I actually don't understand why not! Of course it has to be based on a real relationship being developed and behavior on the man's part that would warrant her saying that she loves him. I made the first call to the man I'm married to. I was attracted to him so I got his phone number from the secretary at the school where we were both teaching! I called him and six months later we got married!
Chaya --- On Tue, 10/20/09, Rafael Oshiro <[email protected]> wrote: From: Rafael Oshiro <[email protected]> Subject: [ESL Podcast] Re: Why A Woman Shouldn't Say "I Love You" First :) To: [email protected] Date: Tuesday, October 20, 2009, 6:07 AM Hello Pln, Gail and all Pln, I have to confess I was kind of reluctant to read about that, besides I had my mind made. After reading the article until the end, I started wondering that what the author wrote makes sense, although I don´t know if it´s the best choice for a woman to take. The author mentioned something interesting, men takes longer to process their feelings while women is the opposite. It really makes sense. It would be a bad deal if a woman says 'I love you' to a man who still is not completely aware toward his feelings. But now, in my opinion, I believe women can say 'I love you' when she feels that the time has come and both are 'syncronized' and as everything, the man´s response can be positive or negative. It can happen to men as well not just to women. I sincerely feel that women from the group can express their opinions since this is a subject they tend to enjoy talking about when they are hanging out. :) Have a nice day Oshiro On Mon, Oct 19, 2009 at 1:14 AM, Wichuda Satidporn <[email protected]> wrote: Hello there, Some women might think that it is inappropriate manner which is related to their culture, while others could not to say due to their personalities. In my opinion, it depends on each person. Women now have more confident enough to say or express their feeling direct toward men,yet, womem in the past, they could express romance feeling in may ways. Some men would love women who first tell them " I love you". They would think that these women have more charming, smart,and confidence as well as brave. If a man do not love her, she will think that it is fine, she will find another. She has more powerful and independent. On the other hand, some men would not love women who express their feeling first. Basically, men have natural hunting instinct. Hence, they really love do searching and follow up thier prey. They would think women who tell them first are not challenge. Surly, those women do not have anything to find out. Nothing interest. Those women might not have the secrets. At this point, we got briefly conclusion that women have learnt one of men's instincts for a long time. Hence,they are so smart and have many techniques and options to tell. It depends on their decisions. That is my two cents worth. Gail On Sun, Oct 18, 2009 at 9:10 AM, pln471 <[email protected]> wrote: Dear all, Remember Claire's previous thread: "How easy/difficult is it for you to say 'I love you'? Now that's a very interesting article related to what she posted and what we discussed earlier! I am curious about your feedback,both man and woman members,after you read it!;) (Oshiro and Eckman,please don't skip it,will you?!LOL) http://www.yourtango.com/200914398/why-women-shouldnt-say-i-love-you-first http://www.thefrisky.com/post/246-why-a-woman-shouldnt-say-i-love-you-first/ Wonderful Sunday and great week ahead! Pln --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". To post to this group, send email to: [email protected] or just reply this message For invite your friends, visit: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/members_invite Know how help us, visit this FAQ at: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/web/frequently-asked-questions -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
