Re: [issues] Screenshots - Massive rant, be careful.

1999-10-24 Thread Dakota Surmonde
*** note This is long. This is really long. most of this is response to brenden, don't publically so that no one can claim that I flamed him to a crisp in private. There are a few bits that I want to post for public thought, but I'm going to edit them out

Re: [issues] Screenshots - Massive rant, be careful.

1999-10-24 Thread TeknoDragon
On Sun, 24 Oct 1999, Brendan/Coolian wrote: > too. With my female friends, my feelings are "cerebral", nothing is a > shared experience, just shared feelings about things. I have to find out > everything about a woman before I know if she and I connect on all > levels. Because I have to anal

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-24 Thread TeknoDragon
On Sun, 24 Oct 1999, Brendan/Coolian wrote: > Christ, if one more person didn't pick up on my attempts at riling up a few > people, I was going to die...I'm trying to stir SOMETHING upBut All maybe you could be the person to reveal some of your issues instead of brow beating others into yo

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-24 Thread Deb Richardson
> Alright! Grab it and go! > Christ, if one more person didn't pick up on my attempts at riling up a few > people, I was going to die...I'm trying to stir SOMETHING upBut All > I've gotten are a few poor attempts at "I can show how wonderfully perfect > I am" Do me a huge favour and stop

Re: [issues] Screenshots - Massive rant, be careful.

1999-10-24 Thread jenn
Brendan/Coolian wrote: > > >Do you honestly think that sexism doesn't exist? Or that it does but it > >is not a problem worth talking about? You have not stated this sentiment > >in so many words, but you do seem to be expressing it. Is this intended? Ok. I'm going to say all this again. >

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-24 Thread Brendan/Coolian
> > Haven't seen any. > >I posted links. Short of going over to your place, booting up your >computer and opening the damn things myself, I'm not sure how much more >you want me to do. Please do. While you're at it, could you possibly try to configure the network on COL for me? It's a real bi

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-24 Thread Brendan/Coolian
>Funny. Seems to me that the 'issues' list is built to "discuss the larger >abstract theoretical/philosophical issues related to Linux, the Open Source >Movement, Women & Technology, etc" > >I do have actual problems to talk about. Salinity levels in the most arable >land in Australia threatening

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-24 Thread Brendan/Coolian
> > God, how I wish a few of you people had ACTUAL problems to Talk about... > >Nice how you made it into an "us" (which would be you) vs. "them" (the >women on this list) issue, isn't it? Just speaking to the authors, not the majority. There wasn't anything meant to offend the majority of bro

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-24 Thread Brendan/Coolian
> > > Millions have problems with spontaneously mutating into dogs, deny it > and > > > you're just part of the cover-up, man! > > > > Would you like to offer some proof that 'millions are spontaneiously > > mutating into dogs'? > >I think you missed that he's saying we're all bitches. ;) >If

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-23 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Dakota Surmonde wrote: > > Millions have problems with spontaneously mutating into dogs, deny it and > > you're just part of the cover-up, man! > > Would you like to offer some proof that 'millions are spontaneiously > mutating into dogs'? I think you missed that he's sayi

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-23 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Brendan/Coolian wrote: > >the (big) problem is that there are a lot of > >not-necessarily-purposeful-or-noticed-by-most-of-the-community issues that > >make the community less 'safe' for women... > > God, how I wish a few of you people had ACTUAL problems to Talk about... N

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-23 Thread jenn
Brendan/Coolian wrote: > > >the (big) problem is that there are a lot of > >not-necessarily-purposeful-or-noticed-by-most-of-the-community issues that > >make the community less 'safe' for women... > > God, how I wish a few of you people had ACTUAL problems to Talk about... Funny. Seems to me

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-23 Thread Dakota Surmonde
On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Brendan/Coolian wrote: > God, how I wish a few of you people had ACTUAL problems to Talk about... How is this not an *actual* problem? > Millions have problems with spontaneously mutating into dogs, deny it and > you're just part of the cover-up, man! Would you like to of

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-23 Thread J. Myers
On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Brendan/Coolian wrote: > >the (big) problem is that there are a lot of > >not-necessarily-purposeful-or-noticed-by-most-of-the-community issues that > >make the community less 'safe' for women... > > God, how I wish a few of you people had ACTUAL problems to Talk about... I

