Re: [issues] "Female Hackers Battle Sexism [...]"

2000-06-12 Thread Jenn V.
tables where an interesting wargame (board type only) was going on. "Can you teach me how to play this?"* Only ever worked the first time I met any given bunch of guys. But BOY I enjoyed it... Jenn V. * For people who don't quite understand what was going on: I was usually mistak

[issues] At what point is it sexism...

2000-06-13 Thread Jenn V.
to them that you /do/ believe they know the difference between cat5 and 10baseT. Then flirt while handing them screws and letting them install your new ethernet card. (* if anyone's interested in why, there's diabetes in my family. I'd like to not have to stick myself wit

[issues] FAQ posting

2000-06-13 Thread Jenn V.
http://download.sourceforge.net/linuxchix-faqs/issues.html I've quoted the URL for the HTMLised version of the FAQ, rather than the main FAQ. Please note that the internal links are broken, my docbook stylesheet for HTML doesn't seem to understand relative links. I spologise for th

Re: [issues] At what point is it sexism...

2000-06-13 Thread Jenn V.
Alexander Sendzimir wrote: > > "Jenn V." wrote: > > > 2. Power. > > If one party has power over the other - financial, managerial, > > uni-results, force of personality - then it becomes terribly, > > terribly awkward for the one without power. >

Re: [issues] At what point is it sexism...

2000-06-13 Thread Jenn V.
srl wrote: > Or "if you're really loyal to this company, you'll work 70 hours a > week," which IMO is a far more common statement and gets aimed > equally at everyone when it's used. I got 'well, you're not married and you don't have children..

Re: [issues] At what point is it sexism...

2000-06-14 Thread Jenn V.
Kirrily 'Skud' Robert wrote: > > In article <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>, Alexander Sendzimir wrote: > >"Jenn V." wrote: > > > >> 2. Power. > >> If one party has power over the other - financial, managerial, > >> uni-results, force o

Re: [issues] Standards?? PHOOEY!!!

2000-06-29 Thread Jenn V.
V signals, you'd have to buy NBC's TV to see NBC programs, but it wouldn't necessarily display CNN's. I approve of backwards compatibility - to a point. But only to a point. And precisely where that point is, I can't say. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing t

Re: [issues] Standards?? PHOOEY!!!

2000-06-30 Thread Jenn V.
ne Abbott C.E.T. MSEE, DSM Ahem. Lots of letters after her name. I'm impressed. Is this an attempt to use the 'appeal-to-authority' logical fallacy? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

[issues] Standards - Palo Alto

2000-06-30 Thread Jenn V.
that standards don't affect research and experimentation. Only marketplace implementation. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn

Re: [issues] Standards?? PHOOEY!!!

2000-06-30 Thread Jenn V.
JoAnne Abbott wrote: > Jenn V wrote: > > Could you define the difference between a protocol and a standard? > > A protocol is a generalised consensus of the way something is done. > > A standard is so many meters, liters or lines of code. Sorry, I disagree with

Re: [techtalk] Re: [issues] Standards?? PHOOEY!!!

2000-06-30 Thread Jenn V.
s no authority to make ME use programs or protocols. Jenn V. (The Australian government, yes. The US? No.) -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/

Re: [issues] Re: Incident on a tram

2000-07-09 Thread Jenn V.
wirren wrote: > > By tram you mean streetcar, right? Well, I don't know what a streetcar is. I do know what a tram is. :) It's 'light rail' - single carriage railed vehicles about the size of buses, which run on rails set into the road. Apologies for the off-topi

Re: Fw: [issues] Screenshots - on a lighter note

1999-10-24 Thread Jenn V.
7;t your intention, but it's taking a lot of self-control not to rise to what really, REALLY looks like flamebait. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.

