Hello rational men and multitasking women, when I was younger I used to be very rational in every decision I took. I always looked for facts and logical thought before making up my mind. As time goes by I have learnt there are no right or wrong choices but opportunity to be taken. Now I am more lighthearted in taking decision but I don't regard my decisions as risky or daredevil. I know there will always be something not predictable to affect what will happen next and we hadn't foreseen it, but sometimes it could be a pleasant surprise. An important lesson I had is to trust people and future and give the best of ourselves to not have regrets!
great weekend to you! Alberto 2009/9/11 Rafael Oshiro <[email protected]> > Hello Pln, Simone, Jason, Headmaster, Eckman and all > > LOL Pln I believe that's the exactly point, women are not logical enough > for us men to understand them. Men tend to find the logical point in > everything, but it doesn't happen when it comes to women LOL > > About worrying about the future I'm not quite aware about it. I've met some > male friends that didn't worry much about their future, and it's the same > with some female friends. > > Great day!! > Oshiro > > > > On Thu, Sep 10, 2009 at 6:13 PM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: > >> >> Hello Simone Jason C. Headmaster Eckman and all, >> >> Simone,after reading your points,I realize there's a paradox in men's >> understanding of women. >> One one hand,men think women are indecisive, >> but on the other hand,they also admit that women are better at multi- >> tasking!LOL >> >> How can we be indecisive and multi-tasking at the same time?!:D >> >> That's why men never understand women! >> We are just not logical enough for them to figure us out,are we?LOL >> >> That surveyor geo-engineer student of mine pointed out one aspect of >> us which is very true: >> He said that women tend to worry more about their future than men,and >> men tend to be living more for the moment... >> >> What do you all think about his findings?;) >> Where are you,Alberto,Paulo,Hani or Gail?:( >> >> Good night,everyone! >> Pln >> >> On Sep 10, 9:26 pm, SIMONE AVNISHA <[email protected]> wrote: >> > Hii!!! Everyone. >> > >> > Indecisive d word is most often related to women.But,I think it's >> something >> > which should we viewed from a person's perspective.It's very often dat >> we >> > come across people saying or rather >> > emphasising say for ex- women take tym in getting ready,wen dey enter a >> shop >> > dere's no way dey r gonna leave it before 1 hr or so...,nd most of all >> dey >> > ponder a lot before arriving at a decision.But,s dat true?????? does >> > everyone of us do dat?????? (plz don't take it personally.) I don't >> think >> > so... dis s only one side of d coin s d saying goes.Every coin has two >> sides >> > but most of us in our busy,hectic lyf's running around tryin' to catch >> up >> > wid each n everything tend to forget it.If women r so indecisive how >> come >> > dey manage both their work n home?????It takes a lot of practicality n >> quick >> > decision making ability to do dat.Managing both d places so effectively >> n >> > efficiently s not everyone's cup of tea n people admit it.Dis s >> something >> > which people should think before sayin' dat women are indecisive .Being >> > indecisive s a thing which should be related to a person's nature.Dere r >> > also many people who admire women for their efficiency of doin' their >> work >> > quickly n efficiently.Not only dat According to surveys Women are more >> > better managers den men it is proved n dey are also more sincere >> employees >> > also a result from some survey .So,I think it's more right to say dat >> dere >> > are some people who take more tym in comparison wid others in taking >> > decisions but wen dey arrive at a decision it's well worth it.It's just >> d >> > way dey r s God has gifted Every person wid a unique quality which makes >> > him/her standout from d rest of d crowd d thing s dat each n everyone of >> us >> > should try to cherish dat uniqueness b'coz dat's smthng exclusively for >> each >> > one of us.And,d best way of thanking God for dis gift s to recognize it >> n >> > develope it.Dat's all I've got to say. >> > >> > regards, >> > Simone. >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > On Wed, Sep 9, 2009 at 5:51 PM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: >> > >> > > Hello Jason C.Oshiro Simone and all, >> > >> > > First of all,Jason C,so sorry to learn that you caught a >> > > cold,especially in this imprtant week of yours...:( >> > > C'est la vie,isn't it? >> > >> > > Don't worry about those pictures.They can wait since I'm not going >> > > anywhere anyway!LOL >> > >> > > As for your Bec Exam in this coming December,I'll find a suitable site >> > > for you to strengthen your skills before the exam. >> > > If you are taking Bec Vantage,I used to use 'New Insights into >> > > Business' published by Longman,but I prefer 'Market Leader' New >> > > Edition (upper-intermediate)published by Pearson Longman. >> > >> > > I don't know if you know this business English podcast by any chance: >> > >http://www.businessenglishpod.com >> > >> > > Then,Oshiro,I don't think other members from here know about the >> > > thread I started at English Learner's Cafe and they can't go there to >> > > read it,either as the cafe has been gone missing since last >> > > Monday...for whatever reason,we don't have a clue yet...:( >> > >> > > I will find time to log on TED to watch Elaine Morgan's speech as soon >> > > as I can,and let you know what I think! >> > >> > > Finally,Simone,thank God,you're back or you're always here. >> > > Tell me if you agree with me,will you? >> > > Men often think women are too indecisive. >> > > The truth is that when women make a decision,they often try to take >> > > everyone and everything into consideration as not to offend,disappoint >> > > or hurt anyone... >> > > In short,most women try to please everyone,and we all know that's >> > > impossible,isn't it?:) >> > >> > > How to exercise sound judgment day in and day out is surely a tough >> > > task for leaders and higher-rank managers! >> > >> > > A fruitful day to us all at whatever you do,wherever you are! >> > > And Jason C.Get well soon!!! >> > > Where have you been Mikhail and Charles at least,another role call of >> > > mine as a motivation partner???:) >> > >> > > Pln >> > >> > > On Sep 8, 8:55 pm, SIMONE AVNISHA <[email protected]> wrote: >> > > > Hi Everyone !! >> > >> > > > This thread is quite good.what I can say whenever we make a decision >> we >> > > > usually tend to make use of our logic,take into account d prevailing >> > > > situation which needs to be solved n d most intelligent part of our >> body >> > > > dat's brain.But,sometym's we are not able to come up wid a solution >> after >> > > > combining all these.So? den wot to do????? s we have to find a way >> to >> > > solve >> > > > the problem which is before us?? dere comes our intuitions n >> feelings >> > > which >> > > > most of d tym lead us to a right direction. >> > > > Business decisions as such need to be taken wid very much clarity >> i.e; a >> > > > decision taken in a careless thought process can lead to disastrous >> > > > consequences n can have a impact on the life of people who r >> associated >> > > wid >> > > > it in a big way.So ,people who r engaged in taking decisions >> regarding >> > > the >> > > > running of business tend to use a lot of facts,figures n a host of >> other >> > > > such analytical instruments n methods to arrive at a crucial >> > > > decision.But,whenever dere's a big decision to be taken they also >> maybe >> > > just >> > > > a little bit do rely on their intuitions n feelings.One may come >> across >> > > > interviews of great business personalities who in one way or other >> also >> > > > admit it dat wen dey are about to take an important business >> decision >> > > which >> > > > is going to have a great impact on their business along wid all the >> above >> > > > mentioned things dey also pay heed to their intuitions n feelings to >> > > arrive >> > > > at a right decision. >> > > > So, I say important decisions wenever to be taken especially by >> business >> > > > honchos dey combine their facts n figures wid their intuitions n >> feelings >> > > to >> > > > decide whether to go ahead or not. >> > >> > > > regards, >> > > > Simone.(nice to hear from u Pln). >> > >> > > > On Tue, Sep 8, 2009 at 2:14 AM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: >> > >> > > > > Hello Oshiro Jason C. Claire Jason B.and all, >> > >> > > > > Sometimes,I find it quite amusing for me to make men confess to >> women >> > > > > that they trust a thing called 'hunch',too.LOL >> > >> > > > > Come on,Oshiro,I know men have feelings,emotions and intuitions >> just >> > > > > as women do. >> > > > > A difference is that we don't consider them as something >> unspeakable >> > > > > or monstrous!LOL >> > >> > > > > Actually at workplace,women are quite aware of their stronger >> > > > > development of E.Q. being in their way of decision-making or >> career >> > > > > prospects,we learn to rationalize our feelings and thoughts before >> > > > > making them heard or seen...;) >> > >> > > > > It's always imprtant to 'strike a balance' as Briana said once to >> > > > > Charles. >> > > > > We will lose sight of many other factors if we become too logical >> or >> > > > > too emotional,won't we? >> > >> > > > > We are living in a world where Darwin's theory of survival of the >> > > > > fittest still works... >> > > > > But whenever we come to this issue,I can't help wondering if >> people in >> > > > > the future,say 200 years from now,will be more logical or more >> > > > > emotional. >> > > > > I'm saying this because there seems to be more and more people >> seeking >> > > > > psychological help once they reach a certain degree of wealth or >> > > > > success. >> > >> > > > > Why is it that the more developed the country is,the more mental >> > > > > problems its people have? >> > > > > Are there more men or women seeking psychological help? >> > >> > > > > What do you say,Oshiro,Jason C,and all other quieter members? >> > > > > By the way,where are you,Simone?:( >> > >> > > > > OK.Enough questions for today! >> > > > > Good night,everyone! >> > > > > Pln >> > >> > > > > On Sep 5, 2:30 pm, chenzheng2008 <[email protected]> wrote: >> > > > > > Hello Oshiro Pln and all, >> > >> > > > > > Oshiro,I know what you mean. >> > > > > > In a few words,what we should do when we come across problems in >> > > terms of >> > > > > our lifes and work is that we should resolve them differently >> > > -intuitions or >> > > > > experience or reason- at different situations. >> > >> > > > > > Have a nice weekend to you all!! >> > >> > > > > > Jason >> > >> > > > -- >> > > > Simone- Hide quoted text - >> > >> > > > - Show quoted text - >> > >> > -- >> > Simone- Hide quoted text - >> > >> > - Show quoted text - >> >> > > > > --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". 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