] Open Source as political?

2001-05-06 Thread jenn
re of the property being given away. Oh, and the fact that a program written for my local use can be distributed while still remaining useful to me locally. Try doing that with an adventure playground or a scout cabin! Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of

[issues] FAQ repost

2001-04-19 Thread jenn
Issues FAQ repost -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED] Jenn Vesperman http://www.simegen.com/~jenn/ LinuxChix: Issues FAQ Jennifer Vesperman Copyright © 2

Re: [issues] ESR's Sex Tips for Geeks

2001-04-10 Thread jenn
e-looking guys there? ... and I went to the gym today. And forgot to look. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED] Jenn Vesperman http://www.simegen.com/~jen

Re: [issues] ESR's Sex Tips for Geeks

2001-04-08 Thread jenn
ny nice-looking guys there? (I already know there are nice guys there. As in 'friendly', 'helpful', 'supportive', etc. But I never noticed how they look.) And yes, I'm serious. I just /don't look/. This is why being 'looked' at startles and conf

Re: [issues] Women and finance

2001-04-08 Thread jenn
still nursing the baby might be part of it - *you* have to be around anyway. If you still do the bulk of the childcare after he's on solid food, and it's not a deliberate decision between the two of you, you might want to start looking at why. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wond

Re: [issues] ESR's Sex Tips for Geeks (sp: semi-coherent rant)

2001-04-06 Thread jenn
te-by-nature (as in, not attracted to either gender). Hm. That begs the following case: women who are separatist, but by-nature attracted to men, and thus remain celibate by choice. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss

Re: [issues] ESR's Sex Tips for Geeks

2001-04-06 Thread jenn
t;> >> Is this an honest question or are you intentionally pretending to >> be stupid? > > > Unless I've suddenly developed telekinetic powers, my thoughts cannot > affect others in any way. You only see what I *DO*, not what I think. But what you think comes out in what y

[issues] Women and finance

2001-04-05 Thread jenn
my husband to pay it'. She'd have had no idea that they were behind. And the serviceman would nod understandingly. That was normal. The lady of the house never did! I'm s glad I don't live like that! Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a who

Re: [issues] ESR's Sex Tips for Geeks (sp: semi-coherent rant)

2001-04-05 Thread jenn
into as much > intimacy as you both are comfortable with, as opposed to picking > some random stranger off the street, dubbing yourselves "an item", > and going from insubstantial banter to sharing your deepest darkest > secrets in the blink of an eye. Heh... Jenn V. -- &q

Re: [issues] ESR's Sex Tips for Geeks

2001-04-04 Thread jenn
27;m sure you can tell when someone's not really listening to you. So can we. And combine that with the directions of their glance, and we can tell what they're listening to Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a

Re: [issues] ESR's Sex Tips for Geeks

2001-04-04 Thread jenn
dship. :) No running when you can't even crawl yet. :) Besides, I was friends with Dancer for five years (or more!) before we got married. And we've been married for ten years now. You never know Jenn V. -- "Do you eve

Re: [issues] ESR's Sex Tips for Geeks

2001-04-04 Thread jenn
t few, and the first few would probably colour the WAY you read the second lot. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED] Jenn Vesperman http://www.simegen.com

[issues] ESR sex tips

2001-04-03 Thread jenn
n a script kiddie who's trying to hack my mental/emotional firewall so he can plug into my sockets. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED] Jenn Vesperman

Re: [issues] ESR's Sex Tips for Geeks

2001-04-03 Thread jenn
f that from telemarketers. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED] Jenn Vesperman http://www.simegen.com/~jenn/

[issues] Re: [techtalk] More XP vs UML

2001-03-31 Thread jenn
Conor is absolutely right in his comments below. I'm guilty as charged. I ([EMAIL PROTECTED]) said: >> I'm really blathering on with this topic .. hopefully I'm making sense. >> >> Jenn V. And he said to me: > Dare I say it? Doesn't the a

Re: [issues] Conversation monopolization

2001-03-27 Thread jenn
in that environment. I *think* it's a human-thing, not a male- or female- one. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMA

Re: [issues] Re: Mnetoring (was: conversation monopolization)

2001-03-27 Thread jenn
ople on the books. 4 are women. The writers? Me. Catherine. Kate. What are the odds of that being random? (yes, all three of us are female) Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dan

Re: [issues] man rtfm

2001-03-23 Thread jenn
(1) Try the man pages. (Or info, or --help) > This is useful if you know the name of the command or application > you are using. The 'man -k ' or 'apropos ' command can help you locate the command you want but don't know th

