sorry, Mark, you're still misunderstanding, on multiple levels and in so many ways i am having a hard time tracking them all.
i don't feel that i've been heard, and consequently do not feel comfortable continuing the conversation, especially given that i have other priorities. if you had asked questions "so let me make sure that i understand you correctly" i would feel much more comfortable to continue the conversation. i have raised the topic: it is your responsibility and duty to consider. l.