Hello everyone, I believe that we are in the modern time and the period of globalization. So, we have several social networking for example; eharmony.com that provides a littel help for us to make friends. Hence, we have more chances to find real own soul mates from that websites. Nevertheless, as we knew from the news, on-line dating has bigger problems for pre-teens,and teenagers. They might not realized the distinquish well what the truth is. Most people on social networking are so diffrence. While some are good, others are bad people.
One of my friends had the on-line experience. She would have happy with her relationships. She was exciting everytime when she was on website. On the contrary, when she met someone in the real occasion, she was coward. Sometime, she is getting bored, She might find another. It makes it easier to her to stop having the relationships by on-line dating. On the other hand, I believe to face-to-face dating. I could learn manners,habits,and styles for real. Lastly, I think it depends on personality. Some think it is a good way because they might be too shy to meet someone in real situations, while others might be bad. That's my two cents worth. Gail On Sun, Oct 11, 2009 at 6:33 AM, chenzheng2008 <[email protected]>wrote: > Hello Jun Pln and all, > Jun,I want to take TOEFL test,but not this year,maybe 1 or 2years later.:) > Before that I think there are lots of things for me to do,I need to work > harder and harder. > Best wishes to all!!:) > Jason C. > > > 在2009-10-11 19:33:10，[email protected] 写道： > > > >Hello Pln Vera Jason Shujian Claire Renzo Oshiro and all, > > > >Dear Pln, through the daily activities, I can realize that the girl is > >liable or not, she also loves me sincerely or purposely. In order to > >understand totally a person is difficult, but a part of her soul can be > >reached. Personally, I prefer to make friends via net and have more st > >new and strange, but having a marriage with online girl is thing I have > >never thought before. :D > > > >@all: Have anyone intended to take a TOEFL iBT Test? I feel appreciated > >and welcome anyone who wants to practice the Speaking online everyday as > >well as other skills. > >Here is my skype nickname: xiajun2010. > > > >Nice weekend! > >Jun > > > >-----Original Message----- > >From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] > >On Behalf Of pln471 > >Sent: Sunday, October 11, 2009 5:24 PM > >To: ESL Podcast Study Group > >Subject: [ESL Podcast] Re: Are the worlds of online and offline dating > >different? > > > > > >Hello Jun Vera Jason Shujian Claire Renzo Oshiro and all, > > > >Jun,I smiled while reading your last message... > >When it comes to loyality or fidelity of couplehood,no one can be too > >certain of anything under any circumstances!!!LOL > > > >I know very well and also believe in "Actions speak louder than > >words." > >The thing is sometimes all we have is just words to count on to > >exercise our sound judgment. > >We don't get to meet so many people in this short lives of ours,and > >very often,it's better to remain just net friends,you know.;) > > > >A soulmate is someone who you feel deeply connected to. > >He/She may well be your neighbour or someone from the other side of > >the world. > >It doesn't have to do with time and distance. > >For some people,they feel closer with people from far away than with > >those they see day by day...;) > > > >Wonderful Sunday,everyone around the globe! > >Pln > > > > > > > >On Oct 9, 12:59 pm, <[email protected]> wrote: > >> Hello Ed Claire Charles and all, > >> > >> I maybe talk straightly. It can be due to my characteristics. I only > >get > >> a dating online after having a face-to-face conversation. Online is > >> really useful to know each other. However, it is easy to make new > >> friends, but is difficult to find a half else of my soul. In order to > >go > >> to final decision, a marriage, I am not sure about the loyalty or > >> faithful of online partners. I only trust in the real emotion and what > >> happening in front of my eyes. LOL > >> "Action is louder than a word" > >> > >> Nice weekend to you all, > >> Jun > >> > >> > >> > >> -----Original Message----- > >> From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] > >> > >> On Behalf Of claire > >> Sent: Friday, October 09, 2009 5:32 PM > >> To: ESL Podcast Study Group > >> Subject: [ESL Podcast] Re: Are the worlds of online and offline dating > >> different? > >> > >> Hello Ed Jun Charles and all killers, > >> > >> Long time no see,Ed!Thank God you're back!!! > >> > >> Yes,I agree with you that introvert people tend to socialize with > >> others on the Internet more and seem to express themselves better or > >> more confidently online behind the computer. > >> > >> I haven't experienced a major negative effect of this mean of > >> commnication with others online myself. > >> There are voice chat,video chat as well as text chat. > >> If I want to see the other party's real age,face or gender,I can > >> always ask him/her to conduct a video chat with me...provided if it's > >> necessary for me. > >> > >> I don't think I'm either introvert or out-going.;) > >> I never talk to strangers online,so there's no trap whatsoever for me. > >> Social networks online for me are just a window to meet other people > >> in the world first before I actually meet them face to face in the > >> future. > >> I don't consider my online experience as a battle field of love.LOL > >> Other