Re: [issues] Conversation monopolization

2001-03-21 Thread jenn
d go down it. Noone sensible will care that you're behind them on /their/ road, especially since you're ahead of them on /yours/. And the ones who are sharing your road, but ahead of you, should be happy to help. If they're not, they're idiots. :) They won't be walking that

Re: [issues] Conversation monopolization

2001-03-21 Thread jenn
ick it up. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED] Jenn Vesperman http://www.simegen.com/~jenn/ ___ issue

[issues] Agreement (was: Conversation monopolization)

2001-03-21 Thread jenn
Rebecca J. Walter wrote: > how about we all make a deal with each other? we WILL post possible > answers. if the answer isnt correct, we will learn from corrections. > NO ONE will bash anyone else for having been wrong. Good thought. I agree. Jenn V. -- "Do you

[issues] Techtalk FAQ & technical stuff (was Conversation monopolization)

2001-03-21 Thread jenn
-cred. :/ On the other hand, I insist on being paid at least as much for techwriting as for coding. My argument, when I need to use it, is "Your choice: I code, or I techwrite. You want me to techwrite instead, therefore it's more valuable to you. So pay for it." Jenn V. --

[issues] Women and technical stuff (was: Conversation monopolization)

2001-03-21 Thread jenn
fixed with the world? I'd say yes! Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED] Jenn Vesperman http://www.simegen.com/~jenn/ ___

Re: [issues] Conversation monopolization

2001-03-20 Thread jenn
'are women discouraged at all?') However, it's a quiet enough list that I doubt anyone would mind other sorts of discussions as well .. so long as they were at least roughly on-topic. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture

Re: [issues] Conversation monopolization

2001-03-20 Thread jenn
t Linuxchix have appeared on /., so I > wondered... We haven't yet had 'wanna get some' posts. We have had trolling, and we have had conversation-derailing 'so what's this list FOR anyway' or 'why the hell should women get their own list' questions.

Re: [issues] Conversation monopolization

2001-03-20 Thread jenn
ormation you need, in the section about such-and-so' is helpful, and there's nothing wrong with THAT sort. In fact, there's everything right with it. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by b

Re: [issues] Conversation monopolization

2001-03-20 Thread jenn
tive about 'women and Linux' that we have a > chat list, a gender discussion list, a help list, all of which is well > and good, but no hardcore hackers list. Mmm. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you mis

Re: [issues] Conversation monopolization

2001-03-20 Thread jenn
that's why it seems to be guys answering. Can anyone explain to me why I do that? Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED] Jenn Vesperman http://www.

Re: [issues] Conversation monopolization

2001-03-20 Thread jenn
t a third, you're dominating discussion - but there's others talking. Also watch to see if something you say ends the discussion. As they say, once is the thing itself. Twice is coincidence, three times is conspiracy. Or, in this case, a sign that you're dominating discussion i

[issues] Issues FAQ post

2001-03-13 Thread jenn
Because the list has been s quiet, here's a repost of the issues FAQ. Hopefully something will spur discussion. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED

Re: [issues] the pain of finding clothes that work

2000-11-16 Thread jenn
"a.eva yee" wrote: > Jenn V wrote:  > >... and what if you're a large build, and you wear pants out in the > >crotch (or more precisely, upper thigh) in about a year? > >Or am I missing some brilliant idea. Anyone got a brilliant idea for me? > if it fi

Re: [issues] the pain of finding clothes that work

2000-11-16 Thread jenn
have clothes that last for years. Or am I missing some brilliant idea. Anyone got a brilliant idea for me? Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PRO

Re: [issues] the pain of finding clothes that work

2000-11-15 Thread jenn
buyer or do nasty things to > their sizing would also be good. If I knew of such places, I wouldn't have just bought a sewing machine. (Or maybe I would have...) Anyone want to volunteer for such a FAQ-section? :) Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a

Re: [issues] Issues FAQ

2000-11-12 Thread jenn
ttle to > me. According to a Myer catalogue: size 10 is 68-72 cm underbust, 12 73-77cm, 14 78-82, 16 83-87, 18 88-92, 20 93-97, 22 98-102, 24 103-107, 26 109-112. DON'T take this as gospel - Myer's interpretation of sizes may be different from bodywise'. Send them your a

[issues] Issues FAQ

2000-11-12 Thread jenn
Release 1.0 of the issues faq! Comments and discussion welcome.. this is /our/ FAQ. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED]Jenn Vesper

Re: [issues] Re: Women Leaving IT

2000-09-03 Thread jenn
or from work at 9pm, and the company doesn't seem to care, I'm going to take my sysadminning skills to a company which does. Sometimes it's not 'benefits'. It's simple safety. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek c

Re: [issues] Time for me to weigh in + what constitutes a cat fight.

