Ok - to start. You do not only check the Board Meetings, You did it at
Winter Field Day, not only with the BoD but you want to make me change and
asked me if I was going to be a "Yes man".  The club is a family and
everyone watches for everyone else.   You also want things changed in our
competitions. I also told you that this is a group and I lead with
responsable people. I depend on our team leaders to make the base
decisions. I will not question Daphne, Bill, Mike, Mike, Sean, Jim, or
anyone else with years of experience (That list was getting long). My job
is to solve issues and keep morale up. That is a leader, and I will not let
them down by not doing what is needed to make it work. I communicate with
everyone and everyone communicates with me.  If Bill tells me we need 3
more inches, I will find bricks and give him 3 inches.  If Daphne needs
ice, I will go myself if needed.

As for the meeting going on, there was an Email. Why did Kori not respond?
If a person does not start the meeting and there was no knowledge of
cancellation, there should have been a red light and called someone. Why
wait online for 20min and not take action? As for the By-Law, are you
saying that there are holes in it?  You mean that there are no contingency
plans? Oh - so the circumstances that happen should not be a problem, but a
subject to talk about at the next meeting. Let's talk about it and fix it.
And as for not making meetings, there are rules about the trusty being
present for talks about using the club call sign - that was not followed.
So I say that we do something about that too.

As for you, hold the BoD at a higher standard, what about Brews? You call
people to drink then drive and use the radio. You have a radio on even
during the event. This is encouraged by our BoD member.
If not Brews, let's talk about losing temper at an event. Is that allowed
by a BoD member? Is yelling at a member allowed, let alone that member was
in a position of the visiting group. Was actually with another group
(emergency group) and yelled at.

As for BoD serving us. The group we have right now is great. They are
getting things done and (again, the things you do not know happening
outside the club affecting us) handling the wave we are handed. The
president on down has jumped through hoops to make things happen. There is
nothing they could have done to prevent them, but they dealt with the
issues. And as for our one member, they have been working tirelessly to
make it a positive experience.

and Kori, you want me to call you on the side, I will tomorrow. I have to
take care of some more planning for Summer Field Day with some possible
instructors.

And again, to all others, I am sorry you need to hear all this, but I am
not letting a couple of people take on any of my other Ham Family. I can
not sit by and see people bashed on without the total story. I will not let
those having issues be pushed aside.

73
Richard

On Mon, Feb 10, 2025 at 5:00 PM anthony moro <w5li...@gmail.com> wrote:

