[EOT] Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread Ricardo Wurmus
John, > * I am not playing a game - I think this is very serious. > * I have not breached the code of conduct (at your request I have just read > it again). > * I am trying my *utmost* to act with restraint and consideration in the face > of persistent provocation. > * I have said on several

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread ng0
ng0 transcribed 1.3K bytes: > John Darrington transcribed 1.1K bytes: > > On Tue, Mar 21, 2017 at 12:17:08PM +, ng0 wrote: > > Word of advice: don't use 'transvestite'. It's a slur. > > > > Is it? I didn't know that. I thought it just came from the latin, > > (or greek or whatever): tra

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread ng0
John Darrington transcribed 1.1K bytes: > On Tue, Mar 21, 2017 at 12:17:08PM +, ng0 wrote: > Word of advice: don't use 'transvestite'. It's a slur. > > Is it? I didn't know that. I thought it just came from the latin, > (or greek or whatever): trans meaning "across" and "vestment" cloth

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread John Darrington
On Tue, Mar 21, 2017 at 12:17:08PM +, ng0 wrote: Word of advice: don't use 'transvestite'. It's a slur. Is it? I didn't know that. I thought it just came from the latin, (or greek or whatever): trans meaning "across" and "vestment" clothing. It certainly wasn't a slur when I first learn

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread ng0
Word of advice: don't use 'transvestite'. It's a slur. To find out why doesn't take very long to search, but for completion: https://www.queerty.com/lets-learn-the-nine-anti-trans-slurs-we-should-avoid-20110620

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread John Darrington
On Tue, Mar 21, 2017 at 10:14:45AM +0100, Alex Sassmannshausen wrote: I'm trying to draw this thread to a close as I genuinely believe that neither side intends malice: - John genuinely does not see how his statements can very easily be interpreted as highly disrespectful

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread pelzflorian (Florian Pelz)
May I suggest that those who think “singular they” should not be used just avoid non-gender neutral pronouns and use proper nouns, i.e. names, instead? I believe there is no other alternative. Regards, Florian signature.asc Description: OpenPGP digital signature

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread Alex Sassmannshausen
Hello, I'm trying to draw this thread to a close as I genuinely believe that neither side intends malice: - John genuinely does not see how his statements can very easily be interpreted as highly disrespectful and even mocking - myself and others genuinely do not want to bear down on individuals b

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-21 Thread Ricardo Wurmus
dian_ce...@zoho.com writes: > For anyone who reads older books, mankind as a whole used to be refered > to as "he", and while one can certainly make an issue out of that (and > I'm sure plenty of people have), it does also set a precedent for using > the male gender as a gender-neutral option, wh

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread dian_cecht
First of all, I have no clue why my email was explicitly listed in the CC:; I'll assume that was in error. Second, it is not my intention to insult or offend anyone here, but some people seem to be rather thin-skinned about (possibly pretend) slights. However, I feel I should toss my hat into the

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 04:49:13PM +0100, Ludovic Court??s wrote: John, people have explained things at length already; you can re-read the project???s code of conduct if in doubt. This isn???t up for debate. Please stop playing this game right now. Ludo, * I am not pla

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Ludovic Courtès
John Darrington skribis: > On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 10:09:33AM -0500, Christopher Allan Webber wrote: > John Darrington writes: > > > On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 07:57:07PM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: > > ... and yes. If an individual specifically requests to be referred to

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 10:09:33AM -0500, Christopher Allan Webber wrote: John Darrington writes: > On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 07:57:07PM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: > ... and yes. If an individual specifically requests to be referred to by > a partcular set of pronoun

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Christopher Allan Webber
John Darrington writes: > On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 07:57:07PM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: > ... and yes. If an individual specifically requests to be referred to by > a partcular set of pronouns I will attempt to do so, but may occasionally > forget if that person wants feminine pronouns and

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 03:27:48PM +0100, Ludovic Court??s wrote: Howdy! John Darrington skribis: > As I recall, their request was that I always use "singular they" and never to > mention other possible alternatives to anyone. I acknowledge their request and

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Ludovic Courtès
Howdy! John Darrington skribis: > As I recall, their request was that I always use "singular they" and never to > mention other possible alternatives to anyone. I acknowledge their request > and > recognise their every right to make it. But I feel no obligation to comply > with > their req

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 12:53:38PM +0100, Pjotr Prins wrote: Erm. Despite the obvious intelligence of all Guix participants I think we ought to stick to technical issues on this mailing list (i.e., guix-technical). Maybe we can fork these recent discussions to guix-ethica

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread ng0
Pjotr Prins transcribed 0.4K bytes: > Erm. Despite the obvious intelligence of all Guix participants I think > we ought to stick to technical issues on this mailing list (i.e., > guix-technical). > > Maybe we can fork these recent discussions to guix-ethical or > guix-culture? We all have good in

