What you mention in terms of private and public communications. This is
where a mailing list is good and the archive remains private and internal.

On Thu, Jan 22, 2015 at 2:40 PM, Israel <isr...@torios.org> wrote:

>  Hi all,
> I just thought I'd throw in a few bits here.
> I don't really care how you all want to do things in management, etc...
> As long as, when it comes down to it, I can just do my own work with only
> the customer's specific needs/design/etc.. as the constraints.
> I think some private form of communication is essential for a business, as
> well as public.
> You all can set this up however is good an right.
>
> I would like for our communications not to be owned by a proprietary
> company... I'd rather them be public than that (personal idealogical views).
> But if you all need to use a proprietary company I will not leave, or get
> upset at you.
> We already use G+ which is owned by a company that is well known for data
> mining (does anyone remember PRISM?).
>
> As for meetings... right now I have so very little time to devote to
> meetings, and you always start one at times that are not good for me.
> I have kids and cannot devote too much of my life to things away from
> them, while I am with them.
> Once this project is off the ground, I will be more involved.  But as it
> is, I do not need to be involved in the setup phase.
>
> I am just letting you all know that I intend to remain relatively quite,
> but I am actually still around :)
>
>
>
> On 01/21/2015 11:25 PM, Jonathan Aquilina wrote:
>
> Weekends are best for me. early mornings and preferably on weekends to
> meet and discuss.
>
> On Thu, Jan 22, 2015 at 2:20 AM, Emily Gonyer <emilyyr...@gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
>> Tomorrow I'm mostly free aside from 10am-1pm (I'm -5GMT...), Friday
>> we'll be visiting a museum, but I can check in on IRC/email; early
>> Saturday I'm available but planning to go out in the evening - so up
>> till ~4-4:30pm. Sunday I don't have any plans except to sleep in :p
>>
>> Emily
>>
>> On Wed, Jan 21, 2015 at 8:16 PM, Ali Linx (amjjawad) <amjja...@gmail.com>
>> wrote:
>> >
>> >
>> > On Thu, Jan 22, 2015 at 12:13 PM, Emily Gonyer <emilyyr...@gmail.com>
>> wrote:
>> >>
>> >> Ali,
>> >
>> >
>> > Hi dear Emily,
>> >
>> >>
>> >>
>> >> I'm not going to pretend I have any idea as to why it was that Gustavo
>> >> and/or Svetlana left, nor do I particularly care.
>> >
>> >
>> > I highly respect your honesty. Thank you for speaking your mind
>> directly.
>> >
>> >>
>> >> I am still very
>> >> interested in and excited about Kibo, and plan to continue to help
>> >> however/whenever I can.
>> >
>> >
>> > So kind and nice of you, many thanks :)
>> >
>> >
>> >>
>> >> I feel like we are going to be in need of
>> >> another meeting with the remaining members present asap to discuss
>> >> what we have, what we need, where we're going, etc.
>> >
>> >
>> > I agree. I was about to ask for that but I wanted to prepare some
>> positive
>> > progress first :)
>> >
>> >>
>> >> I'm fairly busy
>> >> over the next few days but if I know ahead of time, I should be able
>> >> to make time.
>> >
>> >
>> > For me, my time is +11 GMT and you guys can contact me anytime. Whenever
>> > you're free. However, what about the coming days?
>> >
>> > Fri?
>> > Sat?
>> > Sun?
>> >
>> >
>> >>
>> >>
>> >> Emily
>> >
>> >
>> >
>> > Thank you!
>> >
>> >
>> >>
>> >>
>> >> On Wed, Jan 21, 2015 at 7:34 PM, Ali Linx (amjjawad) <
>> amjja...@gmail.com>
>> >> wrote:
>> >> > @Phill:
>> >> > I'm CC'ing you as per your request as discussed last night (your
>> time).
>> >> >
>> >> > On Thu, Jan 22, 2015 at 2:15 AM, Jonathan Aquilina
>> >> > <eagles051...@gmail.com>
>> >> > wrote:
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Hey Ali,
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > Hi Jonathan and everyone else,
>> >> >
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> I want to put this out there as I have spoken to some people and
>> they
>> >> >> are
>> >> >> getting a bit worn out with the lack of decisions being taken and
>> only
>> >> >> discussion. As the saying goes actions speak louder than words.
>> That is
>> >> >> in a
>> >> >> way why I took the decision to speak to phil about the server.
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Again things are stuck in a loop of discussion and no action is
>> >> >> happening.
>> >> >> The people I spoke to are on the verge of leaving.
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > The people you spoke to, with all due respect, are not being honest
>> and
>> >> > they're spreading more than one version of the story :) they tell you
>> >> > something, they tell Phill different thing and they tell me something
>> >> > else.
