Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-26 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Mon, 25 Oct 1999, Kelly Lynn Martin wrote: > Every cultural group should be free to make its own choices amongst > morally neutral practices (the classic example of this being whether > one cremates or buries one's dead); but no cultural group has any > right to maintain a morally reprehensibl

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-25 Thread Kelly Lynn Martin
On Mon, 25 Oct 1999 20:43:02 +0200 (CEST), Nils Philippsen <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: >I didn't mean that. If someone wants to belive in a certain religion, >that's fine. But to shove religion down people's throats whether they >want it or not is not my thing. That "law/justice positivism" >(word

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-25 Thread Nils Philippsen
On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Cat wrote: > On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Nils Philippsen wrote: > > > On Thu, 21 Oct 1999 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: [snip] > > > I hope you will also speak out whenever you hear males being sexist - > > > > In general yes. Sometimes (depends on if the person put down can handle it

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-25 Thread Nils Philippsen
On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Nicole Zimmerman wrote: > I'm not sure if that's quite right... but it is REALLY easy for the man > to divorce women (like if they don't bear children) but very difficult > to go the other way (the man has to be a pretty big bastard). Kinda depends on what country you look a

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-25 Thread Nils Philippsen
On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, TeknoDragon wrote: > On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Nils Philippsen wrote: > > > I don't think it is valid to say that just because s.th. is "culture", > > that it's right. > > likewise it's not valid to refute any cultural mechanism... I see this > often in religious arguments... an

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-23 Thread TeknoDragon
On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Nils Philippsen wrote: > I don't think it is valid to say that just because s.th. is "culture", > that it's right. likewise it's not valid to refute any cultural mechanism... I see this often in religious arguments... and well, the refutation of all social/psychological devi

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-23 Thread Nicole Zimmerman
> That's mostly widows or divorced women (IIRC a muslim in countries like > Iran(sp?), Saudi Arabia or Afghanistan can divorce from his wife just by > speaking it out three times, can someone please yell "Middle Ages"?). I'm not sure if that's quite right... but it is REALLY easy for the man to d

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-23 Thread Steve Kudlak
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > Cat said: > >I would personally find it more important for men to object to the > sexism > >that takes place out of women's earshot. I can defend myself, true, > >and I would prefer to do so rather than have some guy jump in and do it > > >for me (in most cases). Th

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-23 Thread venable
Cat said: >I would personally find it more important for men to object to the sexism >that takes place out of women's earshot. I can defend myself, true, >and I would prefer to do so rather than have some guy jump in and do it >for me (in most cases). The place to combat it would be behind the

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-23 Thread Cat
On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Nils Philippsen wrote: > On Thu, 21 Oct 1999 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > > > Nils said: > > > > >Objection, Your Honours! Some males grasp sexism and some don't, > > ...snip... > > > > >it). Some people might consider your statement a rather sexist one, > > >don't you think

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-23 Thread Nils Philippsen
On Sat, 23 Oct 1999, Nicole Zimmerman wrote: > Do the women with children in this culture have husbands or do they have > children on their own? If they have husbands, I do not understand why it > is so vital that the women beg or work. Except in comparison to our own > society... then we find it

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-23 Thread venable
Nicole said: >What was this society like before the militia group came in? Tribal African, Muslim (lots of Africa has Muslim influences), Christian? It sounds like the women had a fair degree of freedom before: another quote from the website: Prior to the Civil War and Taliban control, e

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-23 Thread Nils Philippsen
On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, Neil ''Fred'' Picciotto wrote: > ae wrote: > >> Explaining sexism to a male is really difficult, though gay/bi men will > >> sometimes understand if they are gorgeous. > > nils wrote: > > Objection, Your Honours! Some males grasp sexism and some don't, it's just > > the same

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-23 Thread Nils Philippsen
On Thu, 21 Oct 1999 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > Nils said: > > >Objection, Your Honours! Some males grasp sexism and some don't, > ...snip... > > >it). Some people might consider your statement a rather sexist one, > >don't you think? Just because a relevant share of males are > chauvinist pigs,

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-23 Thread Nils Philippsen
On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > On Fri, 22 Oct 1999, Nils Philippsen wrote: > > > On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, ae wrote: > > > > > Explaining sexism to a male is really difficult, though gay/bi men will > > > sometimes understand if they are gorgeous. > > > > Objection, Your Honours! Som

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-23 Thread Nicole Zimmerman
> How is this allowed to happen? I realize no one wants to go out and get > themselves shot, > and the women are limited in what they can do to help themselves if they > aren't allowed > to leave the house, but are all the men just standing by, feeling that > it doesn't concern > them? Don't the

