Some listserves, faced with the problem of threads that might seem of differing 
relevance to their various subscribers, have adopted labelling systems for the 
headers of messages. For example, I know of a system that is largely 
professional and labels more broad reaching discussions with a header that 
starts with the word "Social". Might I suggest a similar system here?

best
anthony waldron

> Date: Mon, 8 Jul 2013 00:00:02 -0400
> From: [email protected]
> Subject: ECOLOG-L Digest - 6 Jul 2013 to 7 Jul 2013 (#2013-185)
> To: [email protected]
> 
> There are 7 messages totalling 787 lines in this issue.
> 
> Topics of the day:
> 
>   1. Anti-singles discrimination?  Re: [ECOLOG-L] Career - Life Balance
>      supplements to NSF awards (2)
>   2. Anti-singles discrimination? Re: [ECOLOG-L] Career - Life Balance
>      supplements to NSF awards (5)
> 
> ----------------------------------------------------------------------
> 
> Date:    Sat, 6 Jul 2013 18:22:28 -0400
> From:    "Aaron T. Dossey" <[email protected]>
> Subject: Re: Anti-singles discrimination?  Re: [ECOLOG-L] Career - Life 
> Balance supplements to NSF awards
> 
> NSF is not terribly concerned with the "furtherance of science".
> 
> If they were, many many policies would be drastically different, including:
> 
> 1) They would forbid any institution from being eligible for NSF funds 
> who engages in spousal hiring or any other form of nepotism.  Usage of 
> any funding to hire based on marital status (and to whom) rather than 
> purely on CV content/merit is wasteful and counter to the "furtherance 
> of science".
> 
> 2) The NSF would also mandate that any NSF- or federal-funding eligible 
> (or even accredited) institution was required to allow their postdocs 
> and staff scientists (at LEAST any PhD-holding scientist) to submit 
> grants with themselves as PI, sole PI if they wish.  As it stands now, a 
> combination of institutional and agency policies (tons of buck passing 
> on this one as far as where the root of the problem lies) currently 
> forbid many (most?) of the best and brightest scientists in the US from 
> being PI of their own grants, or even owning 
> publication/patent/grantwriting rights to their own ideas/intellectual 
> property or work.
> 
> 3) The NSF would also consider doing away with all postdoc positions all 
> together, and pressure institutions to hire many more independent 
> scientists and permanent staff scientists.
> 
> 4) The NSF would create a robust and safe grievance/whistle blower 
> system for graduate students and postdocs to report unethical or 
> otherwise bad treatment or intellectual property theft at the hands of 
> their faculty bosses.  They would also have a system to evaluate grant 
> submitters based on their MENTORING as robust as how they evaluate 
> research - and reject grants by poorly rated "mentors".
> 
> 5) They would have a working group taking a long hard look at tenure and 
> whether it is still relevant or if it is largely abused and needs done 
> away with or replaced with a better system not as easily abused and more 
> based on protecting controversy rather than protecting lack of 
> productivity, employee abuse or IP theft.
> 
> ... many other things they would do if they CARED about science, but the 
> above would be a fantastic start.
> 
> 
> 
> On 7/6/2013 3:40 PM, David L. McNeely wrote:
> > I assume you are not serious.
> >
> > What people who find fault with NSF doing this fail to acknowledge is that 
> > NSF is responsible for the furtherance of science.  Projects suffer when 
> > participants must be away for family matters.  So science suffers, and NSF 
> > money goes to waste.  By providing PIs small grants to temporarily replace 
> > workers who must be away for family reasons, NSF is salvaging its projects.
> >
> > I assume that PIs have hiring and firing authority.  Being absent for 
> > recreational reasons and letting the project suffer would in my mind 
> > justify replacement of such personnel.  That shouldn't be hard to do in 
> > today's employment climate.
> >
> > PIs may be faced with an institutional family leave policy that requires 
> > that they provide time off for family reasons (which is a legitimate 
> > institutional policy -- it helps retain employees in which the institution 
> > may have valuable training invested).  This policy provides for PIs to work 
> > around the difficulty to projects that that might cause.