2000-08-08 Thread jenn
or solve it. For an everyday physical example, if my 2-year-old nephew splashes peanut butter all over the room, does it have to wait till he's grown up some and can mop the floor himself? Ludicrous. And just about /any/ problem can be at least partially resolved by anyone who's affect

Re: [issues] Anyone know any more about this study?

2000-08-08 Thread jenn
e was female, ergo she was SUPPOSED to want them.. when she's not all that maternal and her partner would be much, MUCH better with the kids, and they with him. Lesigh. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out

[issues] contradictory social pressures

2000-08-08 Thread jenn
eople who think she should 'look after her husband' - and she might still be low-status. Of course, males are no better off. :/ Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?&

Re: [issues] Anyone know any more about this study?

2000-08-08 Thread jenn
and that I don't hug or otherwise touch males as often as I do females. Unconscious, unaware sexism. Hmm. > Hey, I'm a Klingon Diplomacy Academy graduate. It comes in more useful > than you might think. Heh. :) I should use Klingon diplomacy more often than I do. Jenn V. --

Re: [issues] Anyone know any more about this study?

2000-08-08 Thread jenn
anger them and make them more resistant to your words. Accusations at all, or statements which can be taken as accusations, don't help. Of course, I'm guilty of that too. :) It's the easy way to get your point said. Of course, it doesn't get your poin

Re: [issues] Anyone know any more about this study?

2000-08-07 Thread jenn
doing half the > housework and childcare and aren't referred to as babysitting their > own kids when the mom is out and take days off of work because their > kids are sick. Then maybe they will deserve to have custody. Start lobbying. Ok, not all men - but some. My brother, for instan

[issues] Idea for Linuxchix groups and LUGs and so on

2000-08-07 Thread jenn
ring with 'puters in the 50's and 60's. There'll be some in your community. And she was fascinating to listen to. And she was very interested. Wanted to know how we got from the PDP-11 series to PCs. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section o

Re: [issues] Re: Incident on a tram

2000-07-09 Thread Jenn V.
wirren wrote: > > By tram you mean streetcar, right? Well, I don't know what a streetcar is. I do know what a tram is. :) It's 'light rail' - single carriage railed vehicles about the size of buses, which run on rails set into the road. Apologies for the off-topi

[issues] Incident on a tram

2000-07-07 Thread jenn
heir underlying automatic assumption was that _they_ would be the ones who solved technical hassles in their lives. How _WONDERFUL_! I was walking on clouds all day. :) Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a

Re: [techtalk] Re: [issues] Standards?? PHOOEY!!!

2000-06-30 Thread Jenn V.
s no authority to make ME use programs or protocols. Jenn V. (The Australian government, yes. The US? No.) -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/

Re: [issues] Standards?? PHOOEY!!!

2000-06-30 Thread Jenn V.
JoAnne Abbott wrote: > Jenn V wrote: > > Could you define the difference between a protocol and a standard? > > A protocol is a generalised consensus of the way something is done. > > A standard is so many meters, liters or lines of code. Sorry, I disagree with

[issues] Standards - Palo Alto

2000-06-30 Thread Jenn V.
that standards don't affect research and experimentation. Only marketplace implementation. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn

Re: [issues] Standards?? PHOOEY!!!

2000-06-30 Thread Jenn V.
ne Abbott C.E.T. MSEE, DSM Ahem. Lots of letters after her name. I'm impressed. Is this an attempt to use the 'appeal-to-authority' logical fallacy? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

Re: [issues] Standards?? PHOOEY!!!

2000-06-29 Thread Jenn V.
V signals, you'd have to buy NBC's TV to see NBC programs, but it wouldn't necessarily display CNN's. I approve of backwards compatibility - to a point. But only to a point. And precisely where that point is, I can't say. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing t

Re: [issues] In defence of a national army

2000-06-18 Thread jenn
range of national emergencies. Armies can - often don't, but can - provide temporary housing, food and medical care for cities and towns devastated by natural disasters. Emergency services personnel and charities can do the same, but the redundancy is rather comforting. YMMV. Jenn

Re: [issues] At what point is it sexism...

