Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-09-12 Thread Michael Banck
On Thu, Sep 10, 2009 at 02:26:34PM +0200, Miriam Ruiz wrote: > At some point I don't think that this has nothing to do with Debian > exclusively, but with the way women are socialized and brought up, in > fear and low self esteem in many ways. Unfortunately some women do > need some encouragement b

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-09-10 Thread Jordi Gutiérrez Hermos
2009/9/10 Lisi Reisz : > And the poster himself in a private email, and also on the list, said > that the motive I had in fact attributed to him - that he felt in some way > threatened - was correct, tho' I had got very wrong the way in which he felt > threatened. No, I didn't, but I didn't want t

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-09-10 Thread Don Armstrong
On Thu, 10 Sep 2009, Lisi Reisz wrote: > That is not true and is offensive. I made no attempt to extrapolate > to all men. It may not have been intentional, but it certainly was implied. When people are assigned to a class and judgements are made, those judgements are extrapolated to members of th

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-09-10 Thread Miriam Ruiz
2009/9/10 Lisi Reisz : > On Thursday 10 September 2009 17:34:14 Don Armstrong wrote: >> The reason why the comment appears to be sexist to at least a few of >> us[1] is because it attributes motives to an individual based purely >> on their perceived gender, and attempts to extrapolate from that to

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-09-10 Thread Lisi Reisz
On Thursday 10 September 2009 17:34:14 Don Armstrong wrote: > The reason why the comment appears to be sexist to at least a few of > us[1] is because it attributes motives to an individual based purely > on their perceived gender, and attempts to extrapolate from that to > the motives of all indivi

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-09-10 Thread Don Armstrong
On Thu, 10 Sep 2009, Bernhard R. Link wrote: > Granted, the "only contribution [..] I can identify as having come > from a man" is a bit strong and could be perhaps be misunderstood as > "all man do things like that" (which would in my eyes be sexist), > but if you want no longer stated anything th

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-09-10 Thread Miriam Ruiz
2009/9/10 Erinn Clark : > IMO those lists are probably sufficient for women-only mailing lists. I > don't think we need to fracture d-w, especially given its "recent" > amount of inactivity. That's probably the bad side of my proposal. Will this new mailing list lower or raise the activity level?

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-09-10 Thread Erinn Clark
* Miriam Ruiz [2009:09:10 11:37 +0200]: > 2009/9/10 Holger Levsen : > > On Mittwoch, 26. August 2009, Steve Langasek wrote: > >> It seems to me that this comment is sexist, and has no place on any Debian > >> mailing list. > > > > It seemed and seems to me you were trolling here :-( > > I'm just

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-09-10 Thread Bernhard R. Link
* Steve Langasek [090910 11:57]: > Yes? Change the gender in the original message and tell me who you think is > trolling. While there might be a thinkable context where such a message could be sexist, please put the mail the context it was in: It's about whether it makes sense to have a women-

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-09-10 Thread Steve Langasek
On Thu, Sep 10, 2009 at 11:23:25AM +0200, Holger Levsen wrote: > On Mittwoch, 26. August 2009, Steve Langasek wrote: > > It seems to me that this comment is sexist, and has no place on any Debian > > mailing list. > It seemed and seems to me you were trolling here :-( Yes? Change the gender in t

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-09-10 Thread Miriam Ruiz
2009/9/10 Holger Levsen : > On Mittwoch, 26. August 2009, Steve Langasek wrote: >> It seems to me that this comment is sexist, and has no place on any Debian >> mailing list. > > It seemed and seems to me you were trolling here :-( I'm just thinking aloud, but I wonder if it might make sense to al

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-09-10 Thread Holger Levsen
On Mittwoch, 26. August 2009, Steve Langasek wrote: > It seems to me that this comment is sexist, and has no place on any Debian > mailing list. It seemed and seems to me you were trolling here :-( signature.asc Description: This is a digitally signed message part.