> >
> > NSF seems to be responding to a need among grantees.    David McNeely
> >
> > ---- "David M. Lawrence" <[email protected]> wrote:
> >> What other choices that might "compete with their professional career,"
> >> would warrant such an opportunity, Michael?  The proposal here looks a
> >> bit half (if that) baked.
> >>
> >> Few other "choices" invoke such a huge emotional, financial -- and LEGAL
> >> -- burden as parenthood.  Being a caregiver for old or ailing relatives
> >> might certainly warrant such treatment, but let's say your choice is
> >> scuba diving (a choice I am afflicted with). It is a personal choice, it
> >> involves costs in terms of money and time -- and if done enough, could
> >> interfere with my professional career.  So should I be eligible for NSF
> >> help to help with my recreational diving habit?  [For the sake of
> >> argument, let's ignore the fact that my dissertation is focusing on
> >> coral reefs and will involve some diving.]
> >>
> >> Dave
> >>
> >> On 7/4/2013 10:47 PM, Michael Clary wrote:
> >>> We are all much too busy managing our work and families, parents no 
> >>> longer own that distinction. To the degree that parenthood has been an 
> >>> informed choice for the average postdoc for some time, my modest proposal 
> >>> would be to make this opportunity available to any early career scientist 
> >>> who has made a personal decision that was reasonably certain to compete 
> >>> with their professional career.
> >>>
> >>> Michael
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>
> >> -- 
> >> ------------------------------------------------------
> >>    David M. Lawrence        | Home:  (804) 559-9786
> >>    6467 Hanna Drive         | Cell:  (804) 305-5234
> >>    Mechanicsville, VA 23111 | Email: [email protected]
> >>    USA                      | http:  http://fuzzo.com
> >> ------------------------------------------------------
> >>
> >> "All drains lead to the ocean."  -- Gill, Finding Nemo
> >>
> >> "We have met the enemy and he is us."  -- Pogo
> >>
> >> "No trespassing
> >>    4/17 of a haiku"  --  Richard Brautigan
> > --
> > David McNeely
> 
> 
> ATD of ATB and ISI
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> ------------------------------
> 
> Date:    Sun, 7 Jul 2013 04:39:07 +0000
> From:    "Joos, Cara (MU-Student)" <[email protected]>
> Subject: Re: Anti-singles discrimination?  Re: [ECOLOG-L] Career - Life 
> Balance supplements to NSF awards
> 
> Isn't the issue here really simply that, generally, (I realize there are sa=
> me sex couples and single parents but lets set that aside for now) one man =
> and one woman choose to have children. The woman should not have a dispropo=
> rtionately more negative effect on her career than the man. This gets away =
> from singles vs married and kids vs no kids. Whether, in general, people wi=
> th children should be expected to perform at the same level as people witho=
> ut children is a different topic. This is about making sure women are not l=
> eft behind because of the physical demands of pregnancy and breast feeding =
> etc. There will never be equality in academia without addressing this unavo=
> idable reality.
> 
> 
> 
> Cara Joos PhD
> University of Missouri
> Biological Sciences
> 105 Tucker Hall
> Columbia, MO 65211
> [email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>
> 
> 
> 
> 
> On Jul 6, 2013, at 2:40 PM, David L. McNeely <[email protected]<mailto:mcnee=
> [email protected]>> wrote:
> 
> I assume you are not serious.
> 
> What people who find fault with NSF doing this fail to acknowledge is that =
> NSF is responsible for the furtherance of science.  Projects suffer when pa=
> rticipants must be away for family matters.  So science suffers, and NSF mo=
> ney goes to waste.  By providing PIs small grants to temporarily replace wo=
> rkers who must be away for family reasons, NSF is salvaging its projects.
> 
> I assume that PIs have hiring and firing authority.  Being absent for recre=
> ational reasons and letting the project suffer would in my mind justify rep=
> lacement of such personnel.  That shouldn't be hard to do in today's employ=
> ment climate.