2000-06-14 Thread Jenn V.
Kirrily 'Skud' Robert wrote: > > In article <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>, Alexander Sendzimir wrote: > >"Jenn V." wrote: > > > >> 2. Power. > >> If one party has power over the other - financial, managerial, > >> uni-results, force o

Re: [issues] At what point is it sexism...

2000-06-13 Thread Jenn V.
srl wrote: > Or "if you're really loyal to this company, you'll work 70 hours a > week," which IMO is a far more common statement and gets aimed > equally at everyone when it's used. I got 'well, you're not married and you don't have children..

Re: [issues] At what point is it sexism...

2000-06-13 Thread Jenn V.
Alexander Sendzimir wrote: > > "Jenn V." wrote: > > > 2. Power. > > If one party has power over the other - financial, managerial, > > uni-results, force of personality - then it becomes terribly, > > terribly awkward for the one without power. >

[issues] FAQ posting

2000-06-13 Thread Jenn V.
http://download.sourceforge.net/linuxchix-faqs/issues.html I've quoted the URL for the HTMLised version of the FAQ, rather than the main FAQ. Please note that the internal links are broken, my docbook stylesheet for HTML doesn't seem to understand relative links. I spologise for th

[issues] At what point is it sexism...

2000-06-13 Thread Jenn V.
to them that you /do/ believe they know the difference between cat5 and 10baseT. Then flirt while handing them screws and letting them install your new ethernet card. (* if anyone's interested in why, there's diabetes in my family. I'd like to not have to stick myself wit

Re: [issues] "Female Hackers Battle Sexism [...]"

2000-06-12 Thread Jenn V.
tables where an interesting wargame (board type only) was going on. "Can you teach me how to play this?"* Only ever worked the first time I met any given bunch of guys. But BOY I enjoyed it... Jenn V. * For people who don't quite understand what was going on: I was usually mistak

[issues] Issues FAQ

2000-06-06 Thread jenn
nism and quotas. And it seems to be extremely difficult to get them to believe that we don't. Sigh. 1.4. 'Just live with it' This ('just live with it') is a common response to complaints about teasing, seduction attempts and other such crud in the workplace. Now, I (Jenn)

[issues] Issues FAQ

2000-06-06 Thread jenn
7;faq.sgml', and is in raw docbook format. Read around the tags. :) I want to get a bit more done before I do an actual release. Help is appreciated - email me your sourceforge name and I'll include you in the dev team. :) Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a

Re: [issues] Harassment Suits Hit the Dot-Coms-NY Times (fwd)

2000-04-14 Thread jenn
s an equal-opportunity place, go for it. It's almost embarassing that I /didn't/ get whistled. :) Sometimes, you get to work in a place where everyone's mature. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture

Re: [issues] women in computing article

2000-04-14 Thread jenn
ff the top of my head: Marie Curie. Ada Lovelace. And Athena was female. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED]Jenn Vesperman

Re: [issues] The format of a resume.

2000-04-12 Thread jenn
getting to see my postal address. Spam is the LEAST of the potential problems And if I don't publicise that for me, why would I want to do that to my friends? Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-04-10 Thread Jenn V.
ne! Take heart from the fact that the women's networks DO exist. They're proof that you can get your networks in place. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Free

Re: [issues] The burden of desirability

2000-04-10 Thread Jenn V.
won't get it in a 'logical' relationship - but in ANY relationship, that headiness goes away quickly. Solid, stable love is a deeper, quieter feeling - and yes, I have that with Dancer. And at any time, I can close my eyes and reach for it, and be overwhelmed by it. > Some

Re: [issues] My bad writing in "Re: Does Jane Compute"

2000-04-10 Thread Jenn V.
g. The shoes, the long fingernails, the hobbleskirts, the fragile stockings - they all add up, to me, to the idea 'Hey, look! I'm so rich my wife doesn't have to do a thing'. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This

Re: [issues] My bad writing in "Re: Does Jane Compute"

2000-04-10 Thread Jenn V.
tivation to carry the motivations further. Um. 'Our' position is that we want to stop _QUASHING_ this spark. BTW. Your mails are datestamped 1994. :) Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-04-07 Thread jenn
how their parents react to the children learning. If parents watch one child struggle and tend to 'help' the child rather than letting the child learn, that child gets the message that 'computers aren't my thing'. Especially if the other child in the family is left