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-23 Thread Cat
Brendan -- Do you honestly think that sexism doesn't exist? Or that it does but it is not a problem worth talking about? You have not stated this sentiment in so many words, but you do seem to be expressing it. Is this intended? Cat On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Brendan/Coolian wrote: > > >the (bi

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-23 Thread Brendan/Coolian
>the (big) problem is that there are a lot of >not-necessarily-purposeful-or-noticed-by-most-of-the-community issues that >make the community less 'safe' for women... God, how I wish a few of you people had ACTUAL problems to Talk about... >the (smaller) problem is that when they are brought u

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-23 Thread Dakota Surmonde
On Wed, 20 Oct 1999, Brendan/Coolian wrote: > Those should be categorized under adult for anything involving unclad > bodies...Lump it into the Adult category, and then subdivide for > "scantily-clad, nude, sex" that doens't solve for the problem...I'm just revisiting this because you said tha

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-23 Thread Taylor
While I agree that having a bunch of screenshots showing semi-clad women can be unwelcoming, I do not think they should be done with. After all, these are their idea of a cool theme, right? So, the women (or gay men, etc.) should come up with their own themes. Ones that would be more pleasing to t

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-23 Thread Ingrid Schupbach
On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Jernej Zajc wrote: > Ingrid Schupbach wrote: > > Firstly, I didn't suggest you change it into a male nick. > I for one have a neutral one. > But to the point. > If I give you some advice which is evidently able only to > cure the symptoms I don't expect to get strong-worde

Re: [issues] Screenshots (even longer)

1999-10-23 Thread Telsa Gwynne
Warning: -horribly- long post though I've tried to snip sections. I've been reading the entire thread but have been too busy to get involved, much as I would have liked to, until now. For the record, I am in agreement with those who see this as more an issue of context than content. I have no

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-23 Thread jenn
Dakota Surmonde wrote: > > On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Jernej Zajc wrote: > > If you can't accept that pin-ups can not be looked at as > > objectification then please be honest and write down that > > the subject is simply not debatable for you. > > Yes and no. So far the only thing that I can totally

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-23 Thread Dakota Surmonde
On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Jernej Zajc wrote: > Your militant stand seems to stand on your way of clear sight. > Please don't take this as offense. You are evidently not > overexaggerating but rather seeing evil in a suggestion that > was not offered as good one or the right one or any ultimate > solut

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-23 Thread Steve Kudlak
Jernej Zajc wrote: (stuff removed) > And BTW, if you don't let be hurt you cannot be. Admittedly > this is not easy but it is possible. This also is only a > suggestion, but you could try it before flaming me back > again for it not being an option for you. > > Nejc > > -- > ''Share and Enjoy.

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-23 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Jernej Zajc wrote: > Vinnie Surmonde wrote: > > First, I consider that response different from 'Well if you walk down a > > street in a short skirt after dark aren't you asking for it?' only in > > degree. > > Your militant stand seems to stand on your way of clear sight. :

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-22 Thread Jernej Zajc
Vinnie Surmonde wrote: > > On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, Jernej Zajc wrote: > > > > What about changing your nick? > > First, I consider that response different from 'Well if you walk down a > street in a short skirt after dark aren't you asking for it?' only in > degree. Your militant stand seems to s

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-22 Thread Jernej Zajc
Ingrid Schupbach wrote: > > On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, Jernej Zajc wrote: > > > > What about changing your nick? > > Changing my nick is not an option. I am proud of who I am; I am proud to > be a female linux user. If it's true that women get treated badly on > occasion by male linux users, why is

Re: [issues] Screenshots - on a lighter note

1999-10-22 Thread Jill Cook
Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > > > For some reason, I'm reminded of the guy who, in the mid-70s, left his > convertible with the top down and the lights on. On the bumper was the > sticker "no fat chicks." Until I saw the sticker, I would normally have > turned his lights off. This in turn reminds me

Re: [issues] Screenshots - on a lighter note

1999-10-22 Thread Deidre L. Calarco
> do you think he really knew the pictures made some people uncomfortable? > > in some really ignorant stupid way, some men think those pictures are "art." > > They also seem to think that by plastering babes up ("classy" ones, like > models), people will get the impression that they're desirable

Re: [issues] Screenshots - on a lighter note

1999-10-22 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Fri, 22 Oct 1999, Deidre L. Calarco wrote: > Actually, it just tends to make me lose respect. I helped out a local > developer with his computer network as a favor to my boss. I walked into > his otherwise very nice office and saw framed pics of swimsuit models on the > walls. My first reac

