Hi Oshiro and all, Is there a way to deal with FEMINISTS or CHAUVINISTS?!
Wow,Oshiro,you just came up with a BEST-SELLER's title,I think! Maybe we can write this book together or someone has already made a huge fortune out of it.LOL Seriously,I am running out of time today unfortunately,but I'll keep thinking about this tough question and maybe tomorrow I can give you some solutions,just maybe though...LOL A pleasant day to us all! Pln On May 6, 3:14 pm, Rafael Oshiro <[email protected]> wrote: > Hi Pln, > > These notes was kind feminist but they are just jokes. There is a male > version of these notes I think LOL > I can't identify myself with any of them but I can imagine there are both > men and women that think that way and I believe those who behave like that > are short-tempered with the opposite sex. > > Pln, indeed, your question is really tough!! > Do you think there is a way to deal with these kind of people? > > Nice day for all!! > Oshiro > > > > On Wed, May 6, 2009 at 7:06 AM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: > > > Hi Piotrek John Jacqueline Ed Oshiro and all others, > > > This is a topic too difficult for me to tackle,and that's why I didn't > > dare to respond earlier.:( > > > However,one female student of mine lent me a calendar called"Women's > > Workplace Nasty Notes" a few days ago,and I'd like to share some > > "golden thoughts" of it with you. > > > If it's possible,tell me what you think of them. > > > ================================================================================== > > "Women who seek to be equal to men lack ambition." > > > "What am I? Your maid?" > > > "All men are animals.Some just make better pets." > > > "I'm not deaf.I'm ignoring you." > > > "I wasn't flirting.I was just being friendly." > > > "Next mood swing:6 minutes." > > > "Guys have feelings,too.But like...who cares?" > > > "Warning!I have an attitude and I know how to use it." > > > "When God made man...SHE was only kidding!" > > > "I'm the person your mother warned you about!" > > > "You say I'm a bitch like it's a bad thing." > > > "And your crybaby whinny opinion would be?" > > > "There's no excuse for the way I'm about to behave." > > > "Not all men are annoying,some are dead." > > > "Well,this day was a total waste of makeup." > > > "Anything you do can get you fired;this includes doing nothing." > > > "Not a morning person...doesn't even begin to describe it." > > > "Indecision is the key to flexibility." > > > "If you think there's good in everybody,you haven't met everybody." > > > "I'm not anti-social.I'm just not very friendly." > > > "I have one nerve left,and you're getting on it." > > > ================================================================================== > > Are those notes nasty enough for you? > > Can you identify with any of them? > > That's actually how most men see most women,and vice versa in real > > ife. It's rather sad,isn't it? > > > How to do about it then?!;) > > Another tough question! > > > Good day to us all! > > Pln > > > On Apr 22, 4:27 pm, Rafael Oshiro <[email protected]> wrote: > > > Hi Piotrek, > > > > What you said is really truth, at least all the complaints you've written > > > here are the same I usually hear from my friends and people around me. We > > > can't deny it, and I'm pretty sure these are the differences between > > women > > > and men. > > > I believe that the great part of sucessful relationships are reached when > > > the couple manage to cope with the differences and accept them. The less > > > differences the couple have, the less discussions they may have. This is > > not > > > a rule. > > > > As a male point of view, my opinion about that is that sometimes is very > > > hard for me to deal with some aspects of women (I'm sure women suffer > > from > > > that as well, when they are talking about men), but when I'm about to get > > > angry or annoyed or something like that, I breath deeply and think twice > > if > > > it's worth to discuss about. > > > > Oshiro > > > > On Tue, Apr 14, 2009 at 5:23 AM, Piotrek_Luniewski < > > [email protected] > > > > > wrote: > > > > > I didn't really know what to think of as a topic and suddenly it hit > > > > me. Some of my friends have problems in their relationships ;). All of > > > > relationships are difficult, that's for sure, but often it's worth > > > > making an effort to make it better. From my female friends I hear: > > > > -he's not listening to me > > > > -he wants to have sex all the time > > > > -he wants me to prepare for him dinner every day (both of them are 16 > > > > ooOOooh my god) > > > > -he is not able to talk with me seriously > > > > From male ones: > > > > -she wants to talk all the time > > > > -she talks all the time > > > > -before we go out she is standing in her closet for 1 hour > > > > -she wants me to be romantic all the time > > > > I don't want to ask you 3 questions as usually people do but I'd love > > > > to see male and female point of view what should a man or woman change > > > > in their behaviours. > > > > It may seem to you as it's just another stupid topic and maybe you're > > > > right but I want us all to show what do we expect in our relationships > > > > and what are we going to change or we already did. Of course there may > > > > be a little fight between men and women but let's not take it > > > > seriously. It will be hard to start this discussion but when it will > > > > I'm sure a lot of people would like to add part of them to the > > > > discussion. Maybe you can give some advice to another sex ;) > > > > > You can as well tell us about your problems in your relationship and > > > > for sure we all can be somehow closer to each other and get to know > > > > better people from this group. > > > > > Let's start the discussion ;)- Hide quoted text - > > > > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". 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