Re: [issues] alienation (was: Places, issues, etc)

1999-10-31 Thread Nicole Zimmerman
Sorry if this gets sent twice. Netscape crashed just as I hit "send". Originally, I accidentally sent the message to myself ;o) Original Message Date: Sun, 31 Oct 1999 23:52:08 -0800 From: Nicole Zimmerman <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Organization: Penguin Chaos To: Nicole Zimmerman <[EM

Re: [issues] alienation (was: Places, issues, etc)

1999-10-31 Thread Nicole Zimmerman
I love it when I send mail to myself ;o) Original Message From: Nicole Zimmerman <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Organization: Penguin Chaos To: Nicole Zimmerman <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Subject: Re: [issues] alienation (was: Places, issues, etc) > Couldn't find anything on the show, though. F

Re: [issues] alienation (was: Places, issues, etc)

1999-10-31 Thread Nicole Zimmerman
> > There was a great documentary on the TV/TS lifestyle on the Discovery > > channel (it just ended and I am sure it will be repeated). > > I'm going to have to make a point of watching it. According to my http://www.tvguide.com/listings it will be repeated tonight at 2:00 AM PST. It is called

Re: [issues] alienation (was: Places, issues, etc)

1999-10-31 Thread Kelly Lynn Martin
On Sun, 31 Oct 1999 23:12:31 -0800 (PST), Deirdre Saoirse <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: >>An interesting experience was brought up at the end: a male to >>female post-op was working as a computer programmer. After the >>operation, her salary decreased by $2000. My mouth definitely >>dropped open! >T

Re: [issues] alienation (was: Places, issues, etc)

1999-10-31 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Sun, 31 Oct 1999, Nicole Zimmerman wrote: > There was a great documentary on the TV/TS lifestyle on the Discovery > channel (it just ended and I am sure it will be repeated). I'm going to have to make a point of watching it. > An interesting experience was brought up at the end: a male to fe

Re: [issues] Places, issues and all the rest...Maybe the Wst CoastISTHE Best Coast.

1999-10-31 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Mon, 1 Nov 1999, Kelly Lynn Martin wrote: > On Sun, 31 Oct 1999 21:29:17 -0800 (PST), Deirdre Saoirse <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: > > >Steve, this list isn't about YOUR alienation, no matter how real it > >may be. > > >It's about OUR alienation. > > Well, to an extent he's experiencing a less

Re: [issues] alienation (was: Places, issues, etc)

1999-10-31 Thread Nicole Zimmerman
> Kelly (who understands alienation better than anyone has any right > to...) There was a great documentary on the TV/TS lifestyle on the Discovery channel (it just ended and I am sure it will be repeated). An interesting experience was brought up at the end: a male to female post-op was working

Re: [issues] Something I've observed

1999-10-31 Thread Cat
> > point to make. Then came the adult linux thing, and suddenly I thought, > > 'Oh, *I* see.' I felt that one was a calculated prelude to the other. > > I'm not sure if it was that calculated other than "I need to introduce > myself first." ::shrug:: (to Deirdre) Given your insight on the mat

Re: [issues] Places, issues and all the rest...Maybe the Wst CoastIS THE Best Coast.

1999-10-31 Thread Kelly Lynn Martin
On Sun, 31 Oct 1999 21:29:17 -0800 (PST), Deirdre Saoirse <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: >Steve, this list isn't about YOUR alienation, no matter how real it >may be. >It's about OUR alienation. Well, to an extent he's experiencing a lesser alienation female geeks sometimes feel: alienation from mor

Re: [issues] Re: [issues What is ismissing...what am I missing...

1999-10-31 Thread Kelly Lynn Martin
On Sun, 31 Oct 1999 18:19:04 -0500, Steve Kudlak <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> said: >Steve adds, he will have to use spell correctors. I am pretty burnout >today. Really bad. I am sick of companies and their uptightness, I >will have to pick a loose company, should I change. I am loose, came >out of that

Re: [issues] Something I've observed

1999-10-31 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Mon, 1 Nov 1999, Cat wrote: > On Sun, 31 Oct 1999, Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > > > Nothing stops the conversation around here faster than some CMOTW [1] > > (who obviously doesn't get it) posting a lot of things that create what > > is basically noise. And then everything stops. > > I absolute

Re: [issues] Something I've observed

1999-10-31 Thread Cat
On Sun, 31 Oct 1999, Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > Nothing stops the conversation around here faster than some CMOTW [1] > (who obviously doesn't get it) posting a lot of things that create what > is basically noise. And then everything stops. I absolutely agree with your observation. Notice how we

Re: [issues] Re: [issues What is ismissing...what am I missing...

1999-10-31 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Mon, 1 Nov 1999, Steve Kudlak wrote: ::plonk:: Next? -- _Deirdre * http://www.linuxcabal.net * http://www.deirdre.net "Mars has been a tough target" -- Peter G. Neumann, Risks Digest Moderator "That's because the Martians keep shooting things down." -- Harlan Rosenthal <[EMAIL PROTE

Re: [issues] Places, issues and all the rest...Maybe the Wst CoastISTHE Best Coast.

1999-10-31 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Mon, 1 Nov 1999, Steve Kudlak wrote: > Well let's see, my emotional,. really got the best of me, Steve, this list isn't about YOUR alienation, no matter how real it may be. It's about OUR alienation. -- _Deirdre * http://www.linuxcabal.net * http://www.deirdre.net "Mars has bee

Re: [issues] Re: [issues What is ismissing...what am I missing...