married people may feel tempted,but not me,as I and my > >> betterhalf used to be penpals 2 decades ago... > >> We have seen it and done that long time ago!LOL > >> > >> As far as I'm concerned,Jun,as long as 2 people are connected and feel > >> the chemistry between them two, > >> it doesn't matter how they meet or fall in love! > >> It's the 21st century,so why can't you have a 21st century date?!;) > >> > >> The love you feel is as old-fashioned as people before experienced > >> though it can be a moden day romance...;) > >> Of course,it's my own 2 cents again!LOL > >> > >> Great weekend,everyone! > >> Eccentric Claire > >> > >> I reply more on the messages I read and write than images others try > >> to convey in their profiles or 'about me.'LOL > >> When I see someone writes so much 'about me' in their profile,I > >> suspect there's a tendency that they love themselves too much!!! > >> LOL > >> > >> On Oct 8, 5:41 pm, <[email protected]> wrote: > >> > Hi Claire Ed and lady-killers and guys all, > >> > Love is an interesting topic and attracts a lot of attention of > >> > everybody. Love, moreover, is an intrinsic feature of human and > >occurs > >> > in every where over the world. With the highly developed technology, > >> > especially Internet, which reduce the geographical separation help > >> > everybody connect each other more easily and flexibly. From all > >> > viewpoints, they are likely to make friends and date each other. > >Each > >> > person has a different style and hobby, so they can choose the > >person > >> > according to their hobby. I would like to build the friendship with > >> > everybody, but about dating, in my opinion, I prefer the traditional > >> way > >> > to online ones. > >> > Through online way, it is more easily to connect and know about this > >> > person, but a big doubt in your head is whether it is a lie or not. > >> One > >> > more problem is the geographical distance, “out of side, out of > >mind”. > >> > Love need to be adhered and shared by daily cares. If not, it is > >easy > >> to > >> > be vulnerable and broken down. > >> > About the offline way, I consider it as traditional way, is more > >> > reliable and sincere. It is possible for you to know relationships > >of > >> > your partner. It helps you trust and spend love for your dream girl > >> > more. Moreover, emotion and feeling are those that you can not have > >> via > >> > online dating. If it exists, it is a little and not as much as > >> > traditional dating. “Action is louder than a word”. So it is easy to > >> say > >> > but is difficult to get it done. > >> > All of things above are a little of my thought. I maybe criticize > >the > >> > online dating aggressively because there are many deadly traps and > >> sweet > >> > lures of the girls available online. LOL > >> > >> > Take care in front of the sensitive links online LOL > >> > >> > Jun > >> > >> > -----Original Message----- > >> > From: [email protected] > > >[mailto:[email protected]] > >> > >> > On Behalf Of Eduardo Costa > >> > Sent: Thursday, October 08, 2009 9:09 PM > >> > To: [email protected] > >> > Subject: [ESL Podcast] Re: Are the worlds of online and offline > >dating > >> > different? > >> > >> > Hello Claire, > >> > >> > I have been quite for while but soon I came back. > >> > >> > Interesting article, > >> > anyway I think behind a computer some people sometimes assume other > >> > profile. > >> > I´m not talking about be lier o something like that. > >> > I did mean, behind a computer people can be less ashamed and look > >> > extrovert, talkative and so forth > >> > and in real situation be oppose. Don´t you think ? > >> > >> > Take care > >> > >> > Ed. > >> > >> > On Thu, Oct 8, 2009 at 08:28, claire <[email protected]> > >> wrote: > >> > >> > Dear all in love or out of love,;) > >> > >> > I've been asked of this issue by some members who are new or shy in > >> > the line of love, > >> > and thought it would be nice to share this timely article with them > >> > and anyone who is in need or interested! > >> > >> > According to one dating expert,Rachel Greenwald,the worlds of online > >> > and offline dating actually aren't so different... > >> > >> > Are you surprised by her findings? > >> > >> > Please read on as she also gave you examples of '6 sins of online > >> > dating.' > >> > >> > If you're even more curious,you can summit your questions and join > >the > >> > conversation next Tuesday at noon ET time to ask for advice from > >this > >> > dating coach! > >> > >> > Here it is and enjoy > >> > >it:http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/family-and-relationships/dating-e > >> xpe > >> > rt-takes-questions/article1310135/ > >> > >> > Six sins of online > >> > >dating:http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/technology/personal-tech/six- > >> sins-of > >> > -online-dating/article1310205/ > >> > >> > Good day and if you find anything interesting to discuss,please > >don't > >> > feel shy to share with us,will you?;) > >> > >> > Curious Claire- Hide quoted text - > >> > >> > - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > >> > >> - Show quoted text - > > > > > >> > > > > ------------------------------ > 09年新晋3D主流网游《天下贰》，网易六年亿资打造<http://allyes.nie.163.com/main/adfclick?db=afanie&bid=1254,611,23&cid=145,4,1&sid=1351&show=ignore&url=http://tx2.163.com/fab.html>> > --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". 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