Re: Respect (was Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian)

2004-03-27 Thread Matthias Urlichs
Hi, Nathanael Nerode wrote: > To get back to something *concrete*, would anyone find it sexist if the > phrase was "So easy your secretary or your boss could use it"? This pairs > a stereotypically male and a sterotypically female profession, both > stereotypically clueless. These words are also

Re: Respect (was Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian)

2004-03-23 Thread Nathanael Nerode
Andrew Suffield wrote: > If people address issues rather than personalitites then everything > you have said is completely irrelevant, because they aren't going to > be perturbed by the "speech" pattern of the people they are talking > to, so we can phrase things however we damn well please. You'r

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-23 Thread Nathanael Nerode
Evan Prodromou wrote: >> "AS" == Andrew Suffield <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes: > > AS> Sure, and that's best accomplished by everybody not being a > AS> wuss. > > It doesn't make you a wuss to be respectful to others. Quite the > contrary: the strong know their own strength and don't n

Re: Respect (was Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian)

2004-03-23 Thread Floris Bruynooghe
On Tue, Mar 23, 2004 at 09:28:12PM +, Andrew Suffield wrote: > On Tue, Mar 23, 2004 at 09:14:52AM -0500, Evan Prodromou wrote: > > AS> The rest of your mail was based on similarly dumb ideas. > > > > Which ideas do I have that are so dumb? > > > That you shouldn't be mean when you don't h

Re: Respect (was Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian)

2004-03-23 Thread Andrew Suffield
On Tue, Mar 23, 2004 at 09:14:52AM -0500, Evan Prodromou wrote: > AS> The rest of your mail was based on similarly dumb ideas. > > Which ideas do I have that are so dumb? > That you shouldn't be mean when you don't have to? Yes, that's hippie shit. If you s/shouldn't/don't need to/ then it'

Respect (was Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian)

2004-03-23 Thread Evan Prodromou
> "AS" == Andrew Suffield <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes: Me> Within our project, if you consider the most effective DDs*, Me> you're going to also be thinking of the most reasonable, Me> thoughtful, and friendly ones. AS> No, I'd say that's entirely wrong. I'd say that you're be

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-23 Thread Andrew Suffield
On Tue, Mar 23, 2004 at 10:09:48AM +, MJ Ray wrote: > On 2004-03-22 21:52:52 + Andrew Suffield <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > > >I don't want people to say "this might be suboptimal" instead of "this > >is crap", because then I won't be able to tell the difference between > >things that a

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-23 Thread Anthony Towns
On Tue, Mar 23, 2004 at 09:42:47AM +, Andrew Suffield wrote: > > Hey, sure. It's impossible not to offend anyone. But it's always > > possible to deal with people politely and respectfully. How they react > > is their own business. > That attitude was the cause of the Earth-Minbari war. And h

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-23 Thread MJ Ray
On 2004-03-22 21:52:52 + Andrew Suffield <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: I don't want people to say "this might be suboptimal" instead of "this is crap", because then I won't be able to tell the difference between things that are crap and things that are suboptimal. I *want* to know when somethi

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-23 Thread Andrew Suffield
On Mon, Mar 22, 2004 at 05:31:52PM -0500, Evan Prodromou wrote: > Within our project, if you consider the most effective DDs*, you're > going to also be thinking of the most reasonable, thoughtful, and > friendly ones. No, I'd say that's entirely wrong. The rest of your mail was based on similarly

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Evan Prodromou
> "JW" == Jonathan Walther <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes: JW> I don't appreciate the way you are always "flexing your JW> muscles" and accusing your fellow DDs of being sexist. I didn't accuse you of being sexist, Jonathan. I would, if I knew that you thought that dogs and women were equ

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Jonathan Walther
On Mon, Mar 22, 2004 at 05:31:52PM -0500, Evan Prodromou wrote: "AS" == Andrew Suffield <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes: AS> Sure, and that's best accomplished by everybody not being a AS> wuss. It doesn't make you a wuss to be respectful to others. Quite the contrary: the strong know their o

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Evan Prodromou
> "AS" == Andrew Suffield <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes: AS> Sure, and that's best accomplished by everybody not being a AS> wuss. It doesn't make you a wuss to be respectful to others. Quite the contrary: the strong know their own strength and don't need to flex their muscles all the ti

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Andrew Suffield
On Mon, Mar 22, 2004 at 01:37:20PM -0500, Evan Prodromou wrote: > > "GW" == Gunnar Wolf <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes: > > GW> However, I do feel that trying to be politically correct in > GW> order never to offend anyone is plain stupid. > > How about this: > > 1) We act courteous, ma

