Hi all, Your question is really interesting and helpful because, I think, cheering up yourself and also your friend is necessary to live happily in this stressful life.
Each person has their own way to make their life more exciting with lots of funs and meaningful moments. A quite common way is to share your troubles with a close friend, who understand you and willing to listen to your problem. It's because when we in trouble, we often have a need of sharing ourselves. Moreover, we will feel better after talking out our concern. A good friend will know how to help his/her friend to overcome difficulties, at least he/she can help reduce the lonliness feeling in the heart of their friend. I'm not a psychologist but I have a personal experience, that is we shouldn't stay alone when we're in trouble. Staying alone just makes you feel worse. Call your close friends, participate in outdoor activities with them. This will surely help you feel much better. If you don't believe, you can try once and then tell me your feeling (I'm kidding! just practising English language ^_^) Above is only a very common way to prevent becoming worse when having a difficulty. For me, even in normal situations, I also like to call my close friends and share the same interest with them. It does not only help making our friendship closer but also make us feel more confident and happier to live a better life. It's a luckiness of mine to have such good friends. Thank you all, my dear friends! Cheers, Nam ----- Original Message ----- From: "pln471" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "English Learner's Cafe" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Cc: <[email protected]> Sent: Thursday, December 04, 2008 6:01 PM Subject: [ESL Podcast] What do you do when the stakes are high? > > Hello every eager learner, > > There are unevitably ups and downs,turns and twists or setbacks in > everyone's life when we reach a certain age,what do you do to cheer > yourself up or to pull youself together when you feel down or low? > > There's no perfect answer,for there's no perfect life.Let's just share > with one another your own remedies if you have any that works like > magic for yourself or anyone you know! > > Thank you and good day! > --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "ESL Podcast". To post to this group, send email to: [email protected] or just reply this message For invite your friends, visit: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/members_invite Know how help us, visit this FAQ at: http://groups.google.com/group/eslpodcast/web/frequently-asked-questions -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
