Are you using DKIM on outbound email? That should help: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DomainKeys_Identified_Mail
Are you doing any forwarding from your personal domain to gmail addresses? If so, setting up SRS on outbound email can help: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sender_Rewriting_Scheme Also, does the IP your mail server lives at show up on any RBLs or have a poor senderbase reputation? In the last six months, the expected minimum level of anti-spam features effectively required by mail servers has gone up a lot. --Ted On 3/12/2015 9:04 PM, Matt Lawrence wrote: > Apparently gmail is delivering some mail from me marked as spam and > trashing a lot of the rest. This is a horrible violation of the RFCs > and it's causing me some real problems in my life. How do I get them to > quit doing such evil things? I own my own domain and mail server and > I'm the only one on it. The volume is very low. And, my gmail account > forwards to this account as well. So, WTF Google? > > -- Matt > _______________________________________________ > Tech mailing list > Tech@lists.lopsa.org > https://lists.lopsa.org/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/tech > This list provided by the League of Professional System Administrators > http://lopsa.org/ > _______________________________________________ Tech mailing list Tech@lists.lopsa.org https://lists.lopsa.org/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/tech This list provided by the League of Professional System Administrators http://lopsa.org/