Re: [Silk] "what do you do?"

2025-05-08 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
Really? In Bonn, Germany I get asked all the time what I do as an occupation. I have NEVER been asked what I do for physical activity! I wonder if it a life phase specific question? On Thu, 8 May 2025 at 10:30, Aditi via Silklist wrote: > I've been silent on here for a while but had to answer th

Re: [Silk] are you there?

2025-05-07 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
We are here. Speaking of which, I’m curious - given the very real threat of Weltkrieg 3 - how have your decisions changed? I’ve put off long term large purchases like a home for : 1. Spending time intensively with my nephews and nieces nearby 2. riding my bicycle through the enormous park for 20

Re: [Silk] SIlkist's Annual Book Recommendations Thread (2024 edition)

2024-11-24 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
Hyderabadi here. With a mum who my father called “an artist in the kitchen”. It took me ten years to squeeze the biryani recipe out of her. But I have a question for you. What flavours/textures did you single out as particularly Hyderabadi, that you want to learn to cook? I ask because there are m

Re: [Silk] Exploring pop-up villages: A hello from Berlin

2024-11-07 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
I forgot to reply to this :) Guten Tag zurück aus Bonn! Your email made me reach out to another friend/now acquaintance who was interested in designing Life - for himself and others. It morphed into another monster altogether but his vision remains the same. I'm intrigued by the idea of 'buildi

Re: [Silk] "what do you do?"

2024-10-10 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
It’s interesting to see the nature of the answers when you segregate them by gender :) I’m spending the week mushroom hunting in a forest, with a group whose average age is 70 and they speak, almost exclusively, German. My German is not so good. This morning, I asked one of the group, what they d

Re: [Silk] Splitting the bill

2024-05-29 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
I never skip these things - even though sometimes the inner cringe is strong, to be potentially viewed as impecunious. Or miserly. It’s an interesting people filter to have and I laugh at my predicament openly. Interestingly enough, most of my friends who make easily 10x more than I did ( I’m in a

Re: [Silk] Splitting the bill

2024-01-26 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
“I'm glad it's working for you - how much money would it take to get you to go to the gym and do strength training three times a week? :)” I boulder 3x a week and do weight training twice a week and flexibility once a week. My cardio suffers but I intend to swim to rectify that :) Same - I wouldn

Re: [Silk] Splitting the bill

2024-01-26 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
uld (and it's not just about > the non-linearity of the value of money, but it may be an endowment > effect). So in circumstances where good and bad things are both likely to > happen relatively frequently I try to "smooth out" the frequency by > checking less often. >

Re: [Silk] Splitting the bill

2024-01-25 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
Tell me then, in what other areas of your life have you applied the new learnings with money? I find the human relationship with money extraordinarily interesting. My current social experiment is asking how much could I pay them to take a 3 minute cold shower every day, for a whole year. No hot wa

Re: [Silk] Splitting the bill

2024-01-25 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
I remember the Thursday group from 2004. It was, privileged, to say the least. Not a fan. The misogyny was palpable, locker room sentiment dressed nicely with single malt whiskey. Different groups of friends but pretty much the same model with the split - Those who drank alcohol - alcohol bill spl

Re: [Silk] 2022 Silklist Book Recommendations thread

2023-12-04 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
heck out Sarah King! > > > > Cordially, > Ameya Nagarajan > (she/her) > > <http://www.linkedin.com/in/ameyann> > > > > > > On Mon, 4 Dec 2023 at 16:32, Huda Masood via Silklist < > silklist@lists.digeratus.in> wrote: > >> I started r

Re: [Silk] 2022 Silklist Book Recommendations thread

2023-12-04 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
I started reading the Murderbot series - such fun!! It also reminds me of a little known author Sarah King and her Forging Zero series which I also really enjoyed. But then I’m a sucker for post apocalyptic sci-fi interplanetary genres 😁😁 On Wed, 14 Dec 2022 at 00:49, Thaths via Silklist < silklis

Re: [Silk] 2023 Silklist Book Recommendations Thread

2023-11-19 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
Thaths, As usual, your book recommendation emails evoke equal measure anticipation and dread - my wallet feels so skinny afterwards but my soul so sated. Thank you for these. I’ll definitely be reading the one on travel writing! H. On Sun, 19 Nov 2023 at 18:15, Thaths via Silklist < silklist@li

Re: [Silk] ✋🏼Spare the rod, save the child 👧🏻

2023-08-29 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
Such a great little piece of writing. Thank you Mahima, for sharing. On Tue, 29 Aug 2023 at 08:44, Mahima Vashisht via Silklist < silklist@lists.digeratus.in> wrote: > Sharing a thoughtful post a friend wrote on this subject: > https://linesonthegrass.substack.com/p/the-cost-of-subservience > > O

Re: [Silk] [silk] Easily forgotten phrases

2023-06-22 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
Nvm, quick google search yielded results. https://sept.mit.edu/sites/default/files/Streetfighting%20Mathematics.pdf On Thu, 22 Jun 2023 at 13:17, Huda Masood wrote: > Link broken. Do you have the actual pdf maybe? > > > > On Thu, 22 Jun 2023 at 12:52, Udhay Shankar N via Silklist < > silklist@

Re: [Silk] [silk] Easily forgotten phrases

2023-06-22 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
Link broken. Do you have the actual pdf maybe? On Thu, 22 Jun 2023 at 12:52, Udhay Shankar N via Silklist < silklist@lists.digeratus.in> wrote: > For no particular reason except that this book deserves to be widely read, > I will note that it is still available via the Internet Archive, e.g at

Re: [Silk] Introduction

2023-02-26 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
Welcome Salil, Mahima, @mahima I just read one of your blog posts and I think, thank you for giving all of us a voice. You help us articulate it incredibly well. Huda M On Sun, 26 Feb 2023 at 19:25, Salil Bijur via Silklist < silklist@lists.digeratus.in> wrote: > Hi all, > > I'm Salil, I'm a ci

Re: [Silk] Hello!

2023-01-19 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
Welcome Jo! Why does your last name sound so familiar? On Thu, 19 Jan 2023 at 16:55, Jo Pattabiraman via Silklist < silklist@lists.digeratus.in> wrote: > Thank you, Udhay, for adding me to the list. I am honoured! > > Hi folks, > > my name is Jyotsna, I'm a long-time Bangalorean. Like many of yo

Re: [Silk] Looking back …

2022-12-30 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
Ask myself everyday, what I want. The death of my father this year taught me a great deal about how quiet he was about the people he supported and took care of, while never denying his own family anything. Asking myself and answering myself every day, and choosing to replace the word ‘need’ with

Re: [Silk] Silklist is back

2022-12-18 Thread Huda Masood via Silklist
I’ve made the move to Germany and I’m currently struggling to get out of bed - the lack of sun till 0800hrs is disorienting. I can hear you, loud and clear. On Sun, 18 Dec 2022 at 06:49, Jim Grisanzio via Silklist < silklist@lists.digeratus.in> wrote: > On 2022/12/13 12:23 PM, Udhay Shankar N vi