> First I would like y'all to understand that as a past member and past
> board member, I hold the board to a high standard. For those who think I
> "up and quiet", that is not what happened. I was not getting anywhere with
> the president at that time, and was being told it's his way or the highway
> ( he will never admit that). During my 2 year term I would bring things to
> the board, it felt like my hands were being tied resulting in me finally
> leaving the board. It was a better decision than to continue arguing with
> him, so now I check in to the BOD meetings just to see if things have
> changed. But I see nothing has.
>
> Richard,
> I was only asking about the BOD and Hamfest meetings not Winter or
> Summer Field Day. I understand you try to get people to in some manner get
> along. But sometimes there are some things we can't control. I never said
> the president couldn't get sick.I am just saying the meeting should go on.
> As for the by-law you quoted, there is nowhere to put up a note for the
> Corresponding Secretary to let the members that want to attend the meeting
> know about the change. Also in the email that was sent there was no date
> and time for the meeting to be rescheduled. We, I mean Kori, Kirk and
> myself were in the BOD meeting till 5:22pm. As for your remarks on
> reprimanding people, that was the case. I was just asking a question and
> used facts to back it up.
>
> Terry,
> I look to you as a great friend. I feel that as a great friend we should
> be able to say things to the point, not beat around the bush. There was no
> tone in the message, just a question. If you took it that way then I am
> sorry. If I saw you doing something against what you told me or making the
> rules fit only for your benefit, then yes I would tell you something like a
> friend should. The RF and E-communications "Code-of-Conduct" you plan on
> bringing to the board should not silence a member or non member from
> wanting to ask questions. In no way, shape or form am I trying to look like
> a bad person. Like I said in the beginning of this message (I hold the BOD
> to a higher standard).
>
> John (KI5HOC),
> I am glad you are entertained. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. Check out the next
> show. Same Bat- Channel, maybe a different Bat-Time, Ha ha ha ha ha.
>
> Eddie,
> I had an axe to grind, but I lent it out to Rudy. Ha ha ha ha. I am glad
> you showed me that this is the best place to get my voice heard by the club
> and BOD members.
> Thanks man.
>
> Gokhan,
> A very well said email.
>
> Micheal Amos,
> I am very sorry that your friend was pushed over the fence during the 2023
> Hamfest meeting. I remember it well. I wish there was a way to maybe try
> again with you friend. There are some great people on Ham radio. I have met
> a few of them in this club and iI consider them to be great friends.
>
> Now for my last comment:
> To all the club members, the reflector is the best place to get your voice
> heard. As you can tell I have gotten a few responses to my question. I hope
> you all have read the whole story and not just a part of it, I would hate
> for y'all to miss any little detail. Please continue being the best ham
> operators you can be. Just because I am not on the board or a member any
> more doesn't mean I will let things go by. Like I said to Terry, I see most
> of y'all as good friends and would ask you straight away about anything. I
> am not trying to cause discontent or angst in the club. As members you
> should be able to question any board member at any given time about what
> happened or what is happening. Remember the BOD serves you all, not the
> other way around. The point of all this is that the BOD meeting should go
> on no matter what.
>
> On Mon, Feb 10, 2025 at 12:35 PM Richard Bonica <kg5...@gmail.com> wrote:
>
>> To All,
>>
>> I will once again step in here...
>>
>> Mr Ackerman, as of last HamFest, I tried to work with you to resolve
>> issues. I tried to take care of issues and all you wanted is for a member
>> to be removed.
>> If this is the case, once again, let's make this a level playing field
>> and address non action during Winter Field day. Should we remove all
>> members that have faults?
>> Let's even talk about Summer Field Day... We can go 2 for 2 on those...
>>
>> I worked on addressing your issues and you refused to work with me or
>> even talk to the person that was at the center of this.
>> Also, if you goto the roster, there is a list of positions held for each
>> person, just look up that position.
>> And the awards they got too.
>>
>> Please, feel free to look it up.
>>
>> As for volunteering, there are people that volunteer to help and do not
>> show. Now - I ask you, what should we do with those people? We had a full
>> staff last year at HamFest and people did not help.
>>
>> Now - this year I have already asked for people to help with the Summer
>> Field Day. As we had a VERY successful field day, I would expect people to
>> step up. Still waiting.
>>
>> Also, I want to know - last HamFest, we had a member that thought he had
>> all the answers. Instead of sticking around with the club, they threw a fit
>> and quit. So they took their bat and ball and went home. Only issue is we
>> have VERY strong members that stepped up and we kept the game going.
>>
>> As for the apologies, that is called adulting and taking responsibility.
>> They did not just run and hide.
>>
>> So, as I see this so far, we have had 2 people now point out that there
>> are people with lives and have no regard for the well being of others. Boy,
>> I hope that we see that this applies to everyone. So again....
>>
>> Someone please check the rules for the Goose and the Gander?
>>
>> By the way, I looked up the FCC and ARRL Organization Structures, but I
>> still can not find the section named Saints.  So I am sure there are issues
>> there too. No one is perfect.
>>
>> With that, EVERYONE of the Field Day and HamFest participants, THANK YOU
>> for your hard work and dedication. This club is not only a club, but a
>> family of long time members.
>>
>> It is easy to throw stones from the outside of the house. If you have an
>> issue, please join us and talk it out. As I pointed out before, talk to the
>> person and if you are not satisfied, get a NEUTRAL party and see what can
>> be done.
>>
>> “One of the greatest struggles of becoming an adult is figuring out what
>> you want to do and what makes you happy. The courageous thing is to stick
>> with it and see it through and see if you were correct.” –Kristen Stewart
>>
>> 73
>> KG5YCU - You know who I am..
>>
>>
>> On Mon, Feb 10, 2025 at 11:35 AM Rudolph Ackerman <
>> rudolph_acker...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>>
>>> The problem is not with anyone that is posting to this thread.     There
>>> is one member of the board that is the problem.    He requires EVERYTHING
>>> to go through him.   Then he drops the ball and NEVER follows up on
>>> anything.     The first 10 - 15 minutes of meetings are him apologizing
>>> for not getting back to people.       BVARC has a board or so it
>>> claims, but if  you look at the web site there is only one name/contact
>>> person listed, and that one person is unreachable and does not reply to
>>> messages.
>>>
>>> During my time  as a club member I saw lots of people willing to step up
>>> and help with hamfest, and other club events only to be  put down,
>>> overlooked and flat out ignored by this one member.    Nothing about this
>>> club will change until that member is replaced.
>>>
>>> Rudy Ackerman
>>> KF5QYG
>>>
>>>
>>> On Monday, February 10, 2025 at 09:32:57 AM CST, Richard Bonica via
>>> BVARC <bvarc@bvarc.org> wrote:
>>>
>>>
>>> Because Emergencies happen. If a person is extremely sick, they can not
>>> get to the meeting.
>>> Look it up - You can find yourself....
>>> Also, if a person is not answering, and as a conscientious radio
>>> operator, we should check in on them and find out what happened.
>>> As an active member, I called and found out.
>>>
>>> What do you think I should do for people that commit to a function and
>>> do their job? I have a few situations right now....
>>> Also, what do you think I need to do as a member when I was yelled at
>>> and in a public place by an officer?
>>>
>>> As an active member, you are listed on the roster. You look for the
>>> person's call sign or name and you can find their number. Just call and ask.
>>> But please, look on the roster for w5lic - you should see at least your
>>> name.
>>>
>>> Someone please check the rules for the Goose and the Gander?
>>>
>>> Kori? you are in on this, what are your thoughts? Do we need to continue
>>> or should we stop now?
>>> I would put that question to Mike, but I know he is temporarily
>>> unavailable today.. He has a life too. You are next in command, and should
>>> be able to set the example.
>>>
>>>
>>> On Sun, Feb 9, 2025 at 7:50 PM anthony moro via BVARC <bvarc@bvarc.org>
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>> I wanted to know the reason why the club president did not give notice
>>> as per the by-laws about the club BOD meeting. I know some of the board
>>> members make time to be there, why can't he? At least give notice as per
>>> the by-laws. Canceling the meeting the day of is not the right thing to do.
>>>
>>> (Article V Section G
>>> Provisions applicable to meetings of the Board of Directors shall be:
>>> 1. The board of directors shall meet monthly on the first Thursday of
>>> the month at 7:30 PM at a location voted
>>> upon at a previous board of directors meeting unless changed by a
>>> majority of the board members by giving proper notice 7 days in advance..
>>> Special meetings may be called by either a majority of the board members or
>>> the
>>> Chairman with 7 days notice either in writing or by verbal contact with
>>> each Board member.)
>>>
>>> As for the Hamfest meeting the by-laws don't play a factor here but some
>>> common courtesy should be shown to the people that are helping the
>>> coordinator of the event.
>>> ________________________________________________
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>>
>>
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>
>
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>


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