Deirdre Saoirse wrote:
> Well, it's not only irrelevant, it's counterproductive. As long as it's
> someone else's fault, nothing can be done to help minimize or solve the
> problems.
I disagree.
Regardless of whose fault something is, anyone can act to minimize or
solve it.
For an everyday phy
On Wed, 9 Aug 2000, Simon Britnell wrote:
> To a large degree, I think I agree with Deirdre that everyone needs to
> take responsibility for their own well-being, status etc. I too see
> blame as largely irrelevant.
Well, it's not only irrelevant, it's counterproductive. As long as it's
someone
"There seems to be two poles of attitude, summed up thus:
1) "I have a problem, but nobody else gives a shit, so I'm either going
to fix it myself or suffer."
2) "I have a problem, but somebody else caused it, so I'm going to
demand that they fix it"
There are actually more than two poles here,
On Wed, Aug 09, 2000 at 10:03:34AM +1200, Simon Britnell wrote:
>
> This has me thinking about the following questions:
> 1) What are the essential features of a "cat fight"
> 2) Why do I see them as a female thing
> I suspect the answer to 1 is complex and the answer to 2 has to do with
>
There are two topics here. The second is labelled CATFIGHT.
To a large degree, I think I agree with Deirdre that everyone needs to
take responsibility for their own well-being, status etc. I too see
blame as largely irrelevant.
I'm going to come at this from two angles, so bear with me thro