>> >> > For you ALL to understand, I hate this childish behaviour. Grown up
>> >> > people
>> >> > should never do that. If you have a problem with someone or
>> something,
>> >> > bring
>> >> > it to discussion and no need to come up with different version of the
>> >> > story
>> >> > and go public with it.
>> >> >
>> >> > Here is what happened:
>> >> > Gustavo and Svetlana both joined Kibo as they were super interested.
>> One
>> >> > is
>> >> > a business person (as he said) and the other is a community person
>> (as
>> >> > she
>> >> > said).
>> >> >
>> >> > We were super fine and everything was okay.
>> >> >
>> >> > Over a disagreement and different opinion, they both left at the same
>> >> > time.
>> >> >
>> >> > After 24 hours, Gustavo sent me a long email asking to be back to
>> Kibo.
>> >> > I
>> >> > still have that email if someone does not believe me here - in case.
>> >> > I accepted that and he wanted to bring back Svetlana and I too
>> accepted
>> >> > that.
>> >> >
>> >> > I had a condition. It was: "please don't leave again if we disagree.
>> We
>> >> > should not let such silly things get into our way. Every beginning is
>> >> > hard
>> >> > so let's move forward and work as a team."
>> >> >
>> >> > They accepted that.
>> >> >
>> >> > After that last meeting, Emily, myself and Gustavo was there - I have
>> >> > the
>> >> > link for the meeting as we did record that on YouTube.
>> >> >
>> >> > Gustavo after that meeting remained silent. I knew and did SEE what
>> >> > would
>> >> > happen next and it indeed happened and I was right. He asked me for a
>> >> > chat
>> >> > and he quit, yet again. This time, he said it is not about you Ali,
>> it
>> >> > is
>> >> > about something else.
>> >> >
>> >> > He complained about several things that is not personal nor related
>> to
>> >> > me.
>> >> >
>> >> > While he was chatting with me, after he left, Svetlana did leave
>> after
>> >> > few
>> >> > seconds. That could not be by chance. I know both were on IRC and
>> they
>> >> > both
>> >> > agreed to leave.
>> >> >
>> >> > To me, she has zero ability to make up her mind. She is following
>> only.
>> >> > If
>> >> > someone leaves, she leaves. If someone stays, she will stay. She
>> can't
>> >> > make
>> >> > any decision and this is what I 'saw' based on her 'actions'.
>> >> >
>> >> > By the way, both of them joined ToriOS and they both left. NO GOOD
>> >> > reason
>> >> > for that except they both were picky and didn't really know what
>> they're
>> >> > doing.
>> >> >
>> >> > I have talked to Gustavo. I still have the chat log but I will not
>> going
>> >> > to
>> >> > share it unless he agrees.
>> >> >
>> >> > I sent an email to thank them both:
>> >> >
>> >> > Dear Svetlana and Gustavo,
>> >> >
>> >> > I'd like to show my great appreciations and thank you so much for
>> >> > everything
>> >> > regarding Kibo, specially your quitting the project/team. This has
>> >> > inspired
>> >> > me big time and motivated me a lot.
>> >> >
>> >> > Yesterday, I have come across the attached quote. I saved the image
>> on
>> >> > my
>> >> > HDD and kept it on my desktop.
>> >> >
>> >> > Today, I have indeed learned the real meaning of that quote and I
>> have
>> >> > indeed applied that in my life and WOW, it didn't only work but it
>> did
>> >> > create a huge positive power/energy and I'm so grateful for that :D
>> >> >
>> >> > This is in my mind and heart at the moment so I am letting you know
>> >> > that.
>> >> >
>> >> > All the best and should you need 'anything', I'm more than glad to
>> help
>> >> > while I can.
>> >> >
>> >> > Take care!
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > And I made it extra clear that my door is always open. But ...
>> >> > I ask you all to put yourself in my shoes. Will you accept someone
>> who
>> >> > left
>> >> > 3 times from your house after you were super kind and nice to them?
>> you
>> >> > hosted them 3 times and they left?
>> >> >
>> >> > Gustavo admitted it he was picky and didn't understand Kibo.
>> >> >
>> >> > He got demotivated and didn't want to carry on when he read that
>> >> > Jonathan is
>> >> > not willing to quit his daily work over Kibo.
>> >> >
>> >> > I explained to him and to everyone that Kibo is a part-time job
>> project
>> >> > for
>> >> > the moment. If we can make it and we can make a company out of it, we
>> >> > can
>> >> > work as full-time but only crazy people who might think Kibo is a
>> >> > full-time
>> >> > job. It is not. For me, perhaps it is because I'm jobless. But I
>> would
>> >> > NEVER
>> >> > ever ask someone to quit his job.
