Re: [issues] Flame war - after action report & apologies

1999-10-26 Thread srl
On Tue, 26 Oct 1999, Simon Britnell wrote: > > and it's fine if they want that, but i feel like too often > > white-picket-fence is the normative ideal, and anyone who doesn't want > it > > (particularly females) takes a lot of shit. > > imho, the person who gives you the most sh*t is yourself.

Re: [issues] Flame war - after action report & apologies

1999-10-26 Thread Kelly Lynn Martin
On Tue, 26 Oct 1999 14:48:41 -0700 (PDT), Deirdre Saoirse <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: >But for a while I really did understand. I took anti-depressants, >which helped enormously. It was like a cloud lifted. For me, it's more like it keeps the storms away. Still lots of clouds, but they're not nea

Re: [issues] Flame war - after action report & apologies

1999-10-26 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Tue, 26 Oct 1999, Simon Britnell wrote: > My comments labelled RANT had far too much emotion in them and for that > I apologise. Why? :) It's OK, I don't think you were out of line. > > ... Roblimo's artical ... 'bad' reasoning > > I don't think Robs article is bad reasoning per'se. I thin

Re: [issues] Flame war - after action report & apologies

1999-10-26 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Tue, 26 Oct 1999 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > Simon Britnell wrote: > > 2) Talk to ambulance people about failed suicides. The percentage of > > suicide attempts that make a mistake and end up maiming themselves > > instead is suprising. I don't fear death. Disability is another > > matter. >

Re: [issues] Flame war - after action report & apologies

1999-10-26 Thread jenn
Simon Britnell wrote: > As for the rest of your comments, you made my day. Good to meet another > survivor. Here are a couple of things that helped me: > 2) Talk to ambulance people about failed suicides. The percentage of > suicide attempts that make a mistake and end up maiming themselves >

Re: [issues] Flame war - after action report & apologies

1999-10-26 Thread Vinnie Surmonde
On Tue, 26 Oct 1999, Simon Britnell wrote: > be there, but couldn't see a way to cut the emotion, so I just labelled > it "hazardous content" and left it. For what it's worth, I thought it was a fair way of handling the situation. My definition of flaming includes the attack being redirected at

[issues] Flame war - after action report & apologies

1999-10-26 Thread Simon Britnell
Well, not so much a flame war as a brief exchange of fire :) My comments labelled RANT had far too much emotion in them and for that I apologise. I started trying to explain my position and ended up angry. After writing it I still felt the information content needed to be there, but couldn't se