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Evan Prodromou
> "GW" == Gunnar Wolf <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes: GW> However, I do feel that trying to be politically correct in GW> order never to offend anyone is plain stupid. How about this: 1) We act courteous, mature, and professional towards each other. 2) When representing Debian, we thin

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Gunnar Wolf
Amaya dijo [Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 02:44:31PM +0100]: > On a side note, other real life examples. > - At Debconf @ Toronto, BDale used grannies as examples of the worst > kind of clueless users Debian should aim at. Susan happens to be a DD > and a grannie, so he stood corrected, but refused my p

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Evan Prodromou
-BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE- Hash: SHA1 > "JW" == Jonathan Walther <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes: JW> You are right. It is horrible discrimination that my pet dog JW> is not allowed to vote in the US presidential elections. Down JW> with discrimination! Let me get this strai

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread MJ Ray
On 2004-03-21 01:46:14 + Hamish Moffatt <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: On Sat, Mar 20, 2004 at 03:30:32PM +, MJ Ray wrote: Ignoring the sexism, it's still rather insensitive to some. Would improving ease-of-use make debian usable by the dead? That is a very silly comment indeed. So are

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-21 Thread Jonathan Walther
On Sun, Mar 21, 2004 at 09:08:46PM -0500, Nathanael Nerode wrote: Yes, you should indeed complain about the "so easy your grandmother can use it", but not because it discriminates against women; rather, because it discriminates against men. There is no substantive difference between the two, IMN

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-21 Thread Nathanael Nerode
Jonathan Walther wrote: > Yes, you should indeed complain about the "so easy your grandmother can > use it", but not because it discriminates against women; rather, > because it discriminates against men. There is no substantive difference between the two, IMNSHO; I feel no need, when pointing out

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-20 Thread Jaldhar H. Vyas
On Sat, 20 Mar 2004, Benj. Mako Hill wrote: > IIRC, the point Susan brought up at Debconf2 after the numerous "so > easy your grandmother can use it" references was, "why always the > "grand*mother*?" I remember talking to Susan about this and though my memory is a bit fuzzy I thought her point w

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-20 Thread Hamish Moffatt
On Sat, Mar 20, 2004 at 03:30:32PM +, MJ Ray wrote: > On 2004-03-20 00:12:26 + Benj. Mako Hill <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > >IIRC, the point Susan brought up at Debconf2 after the numerous "so > >easy your grandmother can use it" [...] > > Ignoring the sexism, it's still rather insensit

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-20 Thread Jonathan Walther
On Sat, Mar 20, 2004 at 01:12:26AM +0100, Benj. Mako Hill wrote: IIRC, the point Susan brought up at Debconf2 after the numerous "so easy your grandmother can use it" references was, "why always the "grand*mother*?" Fact is, these little references paint the person as stupid, or unskilled, or som

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-20 Thread MJ Ray
On 2004-03-20 00:12:26 + Benj. Mako Hill <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: IIRC, the point Susan brought up at Debconf2 after the numerous "so easy your grandmother can use it" [...] Ignoring the sexism, it's still rather insensitive to some. Would improving ease-of-use make debian usable by the

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-20 Thread Josip Rodin
On Sat, Mar 20, 2004 at 01:12:26AM +0100, Benj. Mako Hill wrote: > IIRC, the point Susan brought up at Debconf2 after the numerous "so > easy your grandmother can use it" references was, "why always the > "grand*mother*?" Fact is, these little references paint the person as > stupid, or unskilled,

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-20 Thread Stephen Frost
* Benj. Mako Hill ([EMAIL PROTECTED]) wrote: > IIRC, the point Susan brought up at Debconf2 after the numerous "so > easy your grandmother can use it" references was, "why always the > "grand*mother*?" Fact is, these little references paint the person as > stupid, or unskilled, or somehow "weaker"

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-20 Thread Benj. Mako Hill
On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 09:18:48PM +0100, Josip Rodin wrote: > On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 02:44:31PM +0100, Amaya wrote: > > - On a talk at Madrid, Miguel de Icaza who is a close friend of mine > > BTW, used female secretaries as examples of clueless users. > > Well, that's probably because that's

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-17 Thread Nathanael Nerode
Josip Rodin wrote: > On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 02:44:31PM +0100, Amaya wrote: >> - On a talk at Madrid, Miguel de Icaza who is a close friend of mine >> BTW, used female secretaries as examples of clueless users. I'd have used bosses -- come on, doesn't anyone read Dilbert? I know specifically of

