Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-07 Thread Jenn V.
ion. Caveat: this is the perception of someone from another country, based on media stuff. I suspect that Hilary Clinton wouldn't have pushed Bill to the White House if she felt she could make a good stab at it herself! The best she felt she could realistically achieve for herself was F

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-08 Thread Jenn V.
Cat wrote: > > Ah, but I (as a 23-year-old who was in eighth grade in the late 80's) > remember very well a choice between taking shop or taking home ec. You had a choice? Wow. We didn't. Home ec it was, if you had inward-pointing genitalia. Shop if it pointed out. J

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-08 Thread Jenn V.
Cat wrote: > On Sun, 9 Jan 2000, Jenn V. wrote: > Wow -- so there has been progress! ;-) > > To me, that experience was exactly the sort of thing that women are > talking about when they talk about the fact that even though > certain opportunities seem to exist, in a signific

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-10 Thread Jenn V.
ible. Learn the reasons women leave jobs, and effectively negate them, and gee, how much retraining money would be saved? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.pu

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-10 Thread Jenn V.
o with her husband? And there were no skeletons in the closets of - oh - any of the Kennedy men? Or ... Clinton? Can you /honestly/ tell me this was any worse than all your male presidents? Or is there a double standard? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-10 Thread Jenn V.
more willing to accept bad treatment than women are? That women demand fair and honest treatment from their employers, and men don't? Now isn't that interesting! Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-13 Thread Jenn V.
use it was a poor district, but I did have good access to a library. So yes, reading may be one of the determining factors. It certainly made me stand out as 'wierd' at school Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is

Re: [issues] Re: Mr., Mrs., Miss, Dr. or Sir

2000-01-13 Thread Jenn V.
rriageable age (when she made her 'debut'), but after she was married - after all the local Hoi Polloi had met, discussed her, decided who she would wed, and had her safely wed. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women&#

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-14 Thread Jenn V.
then would liven > > things up, methinks. > > As soon as they make one with lots of pockets, I'm there. Lots of pockets. Practical sorts of skirts - ones you can walk in, run in, and sit down cross-legged on the floor in. Hm. Maybe this is why I wear jeans? Jenn V. -- "

Re: [issues] Re: Demographics - Reprise

2000-01-15 Thread Jenn V.
ining has been sewn in place. Eesh. WHY are there no pockets in women's clothes? Are we assumed to not want to carry things? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall.

Re: [issues] Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discovers LinuxChix

2000-01-24 Thread Jenn V.
ments/whatever. And I don't know any way to explain to them /how/ these exist. Especially since I can often see causes in their own actions. Sigh. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

[issues] Blind Spots about reality (was: Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discoversLinuxChix)

2000-01-30 Thread Jenn V.
Terri Oda wrote: > Jenn V. wrote: > >Mmmhmm. IMO (and YMMV) some people can't perceive that there is still > >discrimination/are still offputting environments/whatever. And I don't know > >any way to explain to them /how/ these exist. Especially since I can o

Re: [issues] Skud's new article on geek chicks..

2000-02-10 Thread Jenn V.
l women and a select group of men (eg, this list) take as base assumptions from which to work. 2. A hell of a lot of people, of both genders, never reach this point. 3. Almost everything so far is questions. We don't have answers either. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the cool

Re: [issues] Skud's new article on geek chicks..

2000-02-10 Thread Jenn V.
ke charge of the male change. If you have ideas for things women CAN do, though.. I'd love to know them. Other than 'be present and visible and competent', I'm fresh out Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor.

[issues] Politically correct (was: Mm? Quotas?)

2000-02-10 Thread Jenn V.
> Sunnan (geek chicks really politically correct? Oh well..) Works for me - so long as its meant to indicate 'geek which happens to have XX chromosomes'. What will we call the guys? Geek blokes? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion react

Re: [issues] Skud's new article on geek chicks..

2000-02-11 Thread Jenn V.
Rik Hemsley wrote: > > #if Jenn V. > > In my experience, though, if females attempt to change male > > behaviour - the male behaviour gets worse. So I'm inclined to let > > the males who /are/ sympathetic//equalist take charge of the male > > change. >

Re: [issues] Re; Skud's new article on geek chicks

2000-02-12 Thread Jenn V.
x27;s wrong with the thing that's broken, and leading them to figuring out a potential repair. Once they've repaired one thing, it gets easier to lead them to repairing the next one. Once they've repaired four or five things, they're into how /good/ it /feels/ to be competent!

Re: [issues] Car or not? (Was, re; Skud's new article...)