Re: [issues] Why women should have equality/equivilency

1999-11-10 Thread Jenn V.
playing 'monopoly' cooperatively with someone playing it competitively and see how far you get. > I realize this is mostly a discussion about corporate practices, but that > doesn't mean we have to resort to generalizations about "what men do" and > "what

Re: [issues] OFFTOPIC: Re: your mail

1999-12-05 Thread Jenn V.
ate programming method. But saying I can effectively program that way would be like saying I have brown eyes. Completely wrong. Not 'better' or 'worse'. Just wrong. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women&#x

Re: [issues] OFFTOPIC: Re: your mail

1999-12-06 Thread Jenn V.
Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > > On Mon, 6 Dec 1999, Jenn V. wrote: > > > I had not intended to stereotype, and I /definately/ was not intending to > > slur a very valid and often appropriate programming method. But saying I > > can effectively program that way would

Re: [issues] Prototype vs. design

1999-12-06 Thread Jenn V.
e are formal design documents? Not a great deal - *once design is reflexive*. But they're great for teaching someone to design reflexively, and they can be very useful as a communication tool. (Here, look at this. This is how the program works.) Jenn V. -- "We're repairing

Re: [issues] Prototype vs. design

1999-12-06 Thread Jenn V.
d finance pitch. :) > I'm lucky - I've been too ill to work full time, so I've been able to get other people to do the sales and finance pitch guff. :) But my doctor's making me well, so I'm going to be able to work full time... so .. ewww. Interaction with suits. :/

Re: [issues] Prototype vs. design

1999-12-06 Thread Jenn V.
together. And why is it 'more sophisticated'? I'm genuinely curious - this isn't intended as a criticism, flame, or whatever else it might be taken as. It's asking. Cause I don't get it. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear

Re: [issues] Prototype vs. design

1999-12-07 Thread Jenn V.
op and look for books in the Comp Sci section with titles like 'the specification of complex systems'. I could recommend my old textbooks, except that they're ten years old and doubtless wy out of date. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a n

Re: [issues] Prototype vs. design

1999-12-07 Thread Jenn V.
ithms, language families, more advanced techniques. Third year was application of what we'd learned, professionalism, specialisation. Bachelor of Informatics, Griffith Uni, Australia - if anyone's that interested. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusi

Re: [issues] Pet peeve

1999-12-07 Thread Jenn V.
nt No Sich Critter As A Female Geek. Marketing Axiom Jenn V. (And now I take my tongue out of my cheek.) -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. htt

[issues] FAQ & Freudian Typos

1999-12-12 Thread Jenn V.
es. We've had a volunteer to do techtalk, so I've forwarded her the questions I've been sent so far and am letting her take that on. Gratefully! So. Suggestions gleefully taken for questions for grrltalk and issues. Either send them to me, or (if you want to get answers fast) t

Re: [issues] FAQ & Freudian Typos

1999-12-15 Thread Jenn V.
pies" then only the fact that I've just >moved to a different country would save me from getting a good kicking [smiles sweetly] ... Anyone calling me a groupie or an IRC babe just because I've got a socket rather than a plug ... Jenn V. -- "We're repairing

Re: [issues] Attitudes in the workplace

1999-12-18 Thread Jenn V.
Louise wrote: > > So, I'm sure other people run into the same kind of thing. What do you > do? Personally? I shrug and accept language lag. Go ahead and use 'Ladies'. It'll encourage language to catch up to reality. :) Jenn V. -- "We're repairi

Re: [issues] Patents (was: RMS boycott of Amazon)

1999-12-18 Thread Jenn V.
out. (yeah, 'our'. I count chewing it over with him while theoretically watching 'Buffy' to be work.) So .. is it wrong for us to investigate patents/copyright/whatever? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women

Re: [issues] Patents (was: RMS boycott of Amazon)

1999-12-18 Thread Jenn V.
paid for it or not. He crosses that clause out. But if you sign a contract with such a clause - don't do anything profitable in your off hours! Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

Re: [issues] list of women in open source

1999-12-20 Thread Jenn V.
female (Amberyl and Brandy), and one is gender unknown-to-me. I'm not really as well-qualified as Telsa seems to think I am - I've been MUSHing for ages, but it often seems like it's mostly among the same group of people. :/ (you go to a new MUSH, start getting to know people, a

Re: [issues] Despotic Demographics RANT

1999-12-23 Thread Jenn V.
constantly having to tell people you don't like team sports. And they don't believe you. Now imagine that you constantly had to tell people you /do/ like computers. And they don't believe you. Now - please, PLEASE, help us figure out how to get people to believe us.