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-23 Thread Lynn Siprelle
>> Us women are not completely innocent, either. The pendulum has swung >> the other way and it's considered 'okay' by many women to put down men. > >I find this extremely sad. :( It's a bad habit. I don't think a lot of women even realize they do it (sound familiar?). The comic strip Sylvia has

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-23 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Fri, 22 Oct 1999, Amanda Knox wrote: > Agreed. In fact, many men _do_ understand sexism in a way that women do > not. Some guys get to hear their friends talk about that 'great piece of > a$$' the other night, or how some b**ch woman got that promotion over > him, 'cuz she was probably bangin'

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-22 Thread venable
Amanda Knox wrote: > However, > it saddens me to see a woman hide everything about herself that is 'feminine' in > order to fit in to a male-dominated community, I realize that the issue below wasn't what Amanda probably meant, but it certainly gives a whole new meaning to hiding one's "feminini

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-22 Thread jenn
Amanda Knox wrote: > Anyway, I get kind of tired of hearing how only women get sexist comments. Men > get a lot of it, too, and often they don't get as much support when they try and > stick up for themselves. Yup. I know Dancer gets a fair bit of anti-male comment and discrimination. It's a l

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-22 Thread Amanda Knox
Nils Philippsen wrote: > On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, ae wrote: > > > Explaining sexism to a male is really difficult, though gay/bi men will > > sometimes understand if they are gorgeous. > > Objection, Your Honours! Some males grasp sexism and some don't, it's just > the same as with females (though

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-22 Thread Dakota Surmonde
On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > Those women who don't grok sexism are even MORE difficult to explain it to > imho. or more frustrating, at least or maybe they just put on the 180 degree blinders (I've been guilty of that more than once) Vinnie [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Fwd: Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-22 Thread J B
men = male chauvinist pigs All male chauvinist pigs are men, but not all men are male chauvinist pigs. __ Get Your Private, Free Email at http://www.hotmail.com [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linuxchix.org

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-21 Thread jenn
ae wrote: > But when it comes at me from a geek, that group that I finally thought I > belonged to. When that place where I can reduce my guard and talk my > mind, and sure, get challenged and argued with (thank god) but as a human > being, when I see evidence of playground smut there, well it c

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-21 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Fri, 22 Oct 1999, Nils Philippsen wrote: > On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, ae wrote: > > > Explaining sexism to a male is really difficult, though gay/bi men will > > sometimes understand if they are gorgeous. > > Objection, Your Honours! Some males grasp sexism and some don't, It wasn't whether or no

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-21 Thread venable
Nils said: >Objection, Your Honours! Some males grasp sexism and some don't, ...snip... >it). Some people might consider your statement a rather sexist one, don't >you think? Just because a relevant share of males are chauvinist pigs, >this doesn't mean that this is true for all males. If you a

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-21 Thread Cat
On Fri, 22 Oct 1999, Nils Philippsen wrote: > On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, ae wrote: > > > Explaining sexism to a male is really difficult, though gay/bi men will > > sometimes understand if they are gorgeous. > > Objection, Your Honours! Some males grasp sexism and some don't, it's just > the same as

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-21 Thread Neil ''Fred'' Picciotto
ae wrote: >> Explaining sexism to a male is really difficult, though gay/bi men will >> sometimes understand if they are gorgeous. nils wrote: > Objection, Your Honours! Some males grasp sexism and some don't, it's just > the same as with females (though I think more females than males will > und

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-21 Thread Nils Philippsen
On Thu, 21 Oct 1999, ae wrote: > Explaining sexism to a male is really difficult, though gay/bi men will > sometimes understand if they are gorgeous. Objection, Your Honours! Some males grasp sexism and some don't, it's just the same as with females (though I think more females than males will u

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-21 Thread Steve Kudlak
At 01:39 PM 10/21/99 -0500, you wrote: >Ingrid and AE: > >Very well-spoken. >To me, the idea of changing your "nick" to stop sexist comments is bull. >Right on sistahs! > >Naomi > > (took some good stuff out sigh:) I agree why hide, why have to have no fun, no courage and even worse a dull na

Re: [issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-21 Thread Naomi Hospodarsky
Ingrid and AE: Very well-spoken. To me, the idea of changing your "nick" to stop sexist comments is bull. Right on sistahs! Naomi At 12:52 PM 10/21/99 , you wrote: >Hello. > >Quick introduction. My name is Alice, I'm a programmer (c/unix) and I'm >English. > >This is with regard to rece

[issues] Women and the Open Source Community (was screenshots)

1999-10-21 Thread ae
Hello. Quick introduction. My name is Alice, I'm a programmer (c/unix) and I'm English. This is with regard to recent posts about sexual images in the Linux world. I think my feelings are rooted in a childish "I don't want to be left out". I am all for freedom of speech - even hate mongering