> 
> PIs may be faced with an institutional family leave policy that requires th=
> at they provide time off for family reasons (which is a legitimate institut=
> ional policy -- it helps retain employees in which the institution may have=
>  valuable training invested).  This policy provides for PIs to work around =
> the difficulty to projects that that might cause.
> 
> NSF seems to be responding to a need among grantees.    David McNeely
> 
> ---- "David M. Lawrence" <[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:
> What other choices that might "compete with their professional career,"
> would warrant such an opportunity, Michael?  The proposal here looks a
> bit half (if that) baked.
> 
> Few other "choices" invoke such a huge emotional, financial -- and LEGAL
> -- burden as parenthood.  Being a caregiver for old or ailing relatives
> might certainly warrant such treatment, but let's say your choice is
> scuba diving (a choice I am afflicted with). It is a personal choice, it
> involves costs in terms of money and time -- and if done enough, could
> interfere with my professional career.  So should I be eligible for NSF
> help to help with my recreational diving habit?  [For the sake of
> argument, let's ignore the fact that my dissertation is focusing on
> coral reefs and will involve some diving.]
> 
> Dave
> 
> On 7/4/2013 10:47 PM, Michael Clary wrote:
> We are all much too busy managing our work and families, parents no longer =
> own that distinction. To the degree that parenthood has been an informed ch=
> oice for the average postdoc for some time, my modest proposal would be to =
> make this opportunity available to any early career scientist who has made =
> a personal decision that was reasonably certain to compete with their profe=
> ssional career.
> 
> Michael
> 
> 
> 
> 
> 
> --
> ------------------------------------------------------
>  David M. Lawrence        | Home:  (804) 559-9786
>  6467 Hanna Drive         | Cell:  (804) 305-5234
>  Mechanicsville, VA 23111 | Email: [email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>
>  USA                      | http:  http://fuzzo.com
> ------------------------------------------------------
> 
> "All drains lead to the ocean."  -- Gill, Finding Nemo
> 
> "We have met the enemy and he is us."  -- Pogo
> 
> "No trespassing
>  4/17 of a haiku"  --  Richard Brautigan
> 
> --
> David McNeely
> 
> ------------------------------
> 
> Date:    Sun, 7 Jul 2013 04:21:22 +0000
> From:    "Joos, Cara (MU-Student)" <[email protected]>
> Subject: Re: Anti-singles discrimination? Re: [ECOLOG-L] Career - Life 
> Balance supplements to NSF awards
> 
> I am not sure if it is a good decision for this to be my first post on ecol=
> ogy but I feel I have to say something.
> 
> Please do not make insensitive assumptions about peoples' life circumstance=
> s. As a single woman with no children, being single with no children was no=
> t really a life choice. It is just how things have turned out so far. Howev=
> er, being married with children is absolutely a choice.  There are pros and=
>  cons to all life situations. Being married without children provides a saf=
> ety net for each individual which single people do not have. Life is more e=
> xpensive and less secure as a single person compared to married childless p=
> eople. Single people have more flexibility in moving for a job. The list is=
>  endless.
> 
> While I don't agree with the tone of Aaron's comments, I relate. Society in=
>  general is geared towards people pairing up. Seeing all of my married peer=
> s go through the same experiences but with the support of a spouse made me =
> a bit bitter at times, not toward them of course. I perceived it was easier=
>  for them, but I got comments that suggested I was footloose and fancy free=
>  because I was single and had no responsibilities. Singles have the same re=
> sponsibilities as childless couples but no one to share them with. Married =
> graduate students may have an advantage by finishing sooner or having a hig=
> her publication rate (http://www.ilr.cornell.edu/cheri/workingPapers/upload=
> /cheri_wp94.pdf). but everyone is expected to finish on the same timeline r=
> egardless of their life situation. Also, graduate stipends are set assuming=
>  the student is sharing housing costs with someone, so they are expected to=
>  have roommates or a spouse. Living with a roommate vs a spouse is a very d=
> ifferent situation. I understand that marriage has different responsibiliti=
> es too, I am just saying that the grass isn't greener on the other side of =
> the fence, it is just a different species.   There is no point in tossing i=
> nsensitive assumptions back and forth because no one really knows what othe=
> r people are dealing with.