>> >> >
>> >> > I'm not a kid, people. I've been around for sometime and I know who
>> is
>> >> > serious and who is not. Who is fooling around and who is not. Who is
>> >> > helpful
>> >> > and who is know. Who is understanding what we do and who is know.
>> >> >
>> >> > Gustavo showed a lot of positive stuff but at the same time, he
>> >> > misunderstood lots of things. Thus, he left.
>> >> >
>> >> > As for Svetlana, as I said, she is always following someone and can't
>> >> > make
>> >> > her own decision herself.
>> >> > She was like either: +1 or -1 only.
>> >> >
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> I agree with us being too over exposed using launch pad. I proposed
>> >> >> alternatives.
>> >> >>
>> >> >> 1) mailman for mailing list with private archives which is very
>> >> >> beneficial. If the concern is that people's inboxes will get filled
>> >> >> with
>> >> >> lots of emails that isnt the case that is up to them when they
>> >> >> subscribe.
>> >> >> They can subscribe to digest and get an email with multiple postings
>> >> >> instead
>> >> >> of individual emails.
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > What are we waiting for?! I tell you what :)
>> >> > Because NONE of you replied my email about the roles, tasks, and all
>> ...
>> >> > go
>> >> > back to your inbox and see ;)
>> >> >
>> >> > That is why I sent these emails. So X knows what to do and Y knows
>> what
>> >> > to
>> >> > do.
>> >> >
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> 2) redmine this is a bug tracker as well as project management as
>> well
>> >> >> as
>> >> >> version control integration and much more this is a great tool to
>> have
>> >> >> in
>> >> >> place from now as we can use it to track bugs and issues on the
>> website
>> >> >> and
>> >> >> more.
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > I have never used it. If someone could take the time to explain that
>> to
>> >> > us,
>> >> > then why not? I am not against using anything good. WHY people can't
>> get
>> >> > that straight? if someone has an opinion of a feedback, that does not
>> >> > mean
>> >> > he/she is against the idea.
>> >> >
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Ali you need to remember as well that things take time to build up a
>> >> >> following and you have to spend money to make it and in this case I
>> am
>> >> >> helpign you with the amjjawad website as well as kibos for now as
>> well
>> >> >> as
>> >> >> phil with the server. If you want this to succeed we need to move
>> >> >> forward
>> >> >> with actions and not rush things.
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > I know that. Thanks for the reminder. Appreciate it. But, there is a
>> >> > HUGE
>> >> > misunderstanding here.
>> >> >
>> >> > We're confusing RUSHING with TAKING ACTIONS.
>> >> >
>> >> > And there are some other misunderstanding ...
>> >> >
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> I would suggest as well talking with Gustavo and putting together a
>> >> >> business plan so that way the business can be presented to investors
>> >> >> and we
>> >> >> get the cash we need to get established correctly.
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > He has quit.
>> >> > Again, put yourself in my shoes. Would you accept someone joined you
>> 3
>> >> > times
>> >> > and quit 3 times?
>> >> > And he made it extra clear when I tried to change his mind that he
>> is no
>> >> > longer interested and can't help with Kibo. Why do I have to accept
>> him
>> >> > for
>> >> > the 4th time so he leaves again for the 4th time? again, what would
>> YOU
>> >> > do
>> >> > if you were in my place?!
>> >> >
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Here is a quote from Michael Baisden and I agree with him totally.
>> >> >>
>> >> >> “those who fail to plan, plan to fail!”
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > I am NOT blind so you don't really have to make it that large :)
>> >> > But thanks anyway.
>> >> >
>> >> > "People don't plan to fail, they fail to plan."
>> >> >
>> >> > In my case, I do plan but NO ONE wishes to listen nor discuss
>> anything
>> >> > and
>> >> > EVERYONE seems to push what he/she wants. NO, sorry, this is not
>> what I
>> >> > want. This is not what a team is about. A team means: all of us are
>> >> > smarter
>> >> > than anyone of us. Someone got upset just because we didn't take
>> 'his'
>> >> > input. Why? ask them :)
>> >> >
>> >> > I have been rejected billion of times. What I have done? before I
>> quit,
>> >> > I
>> >> > did what people told me in my face that this will fail.
>> >> > Example?
>> >> > I suggested a community spin for Lubuntu for super old machines. I
>> got
>> >> > rejected by the majority of Lubuntu Community - no need to mention
>> >> > names.
>> >> > What I did? ToriOS and guess what? it is much lighter than Lubuntu :)
>> >> >
>> >> > I didn't quit right away when I got rejected nor someone disagreed
>> with
>> >> > me.
