[EOT] Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread Ricardo Wurmus
John, > * I am not playing a game - I think this is very serious. > * I have not breached the code of conduct (at your request I have just read > it again). > * I am trying my *utmost* to act with restraint and consideration in the face > of persistent provocation. > * I have said on several

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread ng0
ng0 transcribed 1.3K bytes: > John Darrington transcribed 1.1K bytes: > > On Tue, Mar 21, 2017 at 12:17:08PM +, ng0 wrote: > > Word of advice: don't use 'transvestite'. It's a slur. > > > > Is it? I didn't know that. I thought it just came from the latin, > > (or greek or whatever): tra

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread ng0
John Darrington transcribed 1.1K bytes: > On Tue, Mar 21, 2017 at 12:17:08PM +, ng0 wrote: > Word of advice: don't use 'transvestite'. It's a slur. > > Is it? I didn't know that. I thought it just came from the latin, > (or greek or whatever): trans meaning "across" and "vestment" cloth

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread John Darrington
On Tue, Mar 21, 2017 at 12:17:08PM +, ng0 wrote: Word of advice: don't use 'transvestite'. It's a slur. Is it? I didn't know that. I thought it just came from the latin, (or greek or whatever): trans meaning "across" and "vestment" clothing. It certainly wasn't a slur when I first learn

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread ng0
Word of advice: don't use 'transvestite'. It's a slur. To find out why doesn't take very long to search, but for completion: https://www.queerty.com/lets-learn-the-nine-anti-trans-slurs-we-should-avoid-20110620

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread John Darrington
On Tue, Mar 21, 2017 at 10:14:45AM +0100, Alex Sassmannshausen wrote: I'm trying to draw this thread to a close as I genuinely believe that neither side intends malice: - John genuinely does not see how his statements can very easily be interpreted as highly disrespectful

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread pelzflorian (Florian Pelz)
May I suggest that those who think “singular they” should not be used just avoid non-gender neutral pronouns and use proper nouns, i.e. names, instead? I believe there is no other alternative. Regards, Florian signature.asc Description: OpenPGP digital signature

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread Alex Sassmannshausen
Hello, I'm trying to draw this thread to a close as I genuinely believe that neither side intends malice: - John genuinely does not see how his statements can very easily be interpreted as highly disrespectful and even mocking - myself and others genuinely do not want to bear down on individuals b

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread Ricardo Wurmus
dian_ce...@zoho.com writes: > For anyone who reads older books, mankind as a whole used to be refered > to as "he", and while one can certainly make an issue out of that (and > I'm sure plenty of people have), it does also set a precedent for using > the male gender as a gender-neutral option, wh

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread dian_cecht
First of all, I have no clue why my email was explicitly listed in the CC:; I'll assume that was in error. Second, it is not my intention to insult or offend anyone here, but some people seem to be rather thin-skinned about (possibly pretend) slights. However, I feel I should toss my hat into the

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 04:49:13PM +0100, Ludovic Court??s wrote: John, people have explained things at length already; you can re-read the project???s code of conduct if in doubt. This isn???t up for debate. Please stop playing this game right now. Ludo, * I am not pla

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Ludovic Courtès
John Darrington skribis: > On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 10:09:33AM -0500, Christopher Allan Webber wrote: > John Darrington writes: > > > On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 07:57:07PM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: > > ... and yes. If an individual specifically requests to be referred to

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 10:09:33AM -0500, Christopher Allan Webber wrote: John Darrington writes: > On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 07:57:07PM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: > ... and yes. If an individual specifically requests to be referred to by > a partcular set of pronoun

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Christopher Allan Webber
John Darrington writes: > On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 07:57:07PM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: > ... and yes. If an individual specifically requests to be referred to by > a partcular set of pronouns I will attempt to do so, but may occasionally > forget if that person wants feminine pronouns and

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 03:27:48PM +0100, Ludovic Court??s wrote: Howdy! John Darrington skribis: > As I recall, their request was that I always use "singular they" and never to > mention other possible alternatives to anyone. I acknowledge their request and

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Ludovic Courtès
Howdy! John Darrington skribis: > As I recall, their request was that I always use "singular they" and never to > mention other possible alternatives to anyone. I acknowledge their request > and > recognise their every right to make it. But I feel no obligation to comply > with > their req

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 12:53:38PM +0100, Pjotr Prins wrote: Erm. Despite the obvious intelligence of all Guix participants I think we ought to stick to technical issues on this mailing list (i.e., guix-technical). Maybe we can fork these recent discussions to guix-ethica