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-09-03 Thread Lesley Binks
2009/8/28 toya : > agnez wrote: >> Alice Ferrazzi wrote: >>> i agree with Miriam >>> is not a joke ! >>> maybe he thought that it was only a stupid joke but it wasn't >>> it's sexism and a really bad one, against a young middle-distance runner and >>> also against all women >>> >>> [snip] >> you ha

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-28 Thread toya
agnez wrote: > Alice Ferrazzi wrote: >> i agree with Miriam >> is not a joke ! >> maybe he thought that it was only a stupid joke but it wasn't >> it's sexism and a really bad one, against a young middle-distance runner and >> also against all women >> >> [snip] > you have to be able to accept apol

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-28 Thread agnez
Alice Ferrazzi wrote: i agree with Miriam is not a joke ! maybe he thought that it was only a stupid joke but it wasn't it's sexism and a really bad one, against a young middle-distance runner and also against all women [snip] you have to be able to accept apologies, otherwise this discussion le

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-28 Thread Alice Ferrazzi
-BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE- Hash: SHA1 Miriam Ruiz wrote: > 2009/8/25 Anne Ghisla : >> Il giorno mar, 25/08/2009 alle 16.20 +0200, Ana Guerrero ha scritto: >>> On Mon, Aug 24, 2009 at 01:52:21PM -0500, Jordi Gutiérrez Hermos wrote: 2009/8/24 Holger Levsen : > Why? It's not obvious

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-27 Thread gaba
Hi, there was an interesting talk about this issue in the last OSCON. You can see it here: http://infotrope.net/blog/2009/07/25/standing-out-in-the-crowd-my-oscon-keynote/ Maybe many of you already saw that article before. And there is this other thread about women and open source: http://lwn.net

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-27 Thread agnez
Hello everybody, this is my first post here, I have been a passive reader for quite a while though (i'm not a developer, only a user). I find womens only tech events interesting and enriching. But I thought the idea of organizing a tech meeting with only female speakers (but mixed public) wi

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread Steve Langasek
On Tue, Aug 25, 2009 at 05:14:17PM +0100, Lisi Reisz wrote: > It seems to me to be worthy of comment that the only contribution to a > sensible discussion, which contribution has of necessity dragged the > discussion OT and "down", is also the only contribution that I can identify > as having co

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread Miriam Ruiz
2009/8/25 Christian Perrier : > Quoting Jordi Gutiérrez Hermos (jord...@gmail.com): > >> I'm rambling... but I really hope I managed to offend a little less >> this time... and I hope I didn't make it worse. > > .../... > > You didn't. > > You did something that's very hard to do, particularly in a

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread Christian Perrier
Quoting Jordi Gutiérrez Hermos (jord...@gmail.com): > I'm rambling... but I really hope I managed to offend a little less > this time... and I hope I didn't make it worse. .../... You didn't. You did something that's very hard to do, particularly in a public mailing list: you accepted the cri

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread Jordi Gutiérrez Hermos
2009/8/25 : > Now I understand better the "joke" from holger. It is absolutely unacceptable. I think I may be digging my grave here, but the remark came from me, not Holger. I don't know if "Holger" is typically a male or female name either, but at any rate, Holger had nothing to do with it. I'm

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread Miriam Ruiz
2009/8/25 : > So Holger, I don't know if you are a man or a woman but your joke is just > simply > not funny and insulting for technical women. I think that you have been mistaken. Holger was not the one that made the joke, and in fact he did complain about it in a very serious way: 2009/8/25

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread binz75015
Now I understand better the "joke" from holger. It is absolutely unacceptable. Unfortunately, this is the kind of joke I was usually faced with in one of my previous job. Some men just consider women have nothing to do in any technical fields and they truly make it understand to the few women that

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread Lisi Reisz
On Tuesday 25 August 2009 16:12:27 Miriam Ruiz wrote: > 2009/8/25 Anne Ghisla : > > my 2 cents: I agree with Ana. These jokes are hard to understand > > properly on written communication. So I can't get if it is just an > > innocent joke or, as it is so common among men who fear women raise of > >

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread Miriam Ruiz
2009/8/25 Anne Ghisla : > Il giorno mar, 25/08/2009 alle 16.20 +0200, Ana Guerrero ha scritto: >> On Mon, Aug 24, 2009 at 01:52:21PM -0500, Jordi Gutiérrez Hermos wrote: >> > 2009/8/24 Holger Levsen : >> > > Why? It's not obvious to me. I think not having any men there would >> > > attract >> > >

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread Jordi Gutiérrez Hermos
2009/8/25 Anne Ghisla : > Il giorno mar, 25/08/2009 alle 16.20 +0200, Ana Guerrero ha scritto: >> On Mon, Aug 24, 2009 at 01:52:21PM -0500, Jordi Gutiérrez Hermos wrote: >> > 2009/8/24 Holger Levsen : >> > > Why? It's not obvious to me. I think not having any men there would >> > > attract >> > >

