Keep the faith, brother.  And oh yeah, Semper Fi!

On Thu, Aug 18, 2011 at 3:24 PM, Leslie <leslie.bri...@gmail.com> wrote:
> I've been sittin' on the sidelines on this, but, I suppose I should pitch in
> a bit...
>
> Twenty years ago, I was a lean 19-yr-old,  6' tall, 150lb infantry Marine.
> Before then, I could eat anything, wouldn't gain a pound.  When I got out
> several years later, I was more like 180lbs; heavier, but strong,
> square-built, was fine. But, married, two kids, entered grad school, ended
> up sitting on my duff, sedentary. By the time ten years had passed (ten
> years ago), I'd gotten up to... 280lbs. I still thought of myself as a
> skinny kid in my head, but was anything but.  Finally, wanted to do
> something about, and I heard about how well low-carb worked for people,
> decided to try it.
>
> I didn't buy a book, or follow a particular menu;  I just tried to not eat
> carbs.  I'd started in at the beginning of March, and by the end of
> November, I was down to 200lbs.    I thought, awesome.
>
> But, there between Thanksgiving and Christmas, a switch was thrown in my
> head.   If I thought about not eating a roll, I found that I ate the basket
> of rolls.  If I thought about not eating a donut at the coffee pot, I'd eat
> a dozen donuts.  Want to pass on a piece of pie, I ate a pie.    It was
> eerie.   It was like there was some change in how I was wired.   By the end
> of spring, I was up to about 230.   And, there I stayed for five, six or so
> more years.
>
> I'd not paid close enough attention, my weight had crept back up, to about
> 260.    I needed to get off my duff and try again.   I started watching
> carbs again, and, this time, that's when I got back on a bike, after a long
> hiatus.   I got down to 220, then would creep back up to 240, then back yoyo
> down to 230, back to 240...   last Thanksgiving, I was 220 again, but by the
> end of New Years', was back up further, to 260;  By March, I was down to
> 230;  but I've since gotten to where I fluctuate between 235 and 240.
>
> It's hard;  vegetables and meats are more expensive than carbs. I have a
> sweet tooth.   I like beer.      I do like the idea of eating nice salads
> and lean cuts of meat, but when the wife insists on having selections of
> cookies in the house, it's hard to not sneak one.  When suppertime comes and
> it's pasta and potatoes, it's hard to skip dinner.    The first time I lost
> all the weight, she was really supportive of it, but, what also didn't help
> my backsliding was that she realized she'd doubled our food budget, and
> decided to revert to more bread, potato, snacky stuff.... she was tired of
> not having bags of chips in the house, just to keep me from being tempted.
> So, in my house, it's a struggle.    I want to get down under 200, but when
> my wife makes a point of saying she doesn't care if I'm over 250, then she
> opens up a bag of candy bars....    When I want to go for a bike-ride, but
> she says she wants to spend more time with me, but just wants to nap on the
> couch and watch TV to do so, it's hard to not be sedentary.   I want her to
> be more active, too, but she doesn't want to...  I want to live to a ripe
> old age, and she says she doesn't want to be an old woman, would be ready to
> kick the bucket sooner than later, especially if it meant she had to get off
> the couch, well.....
>
> It's frustrating.
>
>
> + + + +
>
> The other day, the local paper ran an article.   There was a ranking of
> metro areas and transportation conducted; at the bottom of the list, 3rd
> from last place for non-car infrastructure, was the Tri-Cities here.   It's
> fact, I can't deny it.  You can't get to work on a bus here; there's a bike
> trail here or there but using one to commute is hazardous.   Mobile was 1st,
> I don't remember what was 2nd, but, basically, if you live here, you can't
> function w/o a car.   I know I can't.  I didn't used to think in terms of
> wanting to commute by bike;  it really didn't bother me that it's a 40-min
> drive to the office.   When I lived in Knoxville, I was less than 10-miles
> from my office, and it took an hour, w/ traffic;  so for it to be 40-miles
> from driveway to parking lot at work, and take 40-minutes, I was thrilled it
> was 'that short' of a commute.   I know lots of people that drive an hour
> and a half to work each day.   It didn't bother me before, but, I didn't
> think about it before, either.
>
> It's risky to bike here.   I and my kids, we go biking when we can.  Yet,
> even my wife complains about the one fellow who rides home in the afternoons
> along Orebank Road.   He has as much right as she does to the road, but she
> thinks he should get off the road, quit holding up cars.   I can't argue w/
> her, even if I think she's wrong, she's heck to live w/ if I do argue w/
> her.   But when the spouses and mothers of the bikers in town think bikes
> should go away, it's hard to see progress made in getting more people to
> bike.
>
> Sorry for venting, but, it's been starting to gnaw at me....
>
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