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread ng0
Pjotr Prins transcribed 0.4K bytes: > Erm. Despite the obvious intelligence of all Guix participants I think > we ought to stick to technical issues on this mailing list (i.e., > guix-technical). > > Maybe we can fork these recent discussions to guix-ethical or > guix-culture? We all have good in

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 12:21:59PM +0100, Alex Sassmannshausen wrote: My intention was to call-back to my impression of other parts of this conversation where it seemed you were point-blank refusing to acknowledge ng0's request. As I recall, their request was that I always use "sin

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Pjotr Prins
Erm. Despite the obvious intelligence of all Guix participants I think we ought to stick to technical issues on this mailing list (i.e., guix-technical). Maybe we can fork these recent discussions to guix-ethical or guix-culture? We all have good intentions, that is the general assumption! But I

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Alex Sassmannshausen
John Darrington writes: > On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 11:17:28AM +0100, Alex Sassmannshausen wrote: > > Perhaps we have to agree to disagree on singular they, but I hope we can > still agree on the following statements from my earlier email: > > I agree to a slightly edited version: > >

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Catonano
2017-03-20 11:44 GMT+01:00 John Darrington : > > There is a broad concensus that Donald Trump, Rodrigo Duterte and > Recep Erdogan are awesome.However I do not agree. > It seems to me that, on some issues you perfectly agree with those three.

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Catonano
2017-03-20 7:36 GMT+01:00 John Darrington : > On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 07:57:07PM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: > On Sun, 19 Mar 2017 17:40:27 -0500 > Christopher Allan Webber wrote: > > The important thing is to not assume someone's preferred pronouns > > without knowing t

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 11:17:28AM +0100, Alex Sassmannshausen wrote: Perhaps we have to agree to disagree on singular they, but I hope we can still agree on the following statements from my earlier email: I agree to a slightly edited version: - [...] som

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Alex Sassmannshausen
John Darrington writes: > On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 09:57:04AM +0100, Alex Sassmannshausen wrote: > > > > ... and yes. If an individual specifically requests to be referred to > by > > a partcular set of pronouns I will attempt to do so, but may > occasionally > > forget if t

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 09:57:04AM +0100, Alex Sassmannshausen wrote: > > ... and yes. If an individual specifically requests to be referred to by > a partcular set of pronouns I will attempt to do so, but may occasionally > forget if that person wants feminine pronouns and is

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Alex Sassmannshausen
John Darrington writes: > On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 07:57:07PM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: > On Sun, 19 Mar 2017 17:40:27 -0500 > Christopher Allan Webber wrote: > > The important thing is to not assume someone's preferred pronouns > > without knowing them. Singular they

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-19 Thread John Darrington
On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 07:57:07PM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: On Sun, 19 Mar 2017 17:40:27 -0500 Christopher Allan Webber wrote: > The important thing is to not assume someone's preferred pronouns > without knowing them. Singular they isn't your only option; I also

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-19 Thread dian_cecht
On Sun, 19 Mar 2017 17:40:27 -0500 Christopher Allan Webber wrote: > The important thing is to not assume someone's preferred pronouns > without knowing them. Singular they isn't your only option; I also > happen to like Spivak pronouns: > > https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spivak_pronoun The pr

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-19 Thread Christopher Allan Webber
Ludovic Courtès writes: > Hi there, > > Gentlefolks, please everyone calm down. Being rude or insulting to > fellow hackers is not acceptable on the project’s communication > channels, period. When you feel unable to express your disagreement in > a constructive and respectful manner, please del

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-19 Thread Ludovic Courtès
Hi, skribis: > On Sat, 18 Mar 2017 14:43:20 +0100 > l...@gnu.org (Ludovic Courtès) wrote: >> Besides, while I appreciate it when native English speakers provide >> corrections and guidance, I think we as a project must tolerate >> English mistakes in our communication. The reason for this is ve

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-19 Thread John Darrington
On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 08:47:17AM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: Are there any guidelines as to what parts of English one should avoid using in documentation? There are some such guidlines. See: https://www.gnu.org/prep/standards/standards.html#Documentation

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-19 Thread dian_cecht
On Sat, 18 Mar 2017 14:43:20 +0100 l...@gnu.org (Ludovic Courtès) wrote: > Besides, while I appreciate it when native English speakers provide > corrections and guidance, I think we as a project must tolerate > English mistakes in our communication. The reason for this is very > simple: most contr