Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-08 Thread Martin G. Diehl
Stewart, John wrote: [snip] The opt-out was to email back to the address and ask to be removed. The problem was that no one was regularly checking this address. I spoke to the co-owner again about this and it sounds like they are putting in a procedure to check this account regularly. johnS No

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-07 Thread Bart Schaefer
On 5/6/05, List Mail User <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Again, there is an unfortunate exception provided by Sec 3.17 > which allows "Transactional or relationship message-" and in particular > clause A.iii.I specifically allows "notification concerning a change in > the terms or features of

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-07 Thread Thomas Cameron
I'm still torn on whether to show up for my appointment at 1pm. I think just because I was treated with contempt by the person I spoke to earlier, I don't want to give them my money... Absolutely not. Vote with your wallet.

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-07 Thread List Mail User
>>[old material snipped] >> >http://www.spamlaws.com/federal/108s877.shtml > >Point 1) - "Tell you that you're going to get it when you sign up" The "standard out" for this is a clause like "and you agree to the terms referenced on our standard policies page" - which includes a clause s

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-07 Thread Loren Wilton
> Do I: > YOu have pointed out a key several times, but seemingly missed it. These people are amatuers and newbies to the web. Quite possibly they are doing this whole thing themselves from a "web foe dummies" book. Almost certainly they got the idea of a web site from some customer suggesting

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-07 Thread Bookworm
List Mail User wrote: To NOT be "spam" and be *cough* condoned UCE, it must 1) Tell you that you're going to get it when you sign up; or 1a) Send you a notification that you are now being signed up for it. (Southwestern Bell doesn't seem to do this either, btw. They created a new list and sig

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-07 Thread List Mail User
>... > >List Mail User wrote: > > >> JohnS, >> >> As many of the regulars on this list can tell you, I *hate* spam >>as much as nearly anyone here; But... Mike is absolutely correct, what >>they have done is "slimely", but is not for most purposes "spam" (IANAL). >>It is UCE (unsolicite

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread jdow
From: "Mike Jackson" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Find a creative and positive solution. Educate, be polite, offer to set up a > less amateurish mail system that would provide a way for customers to opt > out of the emailings, ask your wife to learn to cut your hair. But for the > love of Elvis don't act

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread jdow
From: "Stewart, John" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > Well, I just got a call from the person at the store who is responsible for > setting up the technical side of things. > > It was not a good conversation. > > I was very calm (until the end) and tried to explain why it was a bad idea, > what they needed

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread jdow
From: "Chris Santerre" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > *snip* > Do NOT place false appointments. Do not hack site. DO Educate. > > Note: Make sure you do all this AFTER they cut your hair :) {^v^}

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread jdow
From: "Stewart, John" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Do I: > > - Never go there again, as I said would be the case in my previous email? > > - Show up and try to convince her what a horrible thing she is doing? > > - Just screw with their (horribly insecure) online site, signing up for > appointments al

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Bookworm
List Mail User wrote: JohnS, As many of the regulars on this list can tell you, I *hate* spam as much as nearly anyone here; But... Mike is absolutely correct, what they have done is "slimely", but is not for most purposes "spam" (IANAL). It is UCE (unsolicited commercial email),

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread List Mail User
>... >From: "Mike Jackson" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >To: >References: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >Subject: Re: Confession and rage >Date: Fri, 6 May 2005 08:34:00 -0700 >... > >[snipped - um, pun intended] > >Okay, I'm going to take the devil's

RE: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Dan Hollis
On Fri, 6 May 2005, Stewart, John wrote: > I'm still torn on whether to show up for my appointment at 1pm. I think just > because I was treated with contempt by the person I spoke to earlier, I > don't want to give them my money... Yes. Anyone who wastes your time and treats you with contempt shou

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Martin G. Diehl
Stewart, John wrote: Well, I just got a call from the person at the store who is responsible for setting up the technical side of things. It was not a good conversation. I recall a telephone solicitation ... I was getting calls from a cemetery about their great real estate deals ... on the same

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Martin G. Diehl
Chris Santerre wrote: *snip* Cliffs: Hairdresser is spamming anyone with an account. Do I: - Show up and try to convince her what a horrible thing she is doing? Yup. Yes ... if you show up in person ... as a client ... she will react differently than to eMail or telephone. - Simply ban their dom

