You mean I'm not the only girl that doesn't look? Of course i met my
husband on IRC.. otherwise I don't think I ever would have hooked up
with anyone. I just don't wander around looking at people that way. If
I end up attracted to someone, it is usually based on personality and
personal interactions, not appearance.
so i happily feel less weird now. :-)
bex
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>
> Conor Daly wrote:
>
> > At the same time, I'm pretty sure very few hetero females could pass a
> > rippling muscled tanned (or whatever) male without thinking of some
> > variation on "YUM!" :)
>
> Actually, I almost never notice them. Dancer notices them, and points
> them out to me, and then I go 'yes, he's nice' or 'actually, he's a
> tad too muscle-bound' or something. But on my own, I never notice.
>
> Hm. Now you've got me wondering. I've been going to the gym for months,
> and it just never occured to me to look. WOnder if there are any
> nice-looking guys there?
> (I already know there are nice guys there. As in 'friendly', 'helpful',
> 'supportive', etc. But I never noticed how they look.)
>
> And yes, I'm serious. I just /don't look/. This is why being 'looked'
> at startles and confuses me.
>
> Jenn V.
> --
> "Do you ever wonder if there's a whole section of geek culture
> you miss out on by being a geek?" - Dancer.
>
> [EMAIL PROTECTED] Jenn Vesperman http://www.simegen.com/~jenn/
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