>> >> > I quit when I found myself zero helpful for Lubuntu after 2 years of
>> >> > being
>> >> > the most active member of all and achieved what none achieved.
>> >> >
>> >> > If you are NOT sure what to do? don't do. Wait, think and then do.
>> >> >
>> >> > So, I would be very careful to accept both of them again in Kibo.
>> They
>> >> > were
>> >> > never rejected. We were only discussing the ideas. Once their ideas
>> >> > aren't
>> >> > taken, they feel bad. Is this a school or what?!
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Sadly with things being super rushed that is whats going to happen.
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > Define: "super rushed", please!
>> >> >
>> >> > Who went to Phill for a server? Me? that was you :)
>> >> > Define: super rushed so we both be on the same page :D
>> >> >
>> >> > I'm afraid I'm lost. I don't know who is rushed and who is not :)
>> >> > All what I know is we're in different pages at the moment ... but
>> that
>> >> > is
>> >> > not the end of the world. At least for me.
>> >> >
>> >> >>
>> >> >> Gustavo is a great and very helpful guy when it comes to this sort
>> of
>> >> >> stuff and I know he wants this to succeed as well as I.
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > He left. His choice. It wasn't about ME. He left for something else.
>> Can
>> >> > we
>> >> > all agree on that, please?!
>> >> >
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> I am telling you this as a friend and not only to you to everyone on
>> >> >> here.
>> >> >> It may seem harsh but its the hard truth and reality.
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > You should know by now .. in fact, all of you that I respect those
>> who
>> >> > come
>> >> > and talk to me directly, not leaving after all what I have done for
>> them
>> >> > without one single word. I admire what Gustavo did. But someone else
>> >> > left
>> >> > without a single word. What kind of respect is that?
>> >> >
>> >> > I admire your honesty. You do care, Jonathan. Otherwise, you wouldn't
>> >> > spend
>> >> > time to write to me, right? so, I see that where it is coming from
>> and I
>> >> > have NO problem with that. Even though your bring it to public, I
>> don't
>> >> > mind.
>> >> >
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> --
>> >> >> Jonathan Aquilina
>> >> >
>> >> >
>> >> > Sorry for the LONG email but I did this so we can END this right here
>> >> > and
>> >> > right now. NO talking about the past. Let's move forward.
>> >> >
>> >> > I already have Plan B, C, D, etc.
>> >> > I'll NOT rush things.
>> >> >
>> >> > Here is my request for now:
>> >> > I will NEVER ask anyone here to leave and I do HATE to see anyone
>> >> > leaves.
>> >> > You may all stay for now as volunteers. Once we have a clear solid
>> >> > visible
>> >> > roadmap, we can see about that.
>> >> >
>> >> > Do not leave unless you feel so.
>> >> > I will not ask you to leave. Every word you contribute with is
>> helpful.
>> >> > I
>> >> > have my own vision and I find everyone here is useful, even though
>> >> > he/she is
>> >> > not doing anything at this moment, his/her moment will come.
>> >> >
>> >> > If we wish to carry on, we should let the past go and turn the page.
>> >> > Learn
>> >> > from our mistakes for sure.
>> >> > If you wish to be stuck in the past, the present will be lost and so
>> the
>> >> > future.
>> >> >
>> >> > Your call :)
>> >> >
>> >> > And this email for everyone, not for Jonathan nor someone, it is for
>> >> > everyone to read.
>> >> >
>> >> > --
>> >> > Remember: "All of us are smarter than any one of us."
>> >> > Best Regards,
>> >> > Ali/amjjawad
>> >> > http://torios.org - StartUbuntu - Ubuntu GNOME - http://amjjawad.net
>> >> >
>> >> > --
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>> >>
>> >>
>> >>
>> >> --
>> >> Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius,
>> >> power and magic in it. -  Goethe
>> >>
>> >> Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't
>> >> matter and those who matter don't mind. - Dr.Seuss
>> >>
>> >> Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that
>> >> counts can be counted. - Albert Einstein
>> >
>> >
>> >
>> >
>> > --
>> > Remember: "All of us are smarter than any one of us."
>> > Best Regards,
>> > Ali/amjjawad
>> > http://torios.org - StartUbuntu - Ubuntu GNOME - http://amjjawad.net
>>
>>
>>
>> --
>> Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius,
>> power and magic in it. -  Goethe
>>
>> Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't
>> matter and those who matter don't mind. - Dr.Seuss
>>
>> Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that
>> counts can be counted. - Albert Einstein
>>
>
>
>
> --
> Jonathan Aquilina
>
>
>
>
> --
> Regards
>
> -Israel
> ToriOS Team
>
>
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