Did you do an --enable=so when you configured Apache? or do --with-apxs="dir" when you
configured php?
The second one would add the LoadModule in automatically to your httpd.conf file.
Or maybe you have two installs of apache? I know my sun box had a version of apache
that was
installed on there
I think your Apache ./configure is missing a parameter in order to use php as a DSO,
which it
looks like your trying to do. Try
./configure --prefix=[path] --enable-module=so
where [path] is where you want the apache installation to go.
New at this, just a supposition, worked for me :).
Mike