Hi Piotrek, What you said is really truth, at least all the complaints you've written here are the same I usually hear from my friends and people around me. We can't deny it, and I'm pretty sure these are the differences between women and men. I believe that the great part of sucessful relationships are reached when the couple manage to cope with the differences and accept them. The less differences the couple have, the less discussions they may have. This is not a rule.
As a male point of view, my opinion about that is that sometimes is very hard for me to deal with some aspects of women (I'm sure women suffer from that as well, when they are talking about men), but when I'm about to get angry or annoyed or something like that, I breath deeply and think twice if it's worth to discuss about. Oshiro On Tue, Apr 14, 2009 at 5:23 AM, Piotrek_Luniewski <[email protected] > wrote: > > I didn't really know what to think of as a topic and suddenly it hit > me. Some of my friends have problems in their relationships ;). All of > relationships are difficult, that's for sure, but often it's worth > making an effort to make it better. From my female friends I hear: > -he's not listening to me > -he wants to have sex all the time > -he wants me to prepare for him dinner every day (both of them are 16 > ooOOooh my god) > -he is not able to talk with me seriously > From male ones: > -she wants to talk all the time > -she talks all the time > -before we go out she is standing in her closet for 1 hour > -she wants me to be romantic all the time > I don't want to ask you 3 questions as usually people do but I'd love > to see male and female point of view what should a man or woman change > in their behaviours. > It may seem to you as it's just another stupid topic and maybe you're > right but I want us all to show what do we expect in our relationships > and what are we going to change or we already did. Of course there may > be a little fight between men and women but let's not take it > seriously. It will be hard to start this discussion but when it will > I'm sure a lot of people would like to add part of them to the > discussion. Maybe you can give some advice to another sex ;) > > You can as well tell us about your problems in your relationship and > for sure we all can be somehow closer to each other and get to know > better people from this group. > > Let's start the discussion ;) > > > --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". To post to this group, send email to: [email protected] or just reply this message For invite your friends, visit: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/members_invite Know how help us, visit this FAQ at: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/web/frequently-asked-questions -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
