RE: [issues] Blind Spots about reality (was: Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discoversLinuxChix)

2000-02-01 Thread Nicoya Helm
In all, I find that if you're going to make eye contact at all, might as well add a smile. That helps take some of the disconcerting edge off for the receiver, and often inspires a similar (though sometimes delayed) response. Have you ever had someone just randomly smile at you as they passed yo

RE: [issues] Blind Spots about reality (was: Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discoversLinuxChix)

2000-02-01 Thread Daniel Bravo
I just wanted to say that yes, receiving a smile from some stranger, guy or girl, usually invokes a smile from me. Yet, it hurts when you make eye contact with someone and smile and receive nothing but a serious glare in return. It is emough to make anyone stop smiling at strangers. Dan --

RE: [issues] Blind Spots about reality (was: Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discoversLinuxChix)

2000-02-01 Thread Nicoya Helm
But think about how quickly it often happens - you're walking down the street towards eachother at the same clipped pace. We're so conditioned to expect a hard glare that perhaps the other person has already passed you before they realize that you _did't_ glare at them like most - then it takes a

RE: [issues] Blind Spots about reality (was: Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discoversLinuxChix)

2000-02-01 Thread Sunnanvind
On Tue, 01 Feb 2000, Daniel Bravo wrote: > I just wanted to say that yes, receiving a smile from > some stranger, guy or girl, usually invokes a smile > from me. > > Yet, it hurts when you make eye contact with someone > and smile and receive nothing but a serious glare in > return. It is emou

RE: [issues] Blind Spots about reality (was: Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discoversLinuxChix)

2000-02-01 Thread Daniel Bravo
Sunnabvind: The opposite effect certainly works. I beleive this entire topic is a delicate balancing act. Some people smile and move away from feeling bad, others stop smiling and feel trampled. Dan --- Sunnanvind <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > On Tue, 01 Feb 2000, Daniel Bravo wrote: > > I

RE: [issues] Blind Spots about reality (was: Ottawa-Carleton Linux Users Group discoversLinuxChix)

2000-02-01 Thread Daniel Bravo
I guess that you are right Nicoya. I can agree with that. Dan --- Nicoya Helm <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > But think about how quickly it often happens - > you're walking down the > street towards eachother at the same clipped pace. > We're so conditioned to > expect a hard glare that perhaps

[issues] Top 25 Women on the Web

2000-02-01 Thread srl
Wired's coverage of the Top 25 Women on the Web Awards: http://www.wired.com/news/culture/0,1284,33895,00.html and our very own Deb Richardson is on the list. :) shane [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linuxchix.org

[issues] women and training

2000-02-01 Thread Kirrily 'Skud' Robert
As some of you may know, I work as a trainer teaching Unix, Perl and Internet stuff. Recently (the last 6 months or so) I've noticed a trend which is, quite frankly, astonishing: more than half my trainees are female. All of these courses are very technical and aimed at people in the IT industry

Re: [issues] women and training

2000-02-01 Thread srl
On 2 Feb 2000, Kirrily 'Skud' Robert wrote: > As some of you may know, I work as a trainer teaching Unix, Perl and > Internet stuff. > > Recently (the last 6 months or so) I've noticed a trend which is, quite > frankly, astonishing: more than half my trainees are female. > > All of these course