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread Anne Ghisla
Il giorno mar, 25/08/2009 alle 16.20 +0200, Ana Guerrero ha scritto: > On Mon, Aug 24, 2009 at 01:52:21PM -0500, Jordi Gutiérrez Hermos wrote: > > 2009/8/24 Holger Levsen : > > > Why? It's not obvious to me. I think not having any men there would > > > attract > > > some women who would otherwise

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread Ana Guerrero
On Mon, Aug 24, 2009 at 01:52:21PM -0500, Jordi Gutiérrez Hermos wrote: > 2009/8/24 Holger Levsen : > > Why? It's not obvious to me. I think not having any men there would attract > > some women who would otherwise not joiin. > > So... > > Could Caster Semenya go to the event or not? ;-) > I fa

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread Narrira Lemos
Hi, Let me introduce myself first. My name is Narrira, but people usually call me as Nah. I'm from Brasil and part of some tech collectives based on here. I used to be part of debian user group of my local city - but couldn't get involved with that; I am already involved with some other (mainly ww

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread binz75015
Hi all As explained to Margarita in a private email, I'll be glad to attend this event. Unfortunately I'm living in Paris and It represents a very far trip. For this reason I suggest we organize a similar event in Paris to gather debian women from European countries. It will be much easier for th

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-25 Thread Holger Levsen
Hi, Actually I dont think it's a joke, but (hope it is "just") a pointless, stupid comment, made without much thought. (I assume trying to be $whatever ("funny"?, dont care. Poor Caster (for being the object of so much crap).) Of course most women-only events are also open to those "few" who f

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-24 Thread Miriam Ruiz
2009/8/24 Jordi Gutiérrez Hermos : > 2009/8/24 Holger Levsen : >> Why? It's not obvious to me. I think not having any men there would attract >> some women who would otherwise not joiin. > > So... > > Could Caster Semenya go to the event or not? ;-) I think those kind of jokes are out of place her

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-24 Thread Jordi Gutiérrez Hermos
2009/8/24 Holger Levsen : > Why? It's not obvious to me. I think not having any men there would attract > some women who would otherwise not joiin. So... Could Caster Semenya go to the event or not? ;-) - Jordi G. H. -- To UNSUBSCRIBE, email to debian-women-requ...@lists.debian.org with a sub

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-24 Thread Holger Levsen
Hi, On Montag, 24. August 2009, Margarita Manterola wrote: > It'd be a shame to go through the effort of gathering quite a number > of regional women for an event, and then make it so that only a group > of people (women) can attend. Poor men indeed! > One thing > is to try to show women that th

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-24 Thread gaba
I went to a few women-only techie events and I really enjoyed them. I heard many more women talking and chatting that I usually do in any other techie conf and I think it also has to do with how men tend to take iniative more than women sometimes. When I was talking with Margarita (we met in Argen

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-24 Thread Margarita Manterola
On Mon, Aug 24, 2009 at 12:13 PM, Holger Levsen wrote: > On Donnerstag, 20. August 2009, Margarita Manterola wrote: >> I'm thinking of organizing a local (i.e. in Argentina) Free Software >> event, where all the speakers are women, and somehow try to advertise >> this event so that it's clear that

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-24 Thread Holger Levsen
Hi Marga, On Donnerstag, 20. August 2009, Margarita Manterola wrote: > I'm thinking of organizing a local (i.e. in Argentina) Free Software > event, where all the speakers are women, and somehow try to advertise > this event so that it's clear that it's specially oriented towards > women, but obvi

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-20 Thread Serafeim Zanikolas
Hi Marga -- great idea! On Thu, Aug 20, 2009 at 02:56:49PM -0300, Margarita Manterola wrote [edited]: > Another conflict that came to my mind was about the content. At the > first moment, I had though it'd be nice to have a very tech oriented > event, with very high levels in the contents of the t

Re: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-20 Thread Chris Jones
rning how to dance in the rain." From: Margarita Manterola To: debian-women Sent: Thursday, August 20, 2009 10:56:49 AM Subject: Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event Hi! This is not exactly related to Debian, but it came up

Thinking about organizing a special women-oriented event

2009-08-20 Thread Margarita Manterola
Hi! This is not exactly related to Debian, but it came up while talking to another girl about Debian Women. I've been thinking about this for a few days, and I'd like to receive comments or opinions from people here. Feel free to give me your opinion on any of the subjects below. I'm thinking of