> 
> That said, I am ecstatic that something is being done to address the fact t=
> hat women bear a disproportionate family burden, due to both biology and so=
> cietal norms. How many women could have 2 children in 5-6 years and finish =
> a PhD? I would imagine that would be very difficult, but I have seen father=
> s do this. They are not expected to take as much time off, and it would not=
>  be excepted for them to either. Lets face it, in general, a woman would ha=
> ve to take more time off even if she didn't want to. I hope we can all agre=
> e that others shouldn't have different consequences than fathers for the ch=
> oice of having chlldren, but they do. Perhaps having more women in the fiel=
> d who make it to higher positions in academia is necessary to change the en=
> vironment and this is probably the best way to start.
> 
> 
> Cara Joos PhD
> University of Missouri
> Biological Sciences
> 105 Tucker Hall
> Columbia, MO 65211
> [email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>
> 
> 
> 
> 
> On Jul 4, 2013, at 10:11 AM, Alia T <[email protected]<mailto:alia.tsang=
> @GMAIL.COM>> wrote:
> 
> So an attempt to correct the institutionalized discrimination against women
> in professional positions having children is discrimination against
> child-free people? Then I suppose you can extend the argument that being
> single with no children is a decision you've made with full knowledge of
> its potential negative effects on your career.
> 
> On Wed, Jul 3, 2013 at 9:59 PM, Aaron T. Dossey <[email protected]<mailto:=
> [email protected]>> wrote:
> 
> Sounds like institutionalized discrimination against unmarried people
> without kids to me.  But with nepotism (spousal hires, etc.) running
> rampant in the ivory tower, I don't expect better in academia.
> 
> I wonder if I can get some funding to hire a maid or help with various
> things as such.  I am not married and have no kids, but society forgets
> that people like me still have a LIFE.  Some help with laundry and
> cleaning, maybe some errands now and then, would help me a lot to balance
> my LIFE and WORK.
> 
> I don't like the direction this NSF thing is going at all.
> 
> 
> 
> On 7/3/2013 11:01 PM, David Inouye wrote:
> 
> <http://www.nsf.gov/pubs/2013/**nsf13109/nsf13109.jsp?WT.mc_**
> id=3DUSNSF_25&WT.mc_ev=3Dclick<http://www.nsf.gov/pubs/2013/nsf13109/nsf131=
> 09.jsp?WT.mc_id=3DUSNSF_25&WT.mc_ev=3Dclick>
> htt**p://www.nsf.gov/pubs/2013/**nsf13109/nsf13109.jsp?WT.mc_**
> id=3DUSNSF_25&WT.mc_ev=3Dclick<http://www.nsf.gov/pubs/2013/nsf13109/nsf131=
> 09.jsp?WT.mc_id=3DUSNSF_25&WT.mc_ev=3Dclick>
> 
> 
> Date: July 2, 2013
> 
> 
> BACKGROUND
> 
> Instituted in 2012, NSF's Career-Life Balance (CLB) Initiative is an
> ambitious, ten-year initiative that will build on the best of
> family-friendly practices among individual NSF programs to expand them to
> activities NSF-wide. This agency-level approach will help attract, retain,
> and advance graduate students, postdoctoral students, and early-career
> researchers in STEM fields. This effort is designed to help reduce the rate
> at which women depart from the STEM workforce. Further information on the
> CLB initiative may be found on the Foundation's website.
> 
> The primary emphasis of NSF's CLB initiative in FY 2012 was focused on
> opportunities such as dependent-care issues (child birth/adoption and elder
> care). These issues initially were addressed through NSF's Faculty Early
> Career Development (CAREER) program, where career-life balance
> opportunities can help retain a significant fraction of early career STEM
> talent. In FY 2013, the Foundation intends to further integrate CLB
> opportunities through other programs such as the Graduate Research
> Fellowship Program (GRFP) and postdoctoral fellowship programs, as well as
> expand opportunities such as dual career-hiring through the Increasing the
> Participation and Advancement of Women in Academic Science and Engineering
> Careers (ADVANCE) program. Each of these opportunities will be described
> and implemented separately.