Re: [issues] Despotic Demographics RANT (LONG)

1999-12-28 Thread Jenn V.
behaviour only changes when the enforcer is watching ). Enforcement is occasionally necessary, when education has failed. > In the most carefully controlled environment, with nothing left to chance, any given > organism will do exactly as it damn well pleases :) Mmm. I'

Re: [issues] Re; Despotic Demographics

2000-01-02 Thread Jenn V.
that answers to the above will address not only the problem of > women's under-representation in computing, but that of a great many others > as well. ANY group who can't get into computing for reasons other than lack-of-interest is of interest to me/us. Jenn V. -- "We'r

Re: [issues] Re; Despotic Demographics

2000-01-02 Thread Jenn V.
out wishlists. It's got the Departments and the local Telco interested in making sure there's computers available to both teachers and students in /every/ school. Including primary. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women&

Re: [issues] Re; Despotic Demographics

2000-01-03 Thread Jenn V.
start learning. Self-taught can actually be better-taught. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn Vesperman[EMAIL PROTECTED]

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-04 Thread Jenn V.
ll guess what: we're not advocating demographics as a measure of who should be doing what. We want /fair/ opportunities. For everyone. > PS: > > BTW, I get a little > emotional about the two items under "bad", so I apologise if my tone is offensive. It's not the to

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics and such

2000-01-04 Thread Jenn V.
hat people assumed this about us? > Incidentally, what TZ are you in? Your replies come back quite quickly. Australia. Eastern Daylight time, in Australia. > "Jenn V." wrote: > > > They (demographics) are NOT a creation of the women who are trying to get >ourselves and &g

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics and such

2000-01-05 Thread Jenn V.
Jenn V. wrote: > > > They are NOT a creation of the women who are trying to get ourselves and > > > our children a fair chance in the world. Simon wrote: > > Are you sure you speak for that entire group of women? > > I see that they are not something you appro

Re: [issues] Demographics (super long story)

2000-01-05 Thread Jenn V.
ing that. It really makes it feel like we're getting somewhere. Like my niece will be welcome in Comp Sci if that's what she wants to do. (She's 3 now, a touch early to know!) Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is

Re: [issues] Demographics (super long story)

2000-01-05 Thread Jenn V.
e! They know Dancer bounces ideas off me, and are happy with that. Hm. Is this the sort of thing? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-07 Thread Jenn V.
ing and discussing anecdotes can't help make things more equal. I also feel that how we cope with our individual situations can give other people methods for coping with theirs, and can make them feel less alone. If I have developed a way to prove my competence quickly, and to stop being

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-07 Thread Jenn V.
ion. Caveat: this is the perception of someone from another country, based on media stuff. I suspect that Hilary Clinton wouldn't have pushed Bill to the White House if she felt she could make a good stab at it herself! The best she felt she could realistically achieve for herself was F

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-08 Thread Jenn V.
Cat wrote: > > Ah, but I (as a 23-year-old who was in eighth grade in the late 80's) > remember very well a choice between taking shop or taking home ec. You had a choice? Wow. We didn't. Home ec it was, if you had inward-pointing genitalia. Shop if it pointed out. J

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-08 Thread Jenn V.
Cat wrote: > On Sun, 9 Jan 2000, Jenn V. wrote: > Wow -- so there has been progress! ;-) > > To me, that experience was exactly the sort of thing that women are > talking about when they talk about the fact that even though > certain opportunities seem to exist, in a signific

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-10 Thread Jenn V.
ible. Learn the reasons women leave jobs, and effectively negate them, and gee, how much retraining money would be saved? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.pu

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-10 Thread Jenn V.
o with her husband? And there were no skeletons in the closets of - oh - any of the Kennedy men? Or ... Clinton? Can you /honestly/ tell me this was any worse than all your male presidents? Or is there a double standard? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-10 Thread Jenn V.
more willing to accept bad treatment than women are? That women demand fair and honest treatment from their employers, and men don't? Now isn't that interesting! Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-13 Thread Jenn V.
use it was a poor district, but I did have good access to a library. So yes, reading may be one of the determining factors. It certainly made me stand out as 'wierd' at school Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is

