Obviously I'm biased, but our service Fastmail <https://www.fastmail.com/> sounds exactly like what you are looking for. We have setup wizards for custom domains to guide the user through what they need to do to ensure SPF/DKIM is set up correctly, and a real-life support team to contact if they need further assistance.
Neil.
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