On 3/16/07, Karl O. Pinc <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
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> On 03/16/2007 02:51:48 AM, Kian Mohageri wrote:
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> > Yeah.  Expectations aside, being condescending is never warranted.
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> We've all spent more time on this than it's worth, but I would
> appreciate it if you'd point out any condescension in my
> initial posts so I can do better next time.  Promise I won't
> waste your time by trying to justify my choice of words.



I hate to keep this going, but it sounds like you genuinely want to know for
future reference.  So, from your initial post:

"I agree.  I'm very annoyed that I have to read about this
problem on slashdot.  The misc list is not the right place
for this announcement...."


Martin's reply was much more condescending.  I know it is very easy to
misinterpret people online, which is what seems to have happened here.  To
me, both of your posts initially came across as kind of unappreciative, and
I'd imagine at least a few developers probably feel that way too (but I
can't speak for them).

I'm not saying that you're unappreciative, just that it seemed that way.

That is why when I write suggestions, I usually find something to thank the
person for too, just so they don't feel under attack.  Only hearing from
people about things that are done _wrong_ really gets old.  We all know
that.

Darren's latest reply summed up what I have to say so I'm gonna stop
replying to this thread.  I think everyone has made their points and we're
all on the same page.


-- 
Kian Mohageri

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