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-17 Thread Martin Schulze
Josip Rodin wrote: > On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 02:44:31PM +0100, Amaya wrote: > > - On a talk at Madrid, Miguel de Icaza who is a close friend of mine > > BTW, used female secretaries as examples of clueless users. > > Well, that's probably because that's empirically proven to be correct... But p

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-16 Thread Amaya
Josip Rodin wrote: > One just can't escape certain truths :) Plonk! :-) -- .''`. Yo tambiƩn estaba en esos trenes. I was also on those trains : :' : `. `' Proudly running Debian GNU/Linux (Sid 2.4.20 Ext3) `- www.amayita.com www.malapecora.com www.chicasduras.com Listening to J

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-16 Thread Josip Rodin
On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 02:44:31PM +0100, Amaya wrote: > - On a talk at Madrid, Miguel de Icaza who is a close friend of mine > BTW, used female secretaries as examples of clueless users. Well, that's probably because that's empirically proven to be correct... it's like saying "stop only mention

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-16 Thread Andrew Suffield
On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 02:44:31PM +0100, Amaya wrote: > On a side note, other real life examples. > - At Debconf @ Toronto, BDale used grannies as examples of the worst > kind of clueless users Debian should aim at. Susan happens to be a DD > and a grannie, so he stood corrected, but refused m

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-16 Thread Amaya
Mike Beattie wrote: > I'll only apologise to those that are unable to take such things with > a grain of salt. No need to apologise, really. The talk was probably intended to be amusing and the overall tone was light-hearted. But I want you to realize that this puts people off. I even felt like w

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-16 Thread Mike Beattie
On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 01:30:08PM +1000, Anthony Towns wrote: > We covered a number of the scripts in detail, and as a joke, > included pictures of the girls the rest were named after. That portion > of the talk just ended up as a soft-core slideshow though, and, to my > mind, didn't come off as

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-16 Thread Anthony Towns
On Mon, Mar 15, 2004 at 07:54:10PM -0600, John Goerzen wrote: > > > Your mail fairly much appears to say nothing. > > But that talk did say many things. And I was not the only one offended > > by it. It was extremely sexist. Debian looked like (and probably is) a > > boys club. > Could you perhaps

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-15 Thread John Goerzen
On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 12:34:39AM +0100, Amaya wrote: > Mike Beattie wrote: > > Matt, I hate to burst your bubble, but IRC is not real life, > > Do you believe your talk @ Oslo was Real Life? > > > Your mail fairly much appears to say nothing. > > But that talk did say many things. And I was no

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-15 Thread Amaya
Mike Beattie wrote: > Matt, I hate to burst your bubble, but IRC is not real life, Do you believe your talk @ Oslo was Real Life? > Your mail fairly much appears to say nothing. But that talk did say many things. And I was not the only one offended by it. It was extremely sexist. Debian looked l

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-09 Thread Matthias Urlichs
Hi, Peter Samuelson wrote: >> Yes, ok, but I wouldn't call it censorship... more, a type of >> 'policing'. > > Mere matter of terminology. It *is* censorship. Hmm... calling that "mere" glosses over some important differences in meaning. IMHO: Censorship means controlling which ideas get propa

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-09 Thread Matthias Urlichs
Hi, Jonathan Walther wrote: > Lukas, I see that you are coming from a position of a lot of hurt and > pain. I empathize with your suffering. How can we list-members help > you out? Priceless. *PLONK*. -- Matthias Urlichs

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-08 Thread Lukas Geyer
Michael Poole <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes: > If people must be rude to each other in counter-productive ways, could > they please do it off-list? When "bullying" (to borrow the term used > earlier in a related thread) moves from technical issues to personal > attacks, it merely escalates problems.

