On Mon, 31 Jan 2000 09:50:05 +1100, "Jenn V." <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said:
>* He doesn't actually look at a female face when casually meeting,
>lest he make her uncomfortable/be seen as 'looking' or challenging
>her or whatever. And to sit next to a female in a tram or bus means
>carefully looking in any other direction...
I had to learn not to do this. I used to be a big eye-contact person
but I discovered around college that it scared people off so I learned
not to make eye contact. I suppose I should unlearn that now that I'm
not trying to pass for a guy anymore. (Is it ok for women to make eye
contact with strangers?)
>* He doesn't get touched anywhere near as often as I do - rarely at
>all. Friends of both of us hug me hello and goodbye, but not him.
This ticks me off too. Damnit, I want hugs, and nobody ever gives me
one. :(
Kelly
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