> 
> 
> PURPOSE
> 
> The purpose of this DCL is to announce a gender neutral supplemental
> funding opportunity for NSF research awardees that support postdoctoral
> investigators. NSF recognizes that dependent care responsibilities and
> other family considerations pose unique challenges for postdoctoral
> researchers.
> 
> Principal Investigators (PIs) of research awards are invited to submit
> supplemental funding requests to support additional personnel (e.g.,
> research technicians or equivalent) to sustain research while the
> postdoctoral researcher is on family leave. These requests may include
> funding for up to 3 months of salary support, for a maximum of $12,000 in
> salary compensation. The fringe benefits and associated indirect costs may
> be in addition to the salary payment and therefore, the total supplemental
> funding request may exceed $12,000.
> 
> Special instructions for use by PIs and Sponsored Projects Offices in
> preparation and submission of postdoctoral investigators-Life Balance
> Supplemental Funding Requests are included as an attachment (see below) to
> this DCL.
> 
> Additional questions should be directed to the cognizant NSF program
> director identified in the award notice.
> 
> Sincerely,
> 
> Wanda E. Ward
> Office Head
> Office of International & Integrative Activities
> 
> 
> 
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> ------------------------------
> 
> Date:    Sat, 6 Jul 2013 22:25:56 -0500
> From:    malcolm McCallum <[email protected]>
> Subject: Re: Anti-singles discrimination? Re: [ECOLOG-L] Career - Life 
> Balance supplements to NSF awards
> 
> I don't get it.
> The NSF puts together a program to help folks out, and people are up
> in arms about it.
> Maybe I missed something?
> M
> 
> On Sat, Jul 6, 2013 at 7:52 PM, Daniel Nidzgorski <[email protected]> wrote:
> > As an early-career ecologist who's male and childless by choice, I'm
> > definitely not the "target demographic" for the birth/adoption portion of
> > the CLB -- and yet I'm going to benefit a LOT from it.
> >
> > It's already been pointed out that helping cover employees' or
> > collaborators' absences benefits the project and everyone involved with
> > it.  We're also going to have more amazing scientists of all different
> > stripes stay in the profession, which is another major benefit to all of us
> > and to advancing our scientific knowledge.
> >
> > I'm also going to benefit directly, albeit a little further down the line.
> > This effort is an important stepping-stone towards a scientific culture
> > that respects and supports a wide range of career-life balance needs.
> > Cultural shifts are a gradual process, with lots and lots of little steps
> > over time adding up to some astoundingly big changes.  This particular
> > funding is the opening piece of a much larger Career-Life Balance Program
> > that's already going beyond just kids, and will continue to expand its
> > scope (especially if we keep pushing it to...).  This is NSF putting its
> > money where its mouth is, saying that we need to start valuing the fact
> > that scientists are human, too.  This is pushing back against the
> > professors who still feel perfectly justified to say in public that it's
> > better not to hire employees or take on students who might have kids in the
> > near future -- and all the quiet or subconscious biases that agree with
> > them.  In doing so, it paves the way for us to build on these changes so
> > all of our life choices are valued, working towards a scientific culture
> > where it's normal and expected that one's career makes space to have a life
> > (not just to have kids).
> >
> > We're going to see more people taking leave for having kids, for caring for
> > relatives, etc -- and we won't see the sky fall.  We'll watch this happen
> > again and again until the firsthand empirical evidence finally overcomes
> > our preconceived notions.  And that will make it much easier for someone
> > like me to say I need some flexibility for something major in life, too,
> > and the sky won't fall then, either.
> >
> > Every time there's proactive support for some specific target demographic
> > or another, there's a cry of reverse discrimination.  It only looks like
> > that because there's currently discrimination against (real or perceived)
> > family-related needs -- but we don't call that out as "discrimination," we
> > call it "normal."