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-08 Thread Michael Poole
Jonathan Walther writes: > On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 10:26:23AM -0500, Lukas Geyer wrote: >> >>My suffering in this case was mostly caused by your posting, so >>probably the best you could do to ease my pain would be to stop >>contributing to this thread. Anyway, thanks for the offer, I really >>app

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-08 Thread Jonathan Walther
On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 10:26:23AM -0500, Lukas Geyer wrote: Lukas, I see that you are coming from a position of a lot of hurt and pain. I empathize with your suffering. How can we list-members help you out? My suffering in this case was mostly caused by your posting, so probably the best you

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-08 Thread Lukas Geyer
Jonathan Walther <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes: > Lukas, I see that you are coming from a position of a lot of hurt and > pain. I empathize with your suffering. How can we list-members help > you out? My suffering in this case was mostly caused by your posting, so probably the best you could do to

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-08 Thread Jonathan Walther
Lukas, I see that you are coming from a position of a lot of hurt and pain. I empathize with your suffering. How can we list-members help you out? Jonathan On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 08:07:53AM -0500, Lukas Geyer wrote: Jonathan Walther <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes: On Sun, Mar 07, 2004 at 06:34

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-08 Thread Lukas Geyer
Jonathan Walther <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> writes: > On Sun, Mar 07, 2004 at 06:34:23PM -0500, David Nusinow wrote: > >On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 12:22:44PM +1300, Mike Beattie wrote: > >> Matt, I hate to burst your bubble, but IRC is not real life, and in the > >> grand scheme of things it really doesn't

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-08 Thread Jonathan Walther
On Sun, Mar 07, 2004 at 06:34:23PM -0500, David Nusinow wrote: On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 12:22:44PM +1300, Mike Beattie wrote: Matt, I hate to burst your bubble, but IRC is not real life, and in the grand scheme of things it really doesn't matter - we do not control what people say or do. We canno

Some Comments on Sexism in #debian: Meta-Reply

2004-03-07 Thread Matt R Hall
d script kiddies be able to take free reign on #debian? [Peter Samuelson] <<...Others should do the same - and some do.>> Agreed. <> I am afraid I have to throw a wobbly over the logic of this passage. The title of my message that started this thread was, "Some Comm

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread Peter Samuelson
[Mike Beattie] > [Posting to debian lists is like hitting your head against a brick > wall. It feels good when you stop - so I will after this one] Larry Wall: "What is the sound of Perl? Is it not the sound of the wall that people have stopped banging their heads against?" (Sorry, it has nothi

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread David Nusinow
On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 01:35:44PM +1300, Mike Beattie wrote: > [Posting to debian lists is like hitting your head against a brick wall. It > feels good when you stop - so I will after this one] > > Yes, ok, but I wouldn't call it censorship... more, a type of 'policing'. > > We're not going to '

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread Mike Beattie
On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 12:09:59AM +, Peter Samuelson wrote: > > Have a brain please? I was not talking about the technicalities of > > whatever one does on IRC... Last I looked, Debian's world domination > > plan did not include censorship. > > Censorship is entirely appropriate when it comes

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread Peter Samuelson
[Mike Beattie] > Have a brain please? I was not talking about the technicalities of > whatever one does on IRC... Last I looked, Debian's world domination > plan did not include censorship. Censorship is entirely appropriate when it comes to maintaining some decorum in a forum such as IRC. Just

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread David Nusinow
On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 12:50:10PM +1300, Mike Beattie wrote: > Have a brain please? I was not talking about the technicalities of whatever > one does on IRC... Last I looked, Debian's world domination plan did not > include censorship. Way to resort to personal insults rather than respond to my a

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread Peter Samuelson
[Matthew Hall] > there are 12 operators in #debian, which means we expect each one to > be present at least 2 unique hours per day, assuming the task is > equally divided. In my opinion that is probably not enough for a > channel with 600+ people and such extreme traffic levels There are actually

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread Mike Beattie
On Sun, Mar 07, 2004 at 06:34:23PM -0500, David Nusinow wrote: > That's absurd. People get kicked and banned for obvious trolling, > crapflooding, and racist remarks. We can and we do control what people > say or do, and we can do better. Have a brain please? I was not talking about the technicali

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread David Nusinow
On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 12:22:44PM +1300, Mike Beattie wrote: > Matt, I hate to burst your bubble, but IRC is not real life, and in the > grand scheme of things it really doesn't matter - we do not control what > people say or do. We cannot, and we will not. That's absurd. People get kicked and ba

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread Mike Beattie
On Sun, Mar 07, 2004 at 01:05:17PM -0800, Matthew Hall wrote: [snip drivel] > Next, I would like to say some words to those who have > been saying that Debian doesn't discriminate against > women. As far as IRC goes, IT DOES. ADMIT IT ALREADY. > Every day the channel is filled with trolls and [sn

Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread Matthew Hall
Hello, my name is Matt R Hall. I am a student of computer engineering and German at the University of Pacific in Stockton, CA. IANAD (I Am Not A Developer), so I reserve my comments specifically to the IRC channel, where I have been present regularly since 1998 under the nickname "mhall." I would