1999-10-31 Thread Steve Kudlak
Steve Kudlak wrote: > Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > > > On Sun, 31 Oct 1999, Steve Kudlak wrote: > > > > > But U have tons of John Malloy (dress for success) telling me how to > > > dress. Beyond common decency boradly considered. I have been upbraided > > > in tnetervies and walked out because of

Re: [issues] Places, issues and all the rest...Maybe the Wst CoastIS THE Best Coast.

1999-10-31 Thread Steve Kudlak
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > > Steve Kudlak wrote: > > > > There are a lot of places where differentness *isn't* tolerated and I > > suspect that if you just don't "fit in" that would be uncomfortable. Some > > areas of the country are more formal than others. > > One thi

[issues] Something I've observed

1999-10-31 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
Nothing stops the conversation around here faster than some CMOTW [1] (who obviously doesn't get it) posting a lot of things that create what is basically noise. And then everything stops. This is all too similar to what happened at our second Bay Area Linuxchix meeting[2]. In the first meeting,

Re: [issues] Places, issues and all the rest...Maybe the Wst CoastIS THE Best Coast.

1999-10-31 Thread jenn
Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > Steve Kudlak wrote: > > There are a lot of places where differentness *isn't* tolerated and I > suspect that if you just don't "fit in" that would be uncomfortable. Some > areas of the country are more formal than others. One thing to remember is that we cannot change any

Re: [issues] Places, issues and all the rest...Maybe the Wst CoastIS THE Best Coast.

1999-10-31 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Sun, 31 Oct 1999, Steve Kudlak wrote: > I better go back to the West Coast of NOrth AMerica, high rents, > housing problems and all. Maybe even Ottowa. MY curerent environment is > diriving me to literal tears. Everytime I thing I got it all down, > something blows up and drive me to almost li

[issues] Places, issues and all the rest...Maybe the Wst Coast IS THE Best Coast.

1999-10-31 Thread Steve Kudlak
Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > > > You know, if you're not in San Francisco, perhaps you should be. There is > a tolerance here for differentness that I haven't seen elsewhere. > > -- > _Deirdre * http://www.linuxcabal.net * http://www.deirdre.net > "Mars has been a tough target" -- Peter G.

Re: [issues] Re: [issues What is ismissing...what am I missing...

1999-10-31 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Sun, 31 Oct 1999, Rachel Greenham wrote: > > You can also dress too casually and yet still be too stuffy for almost > > any company. For example, I was once flown to a place where I wore a skirt > > suit and a bright blouse -- but I found out when I arrived that it was > > strictly a grey-suit

Re: [issues] Re: [issues What is ismissing...what am I missing...

1999-10-31 Thread Steve Kudlak
BEING INTENSELY DIFFERENT IS THE THING TO DO... It really seems the only way real progress is made. Sometimes mistakes are made that way. I try underastand all the obejctification stuff sometimes I get it. Sometimss no. I will try to be kind but sometimes I miss points that others see that are

Re: [issues] Re: [issues What is ismissing...what am I missing...

1999-10-31 Thread Steve Kudlak
Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > On Sun, 31 Oct 1999, Steve Kudlak wrote: > > > But U have tons of John Malloy (dress for success) telling me how to > > dress. Beyond common decency boradly considered. I have been upbraided > > in tnetervies and walked out because of this. Please tell me what I am > >

Re: [issues] Re: [issues What is ismissing...what am I missing...

1999-10-31 Thread Rachel Greenham
Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > > On Sun, 31 Oct 1999, Steve Kudlak wrote: > > > But U have tons of John Malloy (dress for success) telling me how to > > dress. Beyond common decency boradly considered. I have been upbraided > > in tnetervies and walked out because of this. Please tell me what I am >

Re: [issues] Re: [issues What is ismissing...what am I missing...

1999-10-31 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Sun, 31 Oct 1999, Steve Kudlak wrote: > This has been a personal issue for me for ages. I tend to think that it > is turning be into an object, close to a slave to be forced to wear > cetain clothese non-volunarity. OK, trying to relate the earlier thread, THIS is what MOST women feel like wh

Re: [issues] Re: [issues What is ismissing...what am I missing...

1999-10-31 Thread Deirdre Saoirse
On Sun, 31 Oct 1999, Steve Kudlak wrote: > But U have tons of John Malloy (dress for success) telling me how to > dress. Beyond common decency boradly considered. I have been upbraided > in tnetervies and walked out because of this. Please tell me what I am > missing, gentluyy. Why do I have to

Re: [issues] Re: [issues What is ismissing...what am I missing...

1999-10-31 Thread Steve Kudlak
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > Steve Kudlak wrote: > > > P.S>. It is a geek issue we dress unlik others. Why do I have to make people in > > personell happy, and why should I care...other than just raw power, and what is > > difference between she got hired for her looks and he for his clothese. OT

Re: [issues] Re: [issues What is ismissing...what am I missing...

1999-10-31 Thread jenn
Steve Kudlak wrote: > P.S>. It is a geek issue we dress unlik others. Why do I have to make people in > personell happy, and why should I care...other than just raw power, and what is > difference between she got hired for her looks and he for his clothese. OTher > than one is easier to change...

[issues] Re: [issues What is ismissing...what am I missing...

1999-10-31 Thread Steve Kudlak
Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > On Sat, 30 Oct 1999, Steve Kudlak wrote: > > > Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > > > Ya know Steve, you seem to be missing the overall point. :) > > > > Well I take that as a joke. I mean we are more than out physical looks. > > Because, as I mentioned some in some other message

Re: [issues] Not meant as an insult...

1999-10-31 Thread Steve Kudlak
Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > On Sat, 30 Oct 1999, Steve Kudlak wrote: > > > Deirdre Saoirse wrote: > > > Ya know Steve, you seem to be missing the overall point. :) > > > > Well I take that as a joke. I mean we are more than out physical looks. > > Because, as I mentioned some in some other message