[issues] FAQs

2000-04-05 Thread jenn
lcome to use this project directory as well. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED]Jenn Vesperman http://www.simegen.com/~jenn/ __

[issues] Disaster with the issues FAQ

2000-04-05 Thread jenn
ard it to me. I doubt anyone does, but .. maybe. Thanks. Jenn V. -- "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer. [EMAIL PROTECTED]Jenn Vesperman

[issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-03-30 Thread Jenn V.
quire them to be comfortable around computers. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn Vesperma

[issues] Slashdot article - last question

2000-03-27 Thread Jenn V.
Hm. I just thought of an answer for the last question ('how do you justify linuxchix?'). 'I justify it the same way I justify any Open Source project: I perceived a need, and I created something to fill that need.' ... thoughts? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing

Re: [issues] No, you don't suck, and I won't ignore you

2000-03-21 Thread jenn
Caitlyn Máire Martin wrote: > You do *not* suck. You are working hard to solve a difficult problem > and not getting anything back for doing it. You deserve praise, not to > be ignored. Please don't be so hard on yourself, OK? Hear hear! Jenn V. ObIssues: Dancer ca

Assorted brokennesses

2000-03-18 Thread jenn
lick on dria in 'people' to see and read her diary. Thanks. Jenn V. -- Humans are the only species to feed and house entirely separate species for no reason other than the pleasure of their company. Why? [EMAIL PROTECTED]Jenn Vespermanhttp://www.simegen.com/~jenn/

[issues] FAQ: more FAQ information requests. Sorry!

2000-03-03 Thread jenn
ssues that /aren't/ Linux/Unix/computing related. Anyone who has links to sites like that, please feel VERY free to send them to me. I'd rather be writing/refining/honing this document than websearching feminism sites. There's probably about twenty good ones, and two hundred ghastly

Re: [issues] Re; FAQ Answer request

2000-03-02 Thread jenn
eered to build and run a techtalk FAQ. We have a potential permanent maintainer for grrltalk, whose life appears to have eaten him. Jenn V. -- Humans are the only species to feed and house entirely separate species for no reason other than the pleasure of their company. Why? [EMAIL

Re: [issues] Re; FAQ: Answer request

2000-03-02 Thread jenn
Mary Wood wrote: > Jenn writes; > > > I want to write something in the Issues FAQ about 'trivialising' > > - such as people using the word 'rape' to mean other, less intense > > forms of injury. > > I trust this FAQ will be carefully wor

[issues] FAQ: Answer request

2000-03-01 Thread jenn
whether someone writes me something I can use - I just want the information in the FAQ somewhere. Thanks. Jenn V. -- Humans are the only species to feed and house entirely separate species for no reason other than the pleasure of their company. Why? [EMAIL PROTECTED]Jenn Vesp

Re: [issues] Religion (was: YAFGA...)

2000-02-24 Thread Jenn V.
is a "sense of wonder" > > apprehension of the infinite complexity which is entirely built upon the > > basis of 1 and 0. Yup. Or the sense of wonder at the infinite complexity built on protons, neutrons and electrons... Or the sense of wonder at colour... Or at .. J

[issues] Religion (was: YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article))

2000-02-23 Thread Jenn V.
e there annoys me to no end. Religion != Christianity. I'm not christian. I am religious. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn

Re: [issues] Re; YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-22 Thread Jenn V.
.." if necessary. Or I take him aside privately at lunchtime and tell him what he's doing. Depends on how I'm feeling, and suchlike. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-22 Thread Jenn V.
ormal font size settings". Raises her hand. Me. That'd include me! Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn Vesperman[EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.simegen.com/~jenn [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linuxchix.org

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-22 Thread Jenn V.
Rik Hemsley wrote: > Jenn V. wrote: > > The same as for a bi women. Bi or bisexual. > > That's crap though. We need two new words, one for bi women, one for > bi men. Then make everyone in the world aware of them and they move > into common use. Reckon that can be don

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-21 Thread jenn
tually, you recall what I said about training courses, that we're > getting more women than men attending them? We're also getting more > women than men applying for jobs with us. Or at any rate, more > *qualified* women. Existence of female geeks already in the company? J

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-21 Thread jenn
Rik Hemsley wrote: > > #if Jenn V. > > Lets make Melbourne an enclave of Linux-wielding hippie geek > > vegan dykes - and those who don't quite fit that description. > > (linux-wielding hippie geek vegan males are welcome too. And > > those who don't qui

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