I guess I'd approach it by trying to see what gender means to people decoupled from society and decoupled from sex. To the laity, I think it probably has something to do what team you are on, and the implicit rules of the teams and whether one respects them or disrespects them. Changing rules is one thing that can get people this wound up.
-----Original Message----- From: Friam <[email protected]> On Behalf Of glen Sent: Thursday, March 3, 2022 1:51 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [FRIAM] academic freedom Biologists are NOT held to a higher standard. But when they do just go on speaking without ever listening, then they deserve some pushback. In this particular context, there was no bad faith on either side. But one of the biologists is accusing bad faith on the part of the non-cis people. As for a symbol being used without introduction, that's nearly impossible with "male" and "female" ... in English, anyway, which was the language we were all speaking. It would be like using pi to mean e in a paper. You *already* know that's a bad idea. So if you do it, and the readers don't know what the hell you're saying, it's your fault, not theirs. It's not a higher standard ... it's a standard standard. On 3/3/22 13:26, Marcus Daniels wrote: > It seems to me it is like a paper where some symbol is used without > introduction, but it becomes clear from context and reflection. > Not clear why a biologist should be held to a higher standard for explaining > themselves when speaking to the laity. I mean their reality feels real to > them so it must be true. ;-) FEELING is everything! It seems evil to me > to limit "ordinary conversation" to a restricted, banal vocabulary. That's > how people like Trump get their claws in. People should be able to listen > and not just speak, to imagine the possible and not just what is right in > front of them. > > -----Original Message----- > From: Friam <[email protected]> On Behalf Of glen > Sent: Thursday, March 3, 2022 1:14 PM > To: [email protected] > Subject: Re: [FRIAM] academic freedom > > The jargon being used by the biologist came in the form of "male", "female", > "gametes", and such. "Male" and "female", when used by the biologists means > something very different from what it means to the laity. And the biologists > should know that. If they don't, they're stupid. If they do, but they don't > dial down their jargonal use, then they're evil. And the use of "gamete" in > an ordinary conversation is just Scientismist confabulation. > > On 3/3/22 13:10, Marcus Daniels wrote: >> The distinction I'd make is between talking about identity in principle and >> talking about the details of my identity. That's not a question of >> jargon, but of detachment. Jargon is a tool for detachment. >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: Friam <[email protected]> On Behalf Of glen >> Sent: Thursday, March 3, 2022 1:04 PM >> To: [email protected] >> Subject: Re: [FRIAM] academic freedom >> >> Maybe. But I don't think it's generosity that's required. I think it's >> humility that's required. Anyone who both engages a group of strangers about >> identity *and* identifies in a non-standard way is already demonstrating >> that they're not too damaged. Or, I'd turn the tables and say that the >> snowflakes in this conversation (the Scientismists) are too damaged for the >> conversation ... damaged by their entrenched, enculturation into, Scientism. >> The one guy's exclamation "Gametes are real" was obviously an indicator that >> the other participants would either have to play by *his* nutty rules or >> wait for him to dial down his jargon-laced gobbledygook and have a real >> conversation with ordinary people. >> >> >> On 3/3/22 12:56, Marcus Daniels wrote: >>> Glen writes: >>> >>> < I think they're just defense mechanisms they've learned over years of >>> abuse. > >>> >>> The defense mechanisms could be more like acquired allergies and do harm. >>> Once one is dealing with reflexive mechanisms, I start to worry that a >>> conversation is not possible. Because they would 1) need to learn to >>> control those mechanisms (and who wants to take the time for them to do >>> that) or 2) claim "You [the man] made me this may, now live with it." (and >>> then adapt to their nutty rules). >>> >>> There seems to be a need for some generosity to help people cope, but it >>> seems plausible to me some people are just too damaged. Does the absence >>> of generosity make one a snowflake? >>> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> From: Friam <[email protected]> On Behalf Of glen >>> Sent: Thursday, March 3, 2022 12:47 PM >>> To: [email protected] >>> Subject: Re: [FRIAM] academic freedom >>> >>> Yeah, that's a good take. It also helps in distinguishing between reflexive >>> defense mechanisms and cryptic character traits. Where me and the biologist >>> who felt shut down disagree is in the interpretation of the non-cis >>> participants word and body language choices. He thinks they're reflections >>> of character traits. I think they're just defense mechanisms they've >>> learned over years of abuse. In the non-binary person's case, they have an >>> entire non-estranged, continually engaged, family that rejects their >>> identity. So their body and word language is probably an example of them >>> saying to the white cis biologists "pull yourselves together and we'll try >>> again later." But I'm willing to be shown wrong if that's the case. >>> >>> On 3/3/22 12:36, Marcus Daniels wrote: >>>> Hmm. Another experience I have had while deconstructing someone with >>>> "charged feelings" is coming to the ought-to-be-obvious recognition that >>>> neither of us care about the other, but nonetheless the counterparty who >>>> feels compelled to share their boring feelings believes it is my job to >>>> patiently listen to them work through their issues (even though they would >>>> never do the same for me). Canceling could just mean "Pull yourself >>>> together and we'll try again next week." >>>> -----Original Message----- >>>> From: Friam <[email protected]> On Behalf Of glen >>>> Sent: Thursday, March 3, 2022 12:28 PM >>>> To: [email protected] >>>> Subject: Re: [FRIAM] academic freedom >>>> >>>> Ha! No, I was making a point about freedom of speech, in particularly >>>> "academic" speech, and canceling or shutting down others. Sorry if my >>>> anecdote got in the way. I pared it down for you below. >>>> >>>> On 3/3/22 12:16, Marcus Daniels wrote: >>>>> >>>>> Anyway, I guess you were making some point about people getting riled up >>>>> at a pub, and that it being informative somehow. (Or at least >>>>> entertaining?) >>>> >>>>> On 3/3/22 11:02, glen wrote: >>>>>> >>>>>> Nobody was actively trying to shut anyone down. But the more >>>>>> conservative biologist actively claims the non-binary and queer >>>>>> participants *were* trying to shut down the biologists and had clearly >>>>>> shut down their reasoning. I disagree completely. >>>> >>> >> > -- glen When elephants fight, it is the grass that suffers. .-- .- -. - / .- -.-. - .. --- -. ..--.. / -.-. --- -. .--- ..- --. .- - . FRIAM Applied Complexity Group listserv Zoom Fridays 9:30a-12p Mtn UTC-6 bit.ly/virtualfriam un/subscribe http://redfish.com/mailman/listinfo/friam_redfish.com FRIAM-COMIC http://friam-comic.blogspot.com/ archives: 5/2017 thru present https://redfish.com/pipermail/friam_redfish.com/ 1/2003 thru 6/2021 http://friam.383.s1.nabble.com/ .-- .- -. - / .- -.-. - .. --- -. ..--.. / -.-. --- -. .--- ..- --. .- - . 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