Och! Tell  me this is an elaborately planned, well ramped up, April Fool's 
joke!

This is utterly fascinating and quizzically amusing and stunningly 
illustrative of people who seem remarkably large in number and include the 
highly educated, doctors, and nurses, and more, so as to perhaps be a trait 
other than one institutional learning can alleviate, who choose slightly 
informed, highly illogical ignorance over easily informed, reasoned 
understanding through inquiry and listening. My apologies to those 
following this thread for the off-topic nature of this rabbit hole, which 
my choice to respond only seems to promote rather than resolve. I had hoped 
mocking and pointing out stupidity would serve to at lease dissuade further 
stupidity rather than doubling down. Because of the ignorance and arrogance 
of these responses from Steve and now Matt on this group, I will take more 
license than I usually would, for it reveals one of the challenges people 
with brain injury encounter often in finding stunning anger and ignorance 
from many people, including their own doctors who are supposedly experts in 
brain injury.

Dear Matt,

Why are you choosing to remain in ignorance?

Your first sentence indicates you are in a position of ignorance, and you 
know it. "I do not see how anyone can disagree with Steve." It is a 
stunning shame there is no resource to which you could turn to inform your 
ignorance of why I choose what I choose. Yet there you stand. Firm in your 
believe that though I clearly have arrived at a conclusion different than 
you can see any possibility of, you choose to remain ignorant rather than 
inquire as to whether there are perhaps things of which you are as yet 
unaware. Do you realize you just gave a diatribe justifying your 
non-inquiry? You exude a stunning amount of effort to support this 
intellectual inertia, citing a singular fact as if it is Highly Informative 
to me-the-ignorant-one, that brain injuries are cumulative. Were you aware 
that I've had 8+ concussions since I was 12? Even a slight modicum of logic 
on your part would indicate that perhaps I am aware of the cumulative 
nature of concussions, and that, perhaps, there is more to the story, more 
that explains the apparent contradictions. (By the way, such surface-level 
contradictions are common with brain injury and most all chronic health 
issues. I have constant vertigo and can't take two steps in most shoes 
without needs days or weeks to recover, but I run and bike mountain trails. 
Unless one understands proprioception via going barefoot, this makes no 
sense.)

Were one to apply logic, from your position, combined with a presumption of 
goodness that at the very least I clearly have reasons, whether good or 
not, for doing what I do, the following thread-of-though might occur:

I, Matt, stand on the outside of brain injury, looking at the outside 
choices of someone with brain injury. His choice directly contradicts 
everything that I know to be true about common sense and self-preservation. 
Thus, either I have superior common sense and capacity and need to help 
this person see how stupid he is being, or there are things below the 
surface I do not yet see that make the apparent contradictions make sense 
and at the very least more of a judgement call than I realize. What 
possible means at my disposal is there to help shed light on which of these 
two possibilities contains the truth? Is there anyone I could ask to learn 
why this poor and utter fool chooses not to wear a helmet when riding a 
bicycle.


Should you find a way to inform your ignorance, please let me know. I'm 
here to help, if I may.

"I don't think Christ's healing balm has anything to do with Steve opinion, 
or mine for that matter."
I am sorry your Christ is so small! If you believe Christ is fully divine 
and fully human and thus not only the savior of humanity but also the 
height of humanity to which we should all aspire (we are like Christ in all 
ways but sin), would not Christ have something to say on every aspect of 
human experience, including one as seemingly piffling as this? Every choice 
we make impacts our eternal body and soul, either bringing us closer toward 
Christ or taking further away. No choice, therefore, is trivial. Perhaps 
your understanding of Christ is too small? Perhaps you can look for a way 
to choose the Best Good Christ reveals in every choice you make today? What 
a perfect week, this Holy Week, to discover who He is and how much bigger 
he is, and thus how much bigger he calls each of us to become. The truth is 
that wherever any of us fall short of our human potential, we sin. I fall 
short of my fullest human potential and turn to His healing balm to help me 
become more fully who He created me to be, and I pray that same peace and 
healing balm for everyone, including you and Steve.

May God startle you with joy!

With abandon,
Patrick






On Tuesday, March 31, 2015 at 10:14:40 PM UTC-6, hangtownmatt wrote:
>
> Personally,  I do not see how anyone can disagree with Steve.   Maybe his 
> delivery is harsh but the message true.  Bangs on the head are cumulative 
> and the long term results have been proven.  If I had a bludgeoned brain I 
> would be taking measures to protect it.  I'm not saying helmets are perfect 
> or the only answer, but if you need further proof just look at what's going 
> on in the NFL.   As inferior as helmets may be, I do not see anyone 
> choosing to play in the NFL without a helmet   I do not like wearing 
> helmets either, and for me, someone who doesn't have a post-bludgeoned 
> brain, I probably stand a better chance of getting melanoma than a brain 
> trauma riding a bike.  That's why I wear a Treadley helmet hat!  It allows 
> me to continue to wear a helmet to help protect me from potential brain 
> trauma and also helps protect me from the sun ...without all the chemicals 
> in suntan lotion..  But hey ... if I ate Deacon's recommended Paleo diet 
> (or whatever variance it may be) I wouldn't have to worry about melanoma or 
> getting run over by a car because that diet alone would kill me first.
>
> Deacon,  I mean no harm to you personally.   But you put this stuff out 
> there, and you are free to speak and do as you wish, but we are also 
> entitled to our opinions based on our own personal knowledge and 
> experience.  I don't think Christ's healing balm has anything to do with 
> Steve opinion, or mine for that matter.  
>
> Your brother in Christ,
>
> Matt
>
>
>
> On Tuesday, March 31, 2015 at 12:16:10 PM UTC-7, Steve Palincsar wrote:
>>
>> On 03/31/2015 09:19 AM, Deacon Patrick wrote: 
>> > Dear Steve, 
>> > 
>> > I am sorry something happened to you and/or those you love that causes 
>> > you great anger toward me because I do not wear a helmet. Should you 
>> > ever email me directly, either in the group or privately, I am happy 
>> > to explain why I ride without a helmet, but that, I suspect, is not 
>> > the real issue here. I wish pray you experience the peace of Christ's 
>> > healing balm and that God may startle you with joy. 
>>
>> Do what you like.  I said what *I* would do.  I would not do what you 
>> do, for the reason I stated.  I'm not angry, I just think you are being 
>> very foolish (or, as they say in the vernacular, "being an idiot"). 
>>
>> It is now well known head trauma is cumulative, and you have on numerous 
>> occasions made it very well known around here that you are already 
>> suffering the effects of multiple head traumas.   You may be willing to 
>> risk more; as I said, if it were me, I would not. 
>>
>> As for the rest of you, by all means wear or don't wear whatever you 
>> like.  I truly do not care, and was not speaking about you. 
>>
>>
>>

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