Re: [issues] Screenshots - on a lighter note

1999-10-22 Thread jenn
Rikki McGinty wrote: > > do you think he really knew the pictures made some people uncomfortable? > > in some really ignorant stupid way, some men think those pictures are "art." > > They also seem to think that by plastering babes up ("classy" ones, like > models), people will get the impressi

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread jenn
Terri Oda wrote: > > > Vinnie ( a little tired of being called 'PC' <- which in most cases is > > meaningless and is generally not something I self-identify as, every > > frickin' time she challenges the damn status quo) > > Well, better to be called PC than "too sensitive" -- I get that one pre

RE: [issues] Screenshots - on a lighter note

1999-10-22 Thread Rikki McGinty
x27;re desirable (the men putting them up i mean). > -Original Message- > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]On > Behalf Of Deidre L. Calarco > Sent: Friday, October 22, 1999 3:22 AM > To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > Subject: Re: [issues] Screenshots - on

Re: [issues] Screenshots - on a lighter note

1999-10-22 Thread Deidre L. Calarco
> I feel a distinctly > unfriendly atmosphere if I walk into a place that has girlie pictures all > over the walls. I do not think that most places (unless clearly > demarcated) that are inviting to both males and females generally have > adult pictures plastered up. > > Cat Actually, it just te

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread Terri Oda
> Vinnie ( a little tired of being called 'PC' <- which in most cases is > meaningless and is generally not something I self-identify as, every > frickin' time she challenges the damn status quo) Well, better to be called PC than "too sensitive" -- I get that one pretty often when I complain tha

Re: [issues] Screenshots (Issues and non?Answers:)

1999-10-22 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Fri, 22 Oct 1999, Steve Kudlak wrote: > And I can see all the points, of how it is nice not to be looked at by a > single metric or measure "(s)he's cute..." Although I guess I am not hit > on all that much seriously, so I tended to see someone's advances to me, > in a positive or amusing ligh

Re: [issues] Screenshots (Issues and non?Answers:)

1999-10-22 Thread Amanda Knox
Hmm...on the topic of 'demoralizing' screenshots and locker room antics... - I think if someone has demoralizing views of the opposite sex, those views were probably put in place long before they started picking their KDE backgrounds. I don't really have a strong opinion either way when it come

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Fri, 22 Oct 1999, Caitlyn Martin wrote: > > Ok, PC being taken too far. > > Umm... no, it's not. By calling most of the women who object to your posts > "PC", you're being dismissive, both to them and the points they are trying > to make. Good point Caitlin, thanks. > > I am a male, I was

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread Dakota Surmonde
On Fri, 22 Oct 1999, J B wrote: > > God, I can't stand people who just want to pretend they're as PC as > possible. We need more nekkid men to even things up. No problem here. > > > SCREW PC.we are debilitating our society with the wishy-washy, no stand > taking, no issue addressing BUL

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread Nicole Zimmerman
> Well I have seen that sort of thing in the collegiate atmosphere. As in Dorm > Rooms, and it was weird it seemed in California to concentrate in systems, > not according to sex as much. It went up if you went to the State College > system, and less in the UC System. Now I am "globalizing a bit"

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-22 Thread Kelly Lynn Martin
On Fri, 22 Oct 1999 09:23:19 -0500, Aaron Malone <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: >hehe... you mean after ranting about Malda's ego and bad journalism, >you still post there? Not recently. :) Kelly [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linuxchix.org

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread jenn
Kelly Lynn Martin wrote: > > On Thu, 21 Oct 1999 23:54:38 -0400, Brendan/Coolian <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: > > >Oh, hell. It's amazing how quickly people want to fly off the handle > >on a crusade. My comment was trying to remind you that this is > >America and it sucks sometimes... It is?

