On Wed, May 3, 2023 at 12:30 AM John Naylor <john.nay...@enterprisedb.com> wrote: > I went to go find the phrase that I thought I was reacted to, and ... > nothing. I am also baffled. My comment was inexcusable.
I'd quite like to drop this topic, and get on with the work at hand. But before I do that, I ask you to consider one thing: if you were mistaken about my words (or their intent) on this occasion, isn't it also possible that it wasn't the first time? I never had the opportunity to sit down to talk with you face to face before now. If things had been different (if we managed to talk at one of the PGCons before COVID, say), then maybe this incident would have happened in just the same way. I can't help but think that some face time would have prevented the whole episode, though. You have every right to dislike me on a personal level, of course, but if you do then I'd very much prefer that it be due to one of my actual flaws. I'm not a petty man -- I don't resent the success of others. I've always thought that you do rather good work. Plus I'm just not in the habit of obstructing things that I directly benefit from. -- Peter Geoghegan