Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-04-10 Thread Robert Kiesling
"Jenn V." <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > You're starting in a bad position. I accept and admit that. But I suspect > that when you research things, you'll find that your position is no worse > than those of the women who first formed support for women with 'strict' > husbands. To say the least!

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-04-10 Thread Jenn V.
Robert Kiesling wrote: >And my ranting about it doesn't seem to do any more good than > your ranting about it. I dunno. Women's ranting about issues has given us the vote, 75% of equal pay, the opportunity to actually earn our own living (mostly), _some_ subsidy for shelters, roughly equivalent

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-04-10 Thread Robert Kiesling
"J B" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I must disagree here. It may often be because of money, but in most of the > cases I know of, the guy is attracted to the strong independent woman who > just happens to be a geek (in the hetero relationships, obviously). Men > that were raised in a househo

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-04-07 Thread jenn
Snarfblat wrote: > And thus brings up an interesting point. What about daughters? Are > they influenced by the personality of their mothers to a severe extent? > Does anyone know of a relationship between the mothers view of > technology (i.e. a 'geek' or very not 'geek') and how that affects t

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-04-07 Thread Allen Heinecke
As far as I can tell, children go for exactly the opposite of what their parents do for the teenage years, but they seem to emulate a mixture of both of their parents to one degree or another... I don't know if this is the case in families that grew up under a single parent, but I do know that I h

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-04-07 Thread Nicole Zimmerman
With girls, I think it is more even between father and mother, though personally I have found it leans toward the father. I have a great relationship with my father, he likes to tinker with things and understand how they work. When he started college in the mid 1970s, he started in computers... u

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-04-07 Thread Snarfblat
J B wrote: > > On Fri, 7 Apr 2000, Susannah Rosenberg wrote: > > > i agree that geekiness is becoming attractive. however, it's > > becoming attractive because of _money_. > > I must disagree here. It may often be because of money, but in most of the > cases I know of, the guy is attracted t

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-04-07 Thread J B
On Fri, 7 Apr 2000, Susannah Rosenberg wrote: > i agree that geekiness is becoming attractive. however, it's > becoming attractive because of _money_. I must disagree here. It may often be because of money, but in most of the cases I know of, the guy is attracted to the strong independent wo

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-04-02 Thread Simon Britnell
Lynette Quinn wrote: > I think everyone wants to feel desirable. Girls at the age of 12 or so have > a lot to sort out about their own sexuality etc. It is helpful for both men > and women to portray smart women as attractive and desirable. Smart guys too :) The sad fact is that the culture we

RE: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-03-31 Thread Lynette Quinn
One thing that hasn't been touched upon in this discussion is the attitude a girl's father plays in all of this. I have read information and studies about the importance of adult male comments at this stage in a girl's life. I think everyone wants to feel desirable. Girls at the age of 12 or so ha

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-03-30 Thread Emily Cartier
On Thu, 30 Mar 2000 22:32:39 +1000 "Jenn V." <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > It concludes that there is a tendancy for girls, around the > early teenage years, to stop using computers by choice. They > continue to use them for specific tasks, but stop experimenting > and playing. My sister and I re

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-03-30 Thread Kathleen Weaver
I am a high school teacher, computer science and webmastering in Dallas, Texas. I attended Carnegie Melon's 6APT workshop for AP Computer Science Teachers several years ago addressing this issue. We teachers, do a horrible job teaching young girls. I am attempting to do better, and it shows,

Re: [issues] Does Jane Compute

2000-03-30 Thread Caroline Lamb
On Thu, 30 Mar 2000, Jenn V. wrote: > I just bought and read the book 'Does Jane Compute?' > Do people think this is still the case - current information > only please! but anecdotal is fine - and do people have any > suggestions? Well anecdotally - I just got off the phone from my 19-yr-old