>But should it be the first thing on your mind when you meet a woman, any >woman. Some men have told me it's inevitable that I get sized up as a >sexual partner everytime I meet a heterosexual man. I don't like this. >And I don't like people condoning it terribly much, it's put me in some >awful situations. Mary, That is what we are trying to change. There are some men out there, that no matter what are going to look at women as sexual objects, and there is really nothing that we can do about that. Condition and teach the young ones to listen, and see that women are intelligent, capable, etc...but beyond that, it is hard to teach an old dog....yadda, yadda, yadda. -jb _________________________________________________________________ Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com _______________________________________________ issues mailing list [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linux.org.uk/mailman/listinfo/issues