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-22 Thread Aaron Malone
On Fri, Oct 22, 1999 at 09:28:38AM -0500, Kelly Lynn Martin wrote: > Kelly (and, yes, nearly all of my slashdot articles get moderated up > to at least a 2...) hehe... you mean after ranting about Malda's ego and bad journalism, you still post there? ;) -- Aaron Malone ([EMAIL PROTECTED]) System

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread Kelly Lynn Martin
On Thu, 21 Oct 1999 23:54:38 -0400, Brendan/Coolian <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: >Oh, hell. It's amazing how quickly people want to fly off the handle >on a crusade. My comment was trying to remind you that this is >America and it sucks sometimes... And this is why we should just sit around and i

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-22 Thread Kelly Lynn Martin
On Thu, 21 Oct 1999 22:40:44 -0500, Aaron Malone <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: >Better statement: ./ with a comment threshold of 2 or 3 represents >the geek/linux community. At least, that part of it with which I'm >familiar. More accurately, it represents that subset that is sufficiently literate

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread Steve Kudlak
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Brendan said: > I was "in" a quilting circle with an uncle >once... Oh please.  This reminds me of the time I had one of my high school students tell me that he missed his math test because he was nursing a friend through the bubonic plague.  ;-) [EMAIL PRO

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread Steve Kudlak
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > Steve Kudlak wrote: > > I wrote: > > > 2. I was unclear with 'primarily interested in sex (or mate location)'. No, > > > I was not saying that are the same activity, but they are the two primary > > > goals of people at a certain stage of life. > > > Brief Answer, wel

Re: [issues] Screenshots (Issues and non?Answers:)

1999-10-22 Thread Steve Kudlak
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > Steve Kudlak wrote: > > > > Brendan/Coolian wrote: > > > > > > My dad gave me some advice once on how to handle people that > > > >treated me differently because of who I was,"Screw 'em." If you > > > > > > WaitI think I feel somethingyes...It's a smile.

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread venable
Brendan said: > I was "in" a quilting circle with an uncle >once... Oh please. This reminds me of the time I had one of my high school students tell me that he missed his math test because he was nursing a friend through the bubonic plague. ;-) [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linu

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread Caitlyn Martin
> Ok, PC being taken too far. Umm... no, it's not. By calling most of the women who object to your posts "PC", you're being dismissive, both to them and the points they are trying to make. > That seems like a rather "looking-for-a-fight" remark. Funny, that's how I've seen many of your posts.

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread Caitlyn Martin
> > >"Yes, I *am* in technical support. No, there isn't somebody more > >knowledgeable you can talk to." > > > That stinks. But I know the feeling. For me, it has nothing to do with > gender. It's from the tone of voice...That vacant "I'm reading from a > script" kind of voice That wasn't the

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread J B
God, I can't stand people who just want to pretend they're as PC as possible. We need more nekkid men to even things up. No problem here. SCREW PC.we are debilitating our society with the wishy-washy, no stand taking, no issue addressing BULLSHIT! __

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread jenn
Steve Kudlak wrote: > I wrote: > > 2. I was unclear with 'primarily interested in sex (or mate location)'. No, > > I was not saying that are the same activity, but they are the two primary > > goals of people at a certain stage of life. > Brief Answer, well it's sort of brief. Well one thing that

Re: [issues] Screenshots (Issues and non?Answers:)

1999-10-22 Thread jenn
Steve Kudlak wrote: > > Brendan/Coolian wrote: > > > > My dad gave me some advice once on how to handle people that > > >treated me differently because of who I was,"Screw 'em." If you > > > > WaitI think I feel somethingyes...It's a smile. > > > > Good post. More toughness instead

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread Steve Kudlak
Nicole Zimmerman wrote: > > I find that to be a rather sexist remark! > > > > *smile* > > God, I can't stand people who just want to pretend they're as PC as > > possible. We need more nekkid men to even things up. No problem here. > > neither theme has nekkid anything... > > the keanu theme

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-22 Thread Steve Kudlak
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > I've goofed twice in this thread, for which I apologise. > > 1. I used 'older, wiser' - I intended 'more mature, wiser' in the sense of > 'possessed of a greater maturity level'. Apology. > > 2. I was unclear with 'primarily interested in sex (or mate location)'. No,

Re: [issues] Screenshots (Issues and non?Answers:)

1999-10-22 Thread Steve Kudlak
Brendan/Coolian wrote: > > My dad gave me some advice once on how to handle people that > >treated me differently because of who I was,"Screw 'em." If you > > WaitI think I feel somethingyes...It's a smile. > > Good post. More toughness instead of whininess. > > Brendan > > **

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, Brendan/Coolian wrote: > >That seems like a rather sexist remark. Not that quilters are primarily > >women (I wouldn't know) but that it is a traditional women's craft. > > Ok, PC being taken too far. > That seems like a rather "looking-for-a-fight" remark. Sometimes a ciga