Re: [issues] Re: Mr., Mrs., Miss, Dr. or Sir

2000-01-13 Thread Jenn V.
rriageable age (when she made her 'debut'), but after she was married - after all the local Hoi Polloi had met, discussed her, decided who she would wed, and had her safely wed. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women&#

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-14 Thread Jenn V.
then would liven > > things up, methinks. > > As soon as they make one with lots of pockets, I'm there. Lots of pockets. Practical sorts of skirts - ones you can walk in, run in, and sit down cross-legged on the floor in. Hm. Maybe this is why I wear jeans? Jenn V. -- "

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-15 Thread Jenn V.
ining has been sewn in place. Eesh. WHY are there no pockets in women's clothes? Are we assumed to not want to carry things? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall.

Re: [issues] Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discovers LinuxChix

2000-01-24 Thread Jenn V.
ments/whatever. And I don't know any way to explain to them /how/ these exist. Especially since I can often see causes in their own actions. Sigh. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

[issues] Blind Spots about reality (was: Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discoversLinuxChix)

2000-01-30 Thread Jenn V.
Terri Oda wrote: > Jenn V. wrote: > >Mmmhmm. IMO (and YMMV) some people can't perceive that there is still > >discrimination/are still offputting environments/whatever. And I don't know > >any way to explain to them /how/ these exist. Especially since I can o

Re: [issues] Skud's new article on geek chicks..

2000-02-10 Thread Jenn V.
l women and a select group of men (eg, this list) take as base assumptions from which to work. 2. A hell of a lot of people, of both genders, never reach this point. 3. Almost everything so far is questions. We don't have answers either. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the cool

Re: [issues] Skud's new article on geek chicks..

2000-02-10 Thread Jenn V.
ke charge of the male change. If you have ideas for things women CAN do, though.. I'd love to know them. Other than 'be present and visible and competent', I'm fresh out Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor.

[issues] Politically correct (was: Mm? Quotas?)

2000-02-10 Thread Jenn V.
> Sunnan (geek chicks really politically correct? Oh well..) Works for me - so long as its meant to indicate 'geek which happens to have XX chromosomes'. What will we call the guys? Geek blokes? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion react

Re: [issues] Skud's new article on geek chicks..

2000-02-11 Thread Jenn V.
Rik Hemsley wrote: > > #if Jenn V. > > In my experience, though, if females attempt to change male > > behaviour - the male behaviour gets worse. So I'm inclined to let > > the males who /are/ sympathetic//equalist take charge of the male > > change. >

Re: [issues] Re; Skud's new article on geek chicks

2000-02-12 Thread Jenn V.
x27;s wrong with the thing that's broken, and leading them to figuring out a potential repair. Once they've repaired one thing, it gets easier to lead them to repairing the next one. Once they've repaired four or five things, they're into how /good/ it /feels/ to be competent!

Re: [issues] Car or not? (Was, re; Skud's new article...)

2000-02-12 Thread Jenn V.
m to it, and (best of all) trips to the mountains/forest/bushland. It's useful enough to have it that we keep it, but it's used only where shanks' pony and public transport won't take us. Bit of a best-of-both-worlds situation. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coola

Re: [issues] Re; Skud's new article on geek chicks

2000-02-14 Thread Jenn V.
Terri Oda wrote: > You're a menace to society as we know it, Jenn. That rocks. :) (bows) Thank you. Thank you. And for my next trick.. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-15 Thread Jenn V.
27;. So long as you give them thinking time and don't frustrate them with too many questions too quickly, it seems to work well. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn Vesperman[EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.simegen.com/~jenn [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linuxchix.org

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-16 Thread Jenn V.
iddle of a tutorial? Happened to me. > Do you feel somewhat aprehensive or uncomfortable in a male mojority > learning environment? Absolutely. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Free

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-16 Thread Jenn V.
rs ago) to advance by marriage or by picking a management-type career. Engineering always has been* an indirect and uncertain path to social status. * for century sized values of 'always' Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. T

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-16 Thread Jenn V.
Kirrily 'Skud' Robert wrote: > > In article <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>, Jenn V. wrote: > >One is a hacker - she does it because she loves it. She isn't paid a hell > >of a lot, but that's because she owns a startup company. She's happy, if >

