Re: [issues] Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discovers LinuxChix

2000-01-30 Thread Terri Oda
>> Tonight someone posted the news that he had read at playboy.com that >> there was a group called LinuxChix here in Ottawa. I allowed myself to get >> ensnared in a bit of a flame-fest when someone proclaimed their >> mystification at why such intelligent women should want to split the local >>

[issues] Blind Spots about reality (was: Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discoversLinuxChix)

2000-01-30 Thread Jenn V.
Terri Oda wrote: > Jenn V. wrote: > >Mmmhmm. IMO (and YMMV) some people can't perceive that there is still > >discrimination/are still offputting environments/whatever. And I don't know > >any way to explain to them /how/ these exist. Especially since I can often > >see causes in their own actio

Re: [issues] Blind Spots about reality (was: Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discoversLinuxChix)

2000-01-30 Thread Kelly Lynn Martin
On Mon, 31 Jan 2000 09:50:05 +1100, "Jenn V." <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: >* He doesn't actually look at a female face when casually meeting, >lest he make her uncomfortable/be seen as 'looking' or challenging >her or whatever. And to sit next to a female in a tram or bus means >carefully looking

Re: [issues] Blind Spots about reality (was: Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discoversLinuxChix)

2000-01-30 Thread Sunnanvind
On Mon, 31 Jan 2000, Kelly Lynn Martin wrote: > I had to learn not to do this. I used to be a big eye-contact person > but I discovered around college that it scared people off so I learned > not to make eye contact. I suppose I should unlearn that now that I'm > not trying to pass for a guy any

Re: [issues] Blind Spots about reality (was: Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discoversLinuxChix)

2000-01-30 Thread Terri Oda
>>* He doesn't actually look at a female face when casually meeting, >>lest he make her uncomfortable/be seen as 'looking' or challenging >>her or whatever. And to sit next to a female in a tram or bus means >>carefully looking in any other direction... > >I had to learn not to do this. I used t