Simon Britnell wrote:
>
> How many people here are in
> a relation based on a logical weighing up of the pros and cons. Zero I
> hope,
At least one, and very happily thank you.
> because that kind of relationship is lifeless. I know from
> experience.
Bzzzt. You just didn't include all the necessary elements in your 'logical
weighing up'.
One MUST include a healthy dose of friendship, and an enjoyment of the
other's company, when selecting a lifepartner.
Admittedly, if you're addicted to the 'in love' headiness of feeling, you
won't get it in a 'logical' relationship - but in ANY relationship, that
headiness goes away quickly. Solid, stable love is a deeper, quieter
feeling - and yes, I have that with Dancer. And at any time, I can close my
eyes and reach for it, and be overwhelmed by it.
> Some things, you just gotta live with.
I don't believe this. :)
Jenn V.
--
"We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor.
This is women's work!"
Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/
Jenn Vesperman [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.simegen.com/~jenn
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