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Dimitri Yioulos
On Friday May 6 2005 12:45 pm, Stewart, John wrote: > > >Although not the ideal solution, it will suffice, I suppose. > > > > I wouldn't > > > > >think at this point (assuming they make this change) that it warrants > > >submission to any RBLs. > > > > I do. I think that if they don't offer an opt

RE: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Stewart, John
> >Although not the ideal solution, it will suffice, I suppose. > I wouldn't > >think at this point (assuming they make this change) that it warrants > >submission to any RBLs. > > I do. I think that if they don't offer an opt out then it > becomes unsolicited. The opt-out was to email back t

RE: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Ed Kasky
At 09:17 AM Friday, 5/6/2005, John wrote -=> Well, I just got another call from the co-owner in charge of the software side. She is having a disclaimer added to the site so that if you log in and create an account, it tells you that you will get notified of special offers, etc. Of course, if you do

RE: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Stewart, John
> If the OP has already asked (politely) to be removed, then they are > indeed spamming. The first mail, I would say is warranted, the mails > after the opt-out are not. Exactly; I did ask. However, it appears that they rarely check the account they have for sender address. > If they are in th

RE: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Stewart, John
> LOL yeah, just post her domain name here, and I'll add it to > uribl.com ;) > (Thats a URI-BL, not an RBL. The greatest antispam technique > since blah blah blah.) > > Spamcop is always a good place. Well, I just got another call from the co-owner in charge of the software side. She is

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread James R
Mike Jackson wrote: [snipped - um, pun intended] Okay, I'm going to take the devil's advocate approach here. By signing up with them, you created a business relationship. While their emails may be unwanted, they're not unsolicited. Your righteous indignation is unfounded - as much as I hate spam

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Carlo Wood
On Fri, May 06, 2005 at 10:28:38AM -0500, Stewart, John wrote: > > Well, I just got a call from the person at the store who is responsible for > setting up the technical side of things. > > It was not a good conversation. > > I was very calm (until the end) and tried to explain why it was a ba

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread qqqq
Agree with these steps 100%! | >- Show up and try to convince her what a horrible thing she is doing? | | Yup. | | > | >- Simply ban their domain from my mailserver and report them | >to the RBLs? | | Yup. And tell her you will. Tell her she is about to get all her emails | blocked from

RE: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Chris Santerre
>-Original Message- >From: Stewart, John [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] >Sent: Friday, May 06, 2005 11:30 AM >To: 'Chris Santerre'; 'users@spamassassin.apache.org' >Subject: RE: Confession and rage > > > >> >- Simply ban their domai

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Mike Jackson
[snipped - um, pun intended] Okay, I'm going to take the devil's advocate approach here. By signing up with them, you created a business relationship. While their emails may be unwanted, they're not unsolicited. Your righteous indignation is unfounded - as much as I hate spam, this is not spam,

RE: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Stewart, John
> >- Simply ban their domain from my mailserver and report them > >to the RBLs? > > Yup. And tell her you will. Tell her she is about to get all > her emails > blocked from 3/4 of the earth. As I've never actually submitted a domain to any RBLs before, any suggestions on good ones to use? th

RE: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Stewart, John
Well, I just got a call from the person at the store who is responsible for setting up the technical side of things. It was not a good conversation. I was very calm (until the end) and tried to explain why it was a bad idea, what they needed to do to make it work ethically, etc, how they could

Re: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Ron Johnson
Chris Santerre writes: > > *snip* > > Cliffs: Hairdresser is spamming anyone with an account. > > > > >Do I: > > > > >- Show up and try to convince her what a horrible thing she is doing? > > Yup. FWIW I had a similar experience. I thought I'd convinced the person I talked to that spamming w

RE: Confession and rage

2005-05-06 Thread Chris Santerre
*snip* Cliffs: Hairdresser is spamming anyone with an account. > >Do I: > >- Show up and try to convince her what a horrible thing she is doing? Yup. > >- Simply ban their domain from my mailserver and report them >to the RBLs? Yup. And tell her you will. Tell her she is about to get all he