> >
> > Best,
> > Daniel
> >
> > Daniel Nidzgorski
> > Ph.D. Candidate
> > NSF Graduate Research Fellow
> > Ecology, Evolution, and Behavior
> > University of Minnesota-Twin Cities
> 
> 
> 
> -- 
> Malcolm L. McCallum
> Department of Molecular Biology and Biochemistry
> School of Biological Sciences
> University of Missouri at Kansas City
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> Date:    Sun, 7 Jul 2013 12:19:21 -0400
> From:    Kim van der Linde <[email protected]>
> Subject: Re: Anti-singles discrimination? Re: [ECOLOG-L] Career - Life 
> Balance supplements to NSF awards
> 
> I think it was a single person who objected to it, the rest seems to be 
> far more supportive.
> 
> Kim
> 
> 
> On 7/6/2013 11:25 PM, malcolm McCallum wrote:
> > I don't get it.
> > The NSF puts together a program to help folks out, and people are up
> > in arms about it.
> > Maybe I missed something?
> > M
> 
> ------------------------------
> 
> Date:    Sun, 7 Jul 2013 19:39:29 +0000
> From:    Michael Clary <[email protected]>
> Subject: Re: Anti-singles discrimination? Re: [ECOLOG-L] Career - Life 
> Balance supplements to NSF awards
> 
> I agree.  Malcom you may have missed the undercurrent to this topic that sw=
> irls around tender issues that have nothing to do with the NSF program; gen=
> der discrimination, reverse discrimination, personal choices, culture shift=
> s.  My interests are in the consideration given to the divergent paths of k=
> ids and career.  The OP's opposition has provided a forum, but I'm not hear=
> ing much opposition beyond that.
> 
> Michael
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Ecological Society of America: grants, jobs, news [mailto:ECOLOG-L@LI=
> STSERV.UMD.EDU] On Behalf Of Kim van der Linde
> Sent: Sunday, July 07, 2013 9:19 AM
> To: [email protected]
> Subject: Re: [ECOLOG-L] Anti-singles discrimination? Re: [ECOLOG-L] Career =
> - Life Balance supplements to NSF awards
> 
> I think it was a single person who objected to it, the rest seems to be far=
>  more supportive.
> 
> Kim
> 
> 
> On 7/6/2013 11:25 PM, malcolm McCallum wrote:
> > I don't get it.
> > The NSF puts together a program to help folks out, and people are up=20
> > in arms about it.
> > Maybe I missed something?
> > M
> 
> ------------------------------
> 
> Date:    Sun, 7 Jul 2013 13:37:08 +0300
> From:    Dhenshel <[email protected]>
> Subject: Re: Anti-singles discrimination? Re: [ECOLOG-L] Career - Life 
> Balance supplements to NSF awards
> 
> Aaron - you speak out of complete ignorance.
> 
> First - there still is bias in the ivory tower wrt pay.  Men with a family s=
> till may get better pay raises because "they need the money because they are=
>  supporting a family," while women in some instances are still told that the=
> y are only providing supplemental income.  This despite that the woman may b=
> e divorced; there is still an (often wrong) assumption that divorced women a=
> re getting support from their ex-spouses. =20
> 
> Imagine having your job, having to take care of children, and being single, w=
> hether man (there are some in that situation) or women (many more women in t=
> hat situation).  Everyone wants to "have a life" and everyone needs to feed,=
>  clothe, and house themselves and so have to take care of the corresponding c=
> hores that go along with taking care of basic needs.  (Do you really think c=
> lothes start to wash themselves just because you have children?  Quite the o=
> pposite occurs, of course, all the basic chores multiply in size and time co=
> nsumption.) You have no concept of how time consuming children are, in addit=
> ion to the increased feeding/ cooking, clothes washing, and general cleaning=
>  requirements.  In the beginning, kids just take time, tons and tons of time=
> , all too often in the middle of the night.  So anyone with young children i=
> s running on little to no sleep either sometimes or regularly, and job deman=
> ds do not adjust accordingly.  Then there is schooling.  In some places just=
>  finding a school takes time, research, appointments, testing (yes, even to g=
> et into pre-school requires testing in some cities).  Once the kids are in s=
> chool, it may shock you but kids need help with homework.  In fact, for my k=
> ids, we were required to do edits on their papers when they were in elementa=
> ry and middle school.  I doubt that requirement is unusual. And any school p=
> roject needs planning and usually shopping for supplies, not to mention the n=
> ot so occasional third and fourth hand during gluing.  Then, unless you want=
>  your kid to be babysat by the TV, there's activities to be gone to (varies b=
> y kid's inclinations, but includes sports, ballet or gymnastics or art or...=
> you name it, kids are doing it).  These again take time, carpooling, watchin=
> g, encouraging (all kids need encouragement and advising), and more shopping=
>  for equipment or uniforms or... something associated with activities. On to=
> p of those time demands, children need emotional nurturing, advising, loving=
> , and just being with.  Children are not emotionally nurtured from the other=
>  end of a computer screen while you write you next paper, grant or book.  Nu=
> rturing takes face to face interaction, and dedicated time, at least some ti=
> me daily until they are on their own.