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Nicole Zimmerman
> I find that to be a rather sexist remark! > > *smile* > God, I can't stand people who just want to pretend they're as PC as > possible. We need more nekkid men to even things up. No problem here. neither theme has nekkid anything... the keanu theme only shows his face... and the duchovny th

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Brendan/Coolian
> > > Man, some people are as boring as a quilting circle. > >(I deleted the original messages so I'm responding here) > >That seems like a rather sexist remark. Not that quilters are primarily >women (I wouldn't know) but that it is a traditional women's craft. Ok, PC being taken too far. That

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Brendan/Coolian
>well, if you like Keanu Reeves or David Duchovny you can go down load >the WindowMaker themes I created a few months ago. They're in the >People category. If you like purple leporad skin, then the Duchovny >one is a must have. I find that to be a rather sexist remark! *smile* God, I can't s

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Brendan/Coolian
>I've goofed twice in this thread, for which I apologise. Don't worry about it. This thread is falling all over itself in its' search to be the most PC possible. Just go with the flow. B [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linuxchix.org

Re: [issues] Screenshots (Issues and non?Answers:)

1999-10-21 Thread Brendan/Coolian
> My dad gave me some advice once on how to handle people that >treated me differently because of who I was,"Screw 'em." If you WaitI think I feel somethingyes...It's a smile. Good post. More toughness instead of whininess. Brendan [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.l

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Brendan/Coolian
>"Yes, I *am* in technical support. No, there isn't somebody more >knowledgeable you can talk to." That stinks. But I know the feeling. For me, it has nothing to do with gender. It's from the tone of voice...That vacant "I'm reading from a script" kind of voice... "Sir, load the cd-rom i

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Brendan/Coolian
> > I guess I've lived a limited life. > >Have you been to ANY quilting circle? Yes, actually. Quilting hurt my fingers... [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linuxchix.org

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Brendan/Coolian
> > Try another community section if you don't like the one you're in. > > You don't go into the red light section of Las Vegas if you're looking for > > Chucky Cheese. Welcome to America. > >What I'd like to say to you is rude and is a flame, so I'll tone it down. I >will say this: you are a

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-21 Thread Aaron Malone
> > > According to the /. readership reaction described on the > > > lists a while ago (I havent' read them myself) it is a > > > waste of time or effort to care about it. > > > > Well, to my knowledge they are a fairly good cross section of linux users. > > And geeks in general. > > If the linu

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Brendan/Coolian
>there is >no way I could ever get my little old church lady aunts to not comment >about it. I mean I complained after they found a picture of a friend, his Good post...but I'm so tired that halfway through reading it...I was dropping off... "snore...little old ladydroolsnorepictu

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Brendan/Coolian
>raised in a little town in Michigan's upper peninsula) tends to see women as >other people first, and as sex objects only as a secondary thing only if he Good. We need more of them. Brendan [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linuxchix.org

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-21 Thread jenn
Vinnie Surmonde wrote: > > According to the /. readership reaction described on the > > lists a while ago (I havent' read them myself) it is a > > waste of time or effort to care about it. > > Well, to my knowledge they are a fairly good cross section of linux users. > And geeks in general. If

Re: [issues] Screenshots (Issues and non?Answers:)

1999-10-21 Thread Lacey Stewart
I just have to say this: I deal with sexism, discrimination, injustice, etc. everyday at work. I'm the only technicial female (and under 21) at my workplace where only 8% of the staff are female (and most of them are secretaries). The rest are old, crusty male engineers that don't know

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread jenn
Ingrid Schupbach wrote: > Further, I wanted to tell you that I emailed one gentleman who advertised > his background-changing applet with screenshots replete with pin-ups. > After a bit of email discussion, we decided that I would install his > applet and send him pictures of my desktop. Seems l

Re: [issues] Screenshots (Issues and non?Answers:)

1999-10-21 Thread jenn
Steve Kudlak wrote: > I even find curious > that polite things like "Scientifc American" describe the looks of > scientists who are women more than men. YES! > I mean > "Does Linux Promotion have to look like a beer commercial for guys." This is a serious question, and one which - IMO -

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread jenn
I've goofed twice in this thread, for which I apologise. 1. I used 'older, wiser' - I intended 'more mature, wiser' in the sense of 'possessed of a greater maturity level'. Apology. 2. I was unclear with 'primarily interested in sex (or mate location)'. No, I was not saying that are the same a