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 12:21:59PM +0100, Alex Sassmannshausen wrote: My intention was to call-back to my impression of other parts of this conversation where it seemed you were point-blank refusing to acknowledge ng0's request. As I recall, their request was that I always use "sin

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Pjotr Prins
Erm. Despite the obvious intelligence of all Guix participants I think we ought to stick to technical issues on this mailing list (i.e., guix-technical). Maybe we can fork these recent discussions to guix-ethical or guix-culture? We all have good intentions, that is the general assumption! But I

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Alex Sassmannshausen
John Darrington writes: > On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 11:17:28AM +0100, Alex Sassmannshausen wrote: > > Perhaps we have to agree to disagree on singular they, but I hope we can > still agree on the following statements from my earlier email: > > I agree to a slightly edited version: > >

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Catonano
2017-03-20 11:44 GMT+01:00 John Darrington : > > There is a broad concensus that Donald Trump, Rodrigo Duterte and > Recep Erdogan are awesome.However I do not agree. > It seems to me that, on some issues you perfectly agree with those three.

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Catonano
2017-03-20 7:36 GMT+01:00 John Darrington : > On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 07:57:07PM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: > On Sun, 19 Mar 2017 17:40:27 -0500 > Christopher Allan Webber wrote: > > The important thing is to not assume someone's preferred pronouns > > without knowing t

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 11:17:28AM +0100, Alex Sassmannshausen wrote: Perhaps we have to agree to disagree on singular they, but I hope we can still agree on the following statements from my earlier email: I agree to a slightly edited version: - [...] som

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Alex Sassmannshausen
John Darrington writes: > On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 09:57:04AM +0100, Alex Sassmannshausen wrote: > > > > ... and yes. If an individual specifically requests to be referred to > by > > a partcular set of pronouns I will attempt to do so, but may > occasionally > > forget if t

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread John Darrington
On Mon, Mar 20, 2017 at 09:57:04AM +0100, Alex Sassmannshausen wrote: > > ... and yes. If an individual specifically requests to be referred to by > a partcular set of pronouns I will attempt to do so, but may occasionally > forget if that person wants feminine pronouns and is

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-20 Thread Alex Sassmannshausen
John Darrington writes: > On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 07:57:07PM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: > On Sun, 19 Mar 2017 17:40:27 -0500 > Christopher Allan Webber wrote: > > The important thing is to not assume someone's preferred pronouns > > without knowing them. Singular they

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-19 Thread John Darrington
On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 07:57:07PM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: On Sun, 19 Mar 2017 17:40:27 -0500 Christopher Allan Webber wrote: > The important thing is to not assume someone's preferred pronouns > without knowing them. Singular they isn't your only option; I also

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-19 Thread dian_cecht
On Sun, 19 Mar 2017 17:40:27 -0500 Christopher Allan Webber wrote: > The important thing is to not assume someone's preferred pronouns > without knowing them. Singular they isn't your only option; I also > happen to like Spivak pronouns: > > https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spivak_pronoun The pr

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-19 Thread Christopher Allan Webber
Ludovic Courtès writes: > Hi there, > > Gentlefolks, please everyone calm down. Being rude or insulting to > fellow hackers is not acceptable on the project’s communication > channels, period. When you feel unable to express your disagreement in > a constructive and respectful manner, please del

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-19 Thread Ludovic Courtès
Hi, skribis: > On Sat, 18 Mar 2017 14:43:20 +0100 > l...@gnu.org (Ludovic Courtès) wrote: >> Besides, while I appreciate it when native English speakers provide >> corrections and guidance, I think we as a project must tolerate >> English mistakes in our communication. The reason for this is ve

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-19 Thread John Darrington
On Sun, Mar 19, 2017 at 08:47:17AM -0700, dian_ce...@zoho.com wrote: Are there any guidelines as to what parts of English one should avoid using in documentation? There are some such guidlines. See: https://www.gnu.org/prep/standards/standards.html#Documentation

Re: Being excellent to one another

2017-03-19 Thread dian_cecht
On Sat, 18 Mar 2017 14:43:20 +0100 l...@gnu.org (Ludovic Courtès) wrote: > Besides, while I appreciate it when native English speakers provide > corrections and guidance, I think we as a project must tolerate > English mistakes in our communication. The reason for this is very > simple: most contr

Being excellent to one another

2017-03-18 Thread Ludovic Courtès
Hi there, Gentlefolks, please everyone calm down. Being rude or insulting to fellow hackers is not acceptable on the project’s communication channels, period. When you feel unable to express your disagreement in a constructive and respectful manner, please delay your reply until you can do that.