> > Anyway, the question is, how does the community as a whole deal with > > big ISP's losing email? It seems that some companies (like ATT) seem > > to have less and less access to tools necessary for communicating with > > them on things like this. Is there any know lists of contact/support > > channels out there that people use for the larger ISP's? > > As already stated, there's not a huge amount that you can do on your > own. However, if you're prepared to part with a bit of cash, then you > could look into using a whitelisting agent such as SuretyMail or > ReturnPath.
Andy, Problem isn't white/grey/black listings, its that they accepted the email with a valid return code but it never made it to the destination box. It only seems to be happened on a few recipients. Basically, in short, the destination ISP (in this case ATT) is making some type of decision as to what email you are receiving. Buying additional technology won't exactly solve this problem.