Re: [issues] Time for me to weigh in + what constitutes a cat fight.

2000-08-08 Thread Nico Hailey
On Wed, Aug 09, 2000 at 10:03:34AM +1200, Simon Britnell wrote: > > This has me thinking about the following questions: > 1) What are the essential features of a "cat fight" > 2) Why do I see them as a female thing > I suspect the answer to 1 is complex and the answer to 2 has to do with >

Re: [issues] /. Uncle Robin's Advice for Lovelorn Geeks

1999-10-24 Thread Nico Hailey
On Sun, Oct 24, 1999 at 04:48:47PM -0400, Rikki McGinty wrote: > oh my god. i just read Rob's ridiculous "article" and am truly nauseous. > http://slashdot.org/article.pl?sid=99/10/23/202252&mode=thread I donno. Kinda had a point about geek-on-geek relationships. When one of your first questions

Re: [issues] /. Uncle Robin's Advice for Lovelorn Geeks

1999-10-24 Thread Nico Hailey
On Sun, Oct 24, 1999 at 05:17:02PM -0600, Ian Hall-Beyer wrote: > Heehee... You just described a good chunk of our relationship. as > a result, we each have our own copies of various techie books. > The other big quarrel is shortly after the acquisition of cool > new hardware... It's a sad fact

Re: [issues] alienation (was: Places, issues, etc)

1999-11-01 Thread Nico Hailey
On Sun, Oct 31, 1999 at 11:10:09PM -0800, Nicole Zimmerman wrote: > An interesting experience was brought up at the end: a male to female > post-op was working as a computer programmer. After the operation, her > salary decreased by $2000. My mouth definitely dropped open! ah yes, the estrogen ta

Re: [issues] alienation (was: Places, issues, etc)

1999-11-02 Thread Nico Hailey
sorry, this is a bit long and ramblely. Thanks to the list for providing such material to chew on. On Mon, Nov 01, 1999 at 11:00:35PM -0500, Deidre L. Calarco wrote: > > should change. We persist in using this XOR model of woman/man, but I'm > > sure there's a better way. > > Why associate al

Re: [issues] alienation (was: Places, issues, etc)

1999-11-03 Thread Nico Hailey
On Wed, Nov 03, 1999 at 12:31:45AM -0500, Deidre L. Calarco wrote: > > hmmm. then it would be that you don't have a concept of "gender"? > > It seems to me that if one did not have a concept of gender then > > the label "woman" or "man" would be meaningless. > > To me, "man" and "woman" are very

Re: [issues] alienation (was: Places, issues, etc)

1999-01-02 Thread Nico Hailey
On Thu, Nov 04, 1999 at 11:34:25AM -0800, Amber Fechko wrote: > > This reminds me of myself. :) When I was younger, I absolutely > /loved/ the Transformers, both the comic books and the TV series. I'd get > up to watch it with my brother.. all the while being teased by both my > parents and my