it is amazing that after Gujrat , such assertions are being made , blasts
took place in delhi in public places which are visited by all , Connaught
place , Greater Kailash Market etc are places we all visit , i am a muslim
and  frequently make purchases from these places , blasts did not take place
in any colony , and if it does in future , God forbids ,  happens in our
colony ,  where  besides us many other muslims families live , bombs will
have no sensors as you have rightly pointed . We live in a colony which is
BJP dominated .

We live in harmony , share with each other our grief and happiness , next
door neighbour who has a young 3 year old daughter , watches cartoons and
plays with us , they do not susupect us , neither we suspect them , We also
have Hindu neighbors who are not in good terms with us , besides us there
are many Hinud's with whom they do not get along , me and my other hindu
friend often sit and talk against them , so the relationship is good or bad
on the basis of similarity and differences in perceptions and not because
they are Hindus or Muslims , There are some muslim families i just can not
get along with them .

last two years our IDD celebrations have been  dull because of Navratri ,
our IDD is IDD when our non - muslim friends visit us , because muslims are
busy with their own celebrations . friends whom we do not meet the complete
year due to busy schedule , ensure that they do not miss IDD . my daughter's
Hindu friends come and fast once  during Ramdan with my daughter , my
dauhter and son go and play HOLI and celebrate diwali , we trust each other
, my children celebrate christmas , and have christian friends as well , my
son visited India only to attend the marriage of a HINDU friend. Once while
there was commnal tension my son's father ( Hindu) was the first one to call
and said that we must shift to their house.Terrorism is an abberartion in
the society. that is not a normal behaviour ,  statistics tells us that
majority will always be normal / average , take a statistics book and read
more about normal probability curve , For a change interact more with
muslims, with an open mind, that is the solution , it might change your
perception about them. Perhaps segregation has led to such a situation .
Suspecting every muslim will in return offer nothing but a paranoid
 personality , which is not a healthy state of mind


best

Ms sarwat ali

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