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-17 Thread Jenn V.
em, and who are > intelligent. I'm surprised you ahve troulbe finding a date given you > clearly fit all 3 criteria. You think so? In my experience, I intimidate both genders. So I'm uncomfortable around anyone of /either/ gender who isn't a geek. And I even intimidate ge

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-20 Thread Jenn V.
ishment as it is (medical diet). Greenie: semi-inactive. I do what I can within the life I have. Hippie: nope. Queer: I'm bi. Everyone thinks I'm queer... Geek: absolutely. (Though working at Netizen I start to wonder if I'm really as geeky as I thought.) Jenn V. -- "We

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-21 Thread Jenn V.
. But we didn't 'date'. Roleplayed, talked (and fought) computers, saw the occasional good film (Labyrinth, when it first came out) but didn't date. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-21 Thread Jenn V.
outs (down here, at least) apparently tend to be very smoke. My bi and lesbian friends refuse to take me. (I have trouble with two or three people smoking in a ventilated room. Severely sensitive to it.) (Yes, I did wind up with gay friends. And a couple of them know computers!) Jenn V. -- "

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-21 Thread Jenn V.
her Melbourne-folk on this list. :) Lets make Melbourne an enclave of Linux-wielding hippie geek vegan dykes - and those who don't quite fit that description. (linux-wielding hippie geek vegan males are welcome too. And those who don't quite fit...) Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-21 Thread Jenn V.
made me cry. Not bad-crying, but 'someone else knows how it feels' crying. Yes. Exactly. That's what it is. That's me. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-22 Thread Jenn V.
Rik Hemsley wrote: > Jenn V. wrote: > > The same as for a bi women. Bi or bisexual. > > That's crap though. We need two new words, one for bi women, one for > bi men. Then make everyone in the world aware of them and they move > into common use. Reckon that can be don

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-22 Thread Jenn V.
ormal font size settings". Raises her hand. Me. That'd include me! Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn Vesperman[EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.simegen.com/~jenn [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linuxchix.org

Re: [issues] Re; YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-22 Thread Jenn V.
.." if necessary. Or I take him aside privately at lunchtime and tell him what he's doing. Depends on how I'm feeling, and suchlike. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

[issues] Religion (was: YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article))

2000-02-23 Thread Jenn V.
e there annoys me to no end. Religion != Christianity. I'm not christian. I am religious. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn

Re: [issues] Religion (was: YAFGA...)

2000-02-24 Thread Jenn V.
is a "sense of wonder" > > apprehension of the infinite complexity which is entirely built upon the > > basis of 1 and 0. Yup. Or the sense of wonder at the infinite complexity built on protons, neutrons and electrons... Or the sense of wonder at colour... Or at .. J

[issues] Slashdot article - last question

2000-03-27 Thread Jenn V.
Hm. I just thought of an answer for the last question ('how do you justify linuxchix?'). 'I justify it the same way I justify any Open Source project: I perceived a need, and I created something to fill that need.' ... thoughts? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing

[issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-03-30 Thread Jenn V.
quire them to be comfortable around computers. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn Vesperma

Re: [issues] My bad writing in "Re: Does Jane Compute"

2000-04-10 Thread Jenn V.
tivation to carry the motivations further. Um. 'Our' position is that we want to stop _QUASHING_ this spark. BTW. Your mails are datestamped 1994. :) Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

Re: [issues] My bad writing in "Re: Does Jane Compute"

2000-04-10 Thread Jenn V.
g. The shoes, the long fingernails, the hobbleskirts, the fragile stockings - they all add up, to me, to the idea 'Hey, look! I'm so rich my wife doesn't have to do a thing'. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This

Re: [issues] The burden of desirability

2000-04-10 Thread Jenn V.
won't get it in a 'logical' relationship - but in ANY relationship, that headiness goes away quickly. Solid, stable love is a deeper, quieter feeling - and yes, I have that with Dancer. And at any time, I can close my eyes and reach for it, and be overwhelmed by it. > Some

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-04-10 Thread Jenn V.
ne! Take heart from the fact that the women's networks DO exist. They're proof that you can get your networks in place. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Free