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Lacey Stewart
> Date: Wed, 20 Oct 1999 12:40:31 -0400 (EDT) > From: Ingrid Schupbach <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > To:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Subject: [issues] Screenshots > Reply-to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > BEWARE! THE MESSAGE BELOW IS AN ANGRY RANT: > > I am fed-up with all these

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-21 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, Jernej Zajc wrote: > > then I > > believe there needs to be a change in the horny-male-geeks-only atmosphere > > that's awfully pervasive. I'm tired of being asked whether I'm a > > perky-breasted-Linux-chick, and I'm tired of endless references to penises > > and to porn in

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Wed, 20 Oct 1999, Dakota Surmonde wrote: > see, I don't think nude='adult' (or sexual -- actually, I saw one of my > favorite calvin and hobbes today -- the one where calvin is looking at > the movie listings and asks hobbes " 'contains adult situations'? What > are adult situations?" and hob

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Wed, 20 Oct 1999, Ingrid Schupbach wrote: > On Wed, 20 Oct 1999, Brendan/Coolian wrote: > > > Man, some people are as boring as a quilting circle. (I deleted the original messages so I'm responding here) That seems like a rather sexist remark. Not that quilters are primarily women (I wouldn

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Wed, 20 Oct 1999, Brendan/Coolian wrote: > > > Man, some people are as boring as a quilting circle. Just categorize the > > > >You've obviously never been to some of the quilting cirlce's I've been > > I guess I've lived a limited life. Have you been to ANY quilting circle? -- _Deirdre

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-21 Thread Vinnie Surmonde
On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, Jernej Zajc wrote: > Warning: a very long post indeed. heh. I'm glad to know I'm not the only person prone to those :) > I'm not sure if it has to be inviting to everyone. Nothing Hmm..maybe inviting is the wrong word -- how about 'not hostile'? (BTW, ingrid, I don't mean

RE: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-21 Thread Rikki McGinty
wow. hear hear. > -Original Message- > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]On > Behalf Of Ingrid Schupbach > > What about changing your nick? > > Changing my nick is not an option. I am proud of who I am; I am proud to > be a female linux user. If it's true that women ge

Re: Metadiscussion (was: Re: [issues] Screenshots)

1999-10-21 Thread Deb Richardson
> I think it's clearly related to the issue of sexism in Linux > development circles, which I thought was a major reason for > LinuxChix.org existing. Quite. Issues is meant for meta-discussions such as these. If you want purely technical talk, there's "techtalk", and for random "whatever" conv

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-21 Thread Ingrid Schupbach
On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, Jernej Zajc wrote: > > > I > > believe there needs to be a change in the horny-male-geeks-only atmosphere > > that's awfully pervasive. I'm tired of being asked whether I'm a > > perky-breasted-Linux-chick, and I'm tired of endless references to penises > > and to porn in L

Re: [issues] Screenshots (long)

1999-10-21 Thread Jernej Zajc
Warning: a very long post indeed. Ingrid Schupbach wrote: > > [...] If there > really is a commitment to making Linux inviting to everyone, I'm not sure if it has to be inviting to everyone. Nothing ever is and same it is for Linux. The whole effort is developer-driven and despite KDE and simil

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Caitlyn Martin
Hi, Brendan, > Again, I say. > Try another community section if you don't like the one you're in. > You don't go into the red light section of Las Vegas if you're looking for > Chucky Cheese. Welcome to America. What I'd like to say to you is rude and is a flame, so I'll tone it down. I will s

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Steve Kudlak
At 09:25 AM 10/21/99 +0800, Deidre L. Calarco wrote: >> Is this a new idea? You get the impression because it's a fact. >> Men are built this way, it's the whole nature thing. > >Actually, I've noticed that some men who grew up somewhat isolated from >mainstream culture aren't that way. For inst

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-21 Thread Deidre L. Calarco
> Is this a new idea? You get the impression because it's a fact. > Men are built this way, it's the whole nature thing. Actually, I've noticed that some men who grew up somewhat isolated from mainstream culture aren't that way. For instance, my boyfriend (who was raised in a little town in Mic

Re: [issues] Screenshots (Issues and non?Answers:)