> 
> For many women, the decision comes down to where they want to spend their ti=
> me.  Is it more important to fight an uphill battle within the system and ha=
> ve less time for your family, or is it more important to raise the next gene=
> ration in a country that poorly supports families (unlike most European coun=
> tries, at least), often in isolation from a familial support network since w=
> e go where the jobs are and rarely find jobs close to the family home.  For u=
> s, our family and our jobs must be our life for the two decades or so that w=
> e raise children.  "Having a life" is something we can resume once we are em=
> pty nesters.
> 
> Diane Henshel
> 
> Sent from my iPad
> 
> On Jul 5, 2013, at 12:58, Amanda Newsom <[email protected]> wrote:
> 
> > I hesitate to respond to stuff like this on Ecolog, but must voice my
> > support of Alia and Emily.  It is NOT easier to have a family than to be
> > single in academia.  I say this as a childless, single person.  My
> > colleagues with families face challenges of the sort I simply do not, and
> > particularly women with families face discrimination in addition to the
> > discrimination they face just being women.
> >=20
> > Again, while having a family within academia is something I have not
> > experienced, it is an issue that is close to my heart because I have seen
> > very negative consequences to the status quo of NOT affording extra
> > consideration to those academics with families.  I have seen it lose the
> > academy excellent people, particularly women, when small changes could hav=
> e
> > helped retain them.  In this age, in this political climate, the academy
> > needs to increase its intellectual capital, not continue to drive it away.=
> 
> >=20
> >=20
> > On Thu, Jul 4, 2013 at 8:11 AM, Alia T <[email protected]> wrote:
> >=20
> >> So an attempt to correct the institutionalized discrimination against wom=
> en
> >> in professional positions having children is discrimination against
> >> child-free people? Then I suppose you can extend the argument that being
> >> single with no children is a decision you've made with full knowledge of
> >> its potential negative effects on your career.
> >>=20
> >> On Wed, Jul 3, 2013 at 9:59 PM, Aaron T. Dossey <[email protected]>
> >> wrote:
> >>=20
> >>> Sounds like institutionalized discrimination against unmarried people
> >>> without kids to me.  But with nepotism (spousal hires, etc.) running
> >>> rampant in the ivory tower, I don't expect better in academia.
> >>>=20
> >>> I wonder if I can get some funding to hire a maid or help with various
> >>> things as such.  I am not married and have no kids, but society forgets
> >>> that people like me still have a LIFE.  Some help with laundry and
> >>> cleaning, maybe some errands now and then, would help me a lot to balanc=
> e
> >>> my LIFE and WORK.
> >>>=20
> >>> I don't like the direction this NSF thing is going at all.
