No complete branding baba, not all people who seek male courtship outside their heterosexual shaadi are "gay". I know of people who are "pure straight" (if there is a term like that) but would go bottom hunting as their biwi wouldn't suck.
People come in all sexuality flavours. And most of these flavours are intermingled so much that it is an absolute khichdi.What is that fashionably intellectual term... Yaaa.... "Sexuality is fluid" Smiles :) Harish Sent on my BlackBerry® from Vodafone -----Original Message----- From: asfan <asfa...@yahoo.com> Sender: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Fri, 16 Mar 2012 19:16:41 To: <gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com> Reply-To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: Re: g_b Why this "kolaveri"? About this business of so-called bisexuals. If the married gays call themselves bisexual why do they philander only with other men and not with women? Why don't they have affairs/one night stands with women? Surely, they would be equally attracted to women? Which strenghtens my belief that most of the married gays are just that - gay. Calling themselves "bi" is only an eyewash and self-deceit. --- On Fri, 16/3/12, Aadi 2106 <aaditya2...@yahoo.co.in> wrote: From: Aadi 2106 <aaditya2...@yahoo.co.in> Subject: Re: g_b Why this "kolaveri"? To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Friday, 16 March, 2012, 1:45 AM I stopped reading your mail at your 'first off'. I know a lot of bisexuals - they are attracted to both men and women. But that does not give them a license to adultery. My friend (a woman) is bisexual, in relationship with a woman but completely loyal to her. To be clear so that you understand, she does not have sex with any man or woman apart from the woman she loves. So please don't paint bisexuals in a bad light. Gay, straight, lesbian, bi...kuch bhi ho, apne premi ko dhokha dena yeh dhokha denaa hi hota hai! Aadi