1999-10-21 Thread Steve Kudlak
Well this is my feelings and not so humble opinion on all of these nice topics, issues and metaissues. Ok, for one I think and feel this is the right place to discuss these broad things. I mean especially such issues as "if Steve makes a page that looks Babe-O-Rama pix to him, with with his tastes

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-20 Thread Dakota Surmonde
On Wed, 20 Oct 1999, Brendan/Coolian wrote: > I guess I've lived a limited life. That wasn't exactly my point > Those should be categorized under adult for anything involving unclad > bodies...Lump it into the Adult category, and then subdivide for > "scantily-clad, nude, sex" see, I don

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-20 Thread Kelly Lynn Martin
On Wed, 20 Oct 1999 23:27:19 -0400, Brendan/Coolian <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: >>I don't buy this. The privilege of degrading women is something >>that men are taught they have from an early age, not something which >>men have no choice but to do as a consequence of their genes. >Amazing that yo

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-20 Thread Brendan/Coolian
> > Man, some people are as boring as a quilting circle. Just categorize the > >You've obviously never been to some of the quilting cirlce's I've been I guess I've lived a limited life. > > damn themesNo one can take exception to seeing anything they don't > want > > to see then. Issue c

Re: Metadiscussion (was: Re: [issues] Screenshots)

1999-10-20 Thread Brendan/Coolian
> >uhm, not that this issue isn't fascinating, but is it really that > >relevant to this mailing list? it's gotten very far away from > >anything Linux-related. > >I think it's clearly related to the issue of sexism in Linux >development circles, which I thought was a major reason for >LinuxChix.

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-20 Thread Brendan/Coolian
>Actually, for a lot of women (and probably a good number of men) a >quilting circle is not boring in the least. In this discussion >particularly, I would think it wise to choose your expressions carefully. Not really...I am treating this discussion like I would any other, with ease, not stres

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-20 Thread Brendan/Coolian
> >Is this a new idea? You get the impression because it's a fact. Men > >are built this way, it's the whole nature thing. > >I don't buy this. The privilege of degrading women is something that >men are taught they have from an early age, not something which men >have no choice but to do as a

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-20 Thread Brendan/Coolian
>See that's the great thing about the world. Your idea of tasteful is >obviously different from mine. I think that's funny as hell. You obviously >don't :) I can see the humor...tasteful? Maybe not to me, but the guy/girl who posted it obviously liked it. Besides, women in scrawny Linux swims

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-20 Thread Kelly Lynn Martin
On Wed, 20 Oct 1999 22:30:44 -0400 (EDT), Ingrid Schupbach <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: >I too attend law school, and I too believe freedom of speech is >incredibly important. But I'm also in favor of speaking out when >others are being hurtful and thoughtless. Well, the "free speech market" dep

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-20 Thread Ingrid Schupbach
On Wed, 20 Oct 1999, Brendan/Coolian wrote: > Man, some people are as boring as a quilting circle. Actually, for a lot of women (and probably a good number of men) a quilting circle is not boring in the least. In this discussion particularly, I would think it wise to choose your expressions c

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-20 Thread Sio
On Wed, 20 Oct 1999, Kelly Lynn Martin wrote: > On Wed, 20 Oct 1999 11:34:26 -0600 (MDT), Sio <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: > > >As a woman, I still really enjoy looking at pretty people. Male AND > >female. Not to mention, when I go to themes.org to look for a theme, > >I am looking at the THEME,

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-20 Thread Kelly Lynn Martin
On Wed, 20 Oct 1999 17:24:01 -0400, Brendan/Coolian <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: >Is this a new idea? You get the impression because it's a fact. Men >are built this way, it's the whole nature thing. I don't buy this. The privilege of degrading women is something that men are taught they have

Metadiscussion (was: Re: [issues] Screenshots)

1999-10-20 Thread Kelly Lynn Martin
On Wed, 20 Oct 1999 17:44:08 -0400, "Rikki McGinty" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: >uhm, not that this issue isn't fascinating, but is it really that >relevant to this mailing list? it's gotten very far away from >anything Linux-related. I think it's clearly related to the issue of sexism in Linux de

Re: [issues] Screenshots

1999-10-20 Thread Vinnie Surmonde
On Wed, 20 Oct 1999, Brendan/Coolian wrote: > Man, some people are as boring as a quilting circle. Just categorize the You've obviously never been to some of the quilting cirlce's I've been > damn themesNo one can take exception to seeing anything they don't want > to see then. Issue cl

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