> >>>=20
> >>>=20
> >>>=20
> >>> On 7/3/2013 11:01 PM, David Inouye wrote:
> >>>=20
> >>>> <http://www.nsf.gov/pubs/2013/**nsf13109/nsf13109.jsp?WT.mc_**
> >>>> id=3DUSNSF_25&WT.mc_ev=3Dclick<
> >> http://www.nsf.gov/pubs/2013/nsf13109/nsf13109.jsp?WT.mc_id=3DUSNSF_25&WT=
> .mc_ev=3Dclick
> >>>=20
> >>>>> htt**p://www.nsf.gov/pubs/2013/**nsf13109/nsf13109.jsp?WT.mc_**
> >>>> id=3DUSNSF_25&WT.mc_ev=3Dclick<
> >> http://www.nsf.gov/pubs/2013/nsf13109/nsf13109.jsp?WT.mc_id=3DUSNSF_25&WT=
> .mc_ev=3Dclick
> >>>=20
> >>>>=20
> >>>>=20
> >>>> Date: July 2, 2013
> >>>>=20
> >>>>=20
> >>>> BACKGROUND
> >>>>=20
> >>>> Instituted in 2012, NSF's Career-Life Balance (CLB) Initiative is an
> >>>> ambitious, ten-year initiative that will build on the best of
> >>>> family-friendly practices among individual NSF programs to expand them
> >> to
> >>>> activities NSF-wide. This agency-level approach will help attract,
> >> retain,
> >>>> and advance graduate students, postdoctoral students, and early-career
> >>>> researchers in STEM fields. This effort is designed to help reduce the
> >> rate
> >>>> at which women depart from the STEM workforce. Further information on
> >> the
> >>>> CLB initiative may be found on the Foundation's website.
> >>>>=20
> >>>> The primary emphasis of NSF's CLB initiative in FY 2012 was focused on
> >>>> opportunities such as dependent-care issues (child birth/adoption and
> >> elder
> >>>> care). These issues initially were addressed through NSF's Faculty Earl=
> y
> >>>> Career Development (CAREER) program, where career-life balance
> >>>> opportunities can help retain a significant fraction of early career
> >> STEM
> >>>> talent. In FY 2013, the Foundation intends to further integrate CLB
> >>>> opportunities through other programs such as the Graduate Research
> >>>> Fellowship Program (GRFP) and postdoctoral fellowship programs, as well=
> 
> >> as
> >>>> expand opportunities such as dual career-hiring through the Increasing
> >> the
> >>>> Participation and Advancement of Women in Academic Science and
> >> Engineering
> >>>> Careers (ADVANCE) program. Each of these opportunities will be describe=
> d
> >>>> and implemented separately.
> >>>>=20
> >>>>=20
> >>>> PURPOSE
> >>>>=20
> >>>> The purpose of this DCL is to announce a gender neutral supplemental
> >>>> funding opportunity for NSF research awardees that support postdoctoral=
> 
> >>>> investigators. NSF recognizes that dependent care responsibilities and
> >>>> other family considerations pose unique challenges for postdoctoral
> >>>> researchers.
> >>>>=20
> >>>> Principal Investigators (PIs) of research awards are invited to submit
> >>>> supplemental funding requests to support additional personnel (e.g.,
> >>>> research technicians or equivalent) to sustain research while the
> >>>> postdoctoral researcher is on family leave. These requests may include
> >>>> funding for up to 3 months of salary support, for a maximum of $12,000
> >> in
> >>>> salary compensation. The fringe benefits and associated indirect costs
> >> may
> >>>> be in addition to the salary payment and therefore, the total
> >> supplemental
> >>>> funding request may exceed $12,000.
> >>>>=20
> >>>> Special instructions for use by PIs and Sponsored Projects Offices in
> >>>> preparation and submission of postdoctoral investigators-Life Balance
> >>>> Supplemental Funding Requests are included as an attachment (see below)=
> 
> >> to
> >>>> this DCL.
> >>>>=20
> >>>> Additional questions should be directed to the cognizant NSF program
> >>>> director identified in the award notice.
> >>>>=20
> >>>> Sincerely,
> >>>>=20
> >>>> Wanda E. Ward
> >>>> Office Head
> >>>> Office of International & Integrative Activities
> >>>>=20
> >>>=20
> >>>=20
> >>> ATD of ATB and ISI
> >>> --
> >>> Aaron T. Dossey, Ph.D.
> >>> Biochemistry and Molecular Biology
> >>> Founