(My bad ... this was part of the "filtering..." thread which I accidentally started posting to grrltalk when the thread was on issues. That'll teach me to pay closer attention to my headers!) > I don't want to upset him, he's much older than most > fathers of 30 year olds (79) so I don't like to make > him worry. ;-) I have a similar age gap with my parents (I'm 33, mom and dad are 78 and 79). At the family's request, I wrote a statement of beliefs, but kept it simple, in the first person, and (as best I could) factual when speaking of other belief systems. I too think mom and dad don't say much because they're happier believing I'm just going through a phase. > Well, I look at it this way. If a person says something > once, and I refuse politely, and they drop it, I don't mind. > It's when I get drawn in to discussions for the soul > purpose of conversion that I mind. Ditto. It's the only problem I have with worship-me-or-die religions. > Me, I like religious debate. I like political debate. Hell, I > just like debate period. Then you're on the right list! > I can respect someone who is knowledgable about > what they believe in, and can debate you well. I have > trouble respecting someone who tells you 'because > that's the way it is' and leaves it at that. That goes with > politics, religion, OS choice, etc ;-) Ditto again. How do you (addressing the list collectively here ... not just Amy) deal with "Well, just because" or "You're factually wrong or not entitled to your beliefs because your facts/beliefs clash with mine [not because I have any rational evidence]" arguments? - Mary; who finds herself drawn into a lot of "Convert, damn heathen!" debates. "Homophobia (n): Insecurity about being heterosexual." - saw it on a t-shirt _______________________________________________ issues mailing list [EMAIL PROTECTED] http://www.linux.org.uk/mailman/listinfo/issues