2000-02-12 Thread Jenn V.
m to it, and (best of all) trips to the mountains/forest/bushland. It's useful enough to have it that we keep it, but it's used only where shanks' pony and public transport won't take us. Bit of a best-of-both-worlds situation. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coola

Re: [issues] Re; Skud's new article on geek chicks

2000-02-14 Thread Jenn V.
Terri Oda wrote: > You're a menace to society as we know it, Jenn. That rocks. :) (bows) Thank you. Thank you. And for my next trick.. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-15 Thread Jenn V.
27;. So long as you give them thinking time and don't frustrate them with too many questions too quickly, it seems to work well. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn Vesperman[EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.simegen.com/~jenn [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linuxchix.org

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-16 Thread Jenn V.
iddle of a tutorial? Happened to me. > Do you feel somewhat aprehensive or uncomfortable in a male mojority > learning environment? Absolutely. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Free

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-16 Thread Jenn V.
rs ago) to advance by marriage or by picking a management-type career. Engineering always has been* an indirect and uncertain path to social status. * for century sized values of 'always' Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. T

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-16 Thread Jenn V.
Kirrily 'Skud' Robert wrote: > > In article <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>, Jenn V. wrote: > >One is a hacker - she does it because she loves it. She isn't paid a hell > >of a lot, but that's because she owns a startup company. She's happy, if >

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-17 Thread Jenn V.
em, and who are > intelligent. I'm surprised you ahve troulbe finding a date given you > clearly fit all 3 criteria. You think so? In my experience, I intimidate both genders. So I'm uncomfortable around anyone of /either/ gender who isn't a geek. And I even intimidate ge

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-20 Thread Jenn V.
ishment as it is (medical diet). Greenie: semi-inactive. I do what I can within the life I have. Hippie: nope. Queer: I'm bi. Everyone thinks I'm queer... Geek: absolutely. (Though working at Netizen I start to wonder if I'm really as geeky as I thought.) Jenn V. -- "We

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-21 Thread Jenn V.
. But we didn't 'date'. Roleplayed, talked (and fought) computers, saw the occasional good film (Labyrinth, when it first came out) but didn't date. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-21 Thread Jenn V.
outs (down here, at least) apparently tend to be very smoke. My bi and lesbian friends refuse to take me. (I have trouble with two or three people smoking in a ventilated room. Severely sensitive to it.) (Yes, I did wind up with gay friends. And a couple of them know computers!) Jenn V. -- "

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-21 Thread Jenn V.
her Melbourne-folk on this list. :) Lets make Melbourne an enclave of Linux-wielding hippie geek vegan dykes - and those who don't quite fit that description. (linux-wielding hippie geek vegan males are welcome too. And those who don't quite fit...) Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-21 Thread Jenn V.
made me cry. Not bad-crying, but 'someone else knows how it feels' crying. Yes. Exactly. That's what it is. That's me. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-22 Thread Jenn V.
Rik Hemsley wrote: > Jenn V. wrote: > > The same as for a bi women. Bi or bisexual. > > That's crap though. We need two new words, one for bi women, one for > bi men. Then make everyone in the world aware of them and they move > into common use. Reckon that can be don

Re: [issues] YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-22 Thread Jenn V.
ormal font size settings". Raises her hand. Me. That'd include me! Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn Vesperman[EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.simegen.com/~jenn [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linuxchix.org

Re: [issues] Re; YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article)

2000-02-22 Thread Jenn V.
.." if necessary. Or I take him aside privately at lunchtime and tell him what he's doing. Depends on how I'm feeling, and suchlike. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

[issues] Religion (was: YAFGA (Yet Another Female Geeks Article))

2000-02-23 Thread Jenn V.
e there annoys me to no end. Religion != Christianity. I'm not christian. I am religious. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn

Re: [issues] Religion (was: YAFGA...)

2000-02-24 Thread Jenn V.
is a "sense of wonder" > > apprehension of the infinite complexity which is entirely built upon the > > basis of 1 and 0. Yup. Or the sense of wonder at the infinite complexity built on protons, neutrons and electrons... Or the sense of wonder at colour... Or at .. J

[issues] Slashdot article - last question

2000-03-27 Thread Jenn V.
Hm. I just thought of an answer for the last question ('how do you justify linuxchix?'). 'I justify it the same way I justify any Open Source project: I perceived a need, and I created something to fill that need.' ... thoughts? Jenn V. -- "We're repairing

[issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-03-30 Thread Jenn V.
quire them to be comfortable around computers. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Freefall. http://www.purrsia.com/freefall/ Jenn Vesperma

Re: [issues] My bad writing in "Re: Does Jane Compute"

2000-04-10 Thread Jenn V.
tivation to carry the motivations further. Um. 'Our' position is that we want to stop _QUASHING_ this spark. BTW. Your mails are datestamped 1994. :) Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!"

Re: [issues] My bad writing in "Re: Does Jane Compute"

2000-04-10 Thread Jenn V.
g. The shoes, the long fingernails, the hobbleskirts, the fragile stockings - they all add up, to me, to the idea 'Hey, look! I'm so rich my wife doesn't have to do a thing'. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This

Re: [issues] The burden of desirability

2000-04-10 Thread Jenn V.
won't get it in a 'logical' relationship - but in ANY relationship, that headiness goes away quickly. Solid, stable love is a deeper, quieter feeling - and yes, I have that with Dancer. And at any time, I can close my eyes and reach for it, and be overwhelmed by it. > Some

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-04-10 Thread Jenn V.
ne! Take heart from the fact that the women's networks DO exist. They're proof that you can get your networks in place. Jenn V. -- "We're repairing the coolant loop of a nuclear fusion reactor. This is women's work!" Helix, Free

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