If you want to create the appearance of a bond where none exists, get to work.  
 Once one recognizes the nature of work it is easy.

On Sep 1, 2022, at 6:25 PM, Prof David West <profw...@fastmail.fm> wrote:


From glen: "If you want to share values with some arbitrary shmoe, then get to
      *work*. Build something or cooperate on a common task. Talking,
      communicating, is inadequate at best, disinfo at worst."

This is kinda the whole point of Participant Observation at the core of 
cultural anthropology. The premise is you cannot truly understand a culture 
until you live it.

Of course, there is still a boundary, a separation, between the anthropologist 
and those with whom she interacts, but sweat, calluses, blood, and emotions go 
a long way toward establishing actual understanding.

davew

On Thu, Sep 1, 2022, at 12:30 PM, Steve Smith wrote:


On 9/1/22 11:21 AM, glen wrote:
Inter-brain synchronization occurs without physical co-presence during 
cooperative online gaming
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0028393222001750

There's a lot piled into the aggregate measures of EEG. And the mere fact of 
the canalization conflates the unifying tendencies of the objective (shared 
purpose) with that of the common structure (virtual world, interface, body, 
brain). But overall, it argues against this guru focus on "sense-making" 
(hermeneutic, monistic reification) and helps argue for the fundamental 
plurality, openness, and stochasticity of "language games".

If you want to share values with some arbitrary shmoe, then get to *work*. 
Build something or cooperate on a common task. Talking, communicating, is 
inadequate at best, disinfo at worst.

I agree somewhat with the spirit of this, however a recent writer/book I 
discovered is Sand 
Talk<https://www.harpercollins.com/products/sand-talk-tyson-yunkaporta?variant=32280908103714>
 by Tyson Yunkaporta and more specifically his references to "Yarning" in his 
indigenous Australian culture offered me a complementary perspective...

I definitely agree that the "building of something together" is a powerful 
world-building/negotiating/collaborative/seeking experience.   The social 
sciences use the term Boundary 
Object<https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boundary_object> and Boundary Negotiation 
Artifact.    Jenny and I wrote a draft white-paper on the topic of the SimTable 
as a "boundary negotiating artifact" last time she visited (2019?).    A lot of 
computer-graphics/visualization products provide fill this role, but the 
physicality of a sand-table with it's tactility and multiple perspectives add 
yet more.   The soap-box racer or fort you build with your friend as a kid 
provides the same.   The bulk of my best relationships in life involved 
"building something together" whether it be a software system or a house...

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