Ask myself everyday, what I want. The death of my father this year taught me a great deal about how quiet he was about the people he supported and took care of, while never denying his own family anything.
Asking myself and answering myself every day, and choosing to replace the word ‘need’ with ‘want’ helps clear my mind and gives me the courage to make tough decisions, and hope for the best. Huda M. On Fri, 30 Dec 2022 at 12:37, Amit Varma via Silklist < silklist@lists.digeratus.in> wrote: > > > On Fri, Dec 30, 2022 at 4:05 PM Peter Griffin via Silklist < > silklist@lists.digeratus.in> wrote: > >> … what’s the nicest and/or smartest thing you did for yourself in 2022? >> > > Made a decision to strip toxic people (and toxic whatsapp groups) out of > my life. Essentially people who spend too much time shitting on others, > with quote tweets and screenshots and snark, etc etc etc. Life is too short > to spend mindspace on negativity. I'd rather create good things and do good > work than fill my mind with angry thoughts about those who don't. I don't > know why more people don't get this. > > Cunningham's Law is an example of this: > https://twitter.com/G_S_Bhogal/status/1608135382788456450 > >> -- >> Silklist mailing list >> Silklist@lists.digeratus.in >> https://mailman.panix.com/listinfo.cgi/silklist >> > > > -- > Amit Varma > Writer and Columnist > Podcast -- The Seen and the Unseen <http://www.seenunseen.in/> > Newsletter -- The India Uncut Newsletter > <https://indiauncut.substack.com/> > Blog -- India Uncut <http://www.indiauncut.com> > Twitter -- @amitvarma <http://www.twitter.com/amitvarma> > -- > Silklist mailing list > Silklist@lists.digeratus.in > https://mailman.panix.com/listinfo.cgi/silklist > -- Huda Masood +91 9886796967
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