On Wed, Apr 04, 2001 at 08:37:55PM +1000, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
> > But should it be the first thing on your mind when you meet a woman, any
> > woman. Some men have told me it's inevitable that I get sized up as a
> > sexual partner everytime I meet a heterosexual man. I don't like this.
> > And I don't like people condoning it terribly much, it's put me in some
> > awful situations.
>
> Being sized up like that always makes me feel like a piece of meet.
> That sort of feeling has GOT to be the main reason for the 'lesbian
> seperatist' type of feminism... and really, I can't blame them. I
> HATE feeling that .. icky.
> And it's NOT inevitable - I know a lot of heterosexual men who either
> don't do it or who have managed to do it privately, without generating
> the icky-feeling. (They say they don't do it. I trust them on this
> point, but admit that I'm not inside their skulls.)
I know a lot of men who don't seem to as well. But I ask them and they
say, well of course I think about having sex with every woman I see. I
mean, I'm male, aren't I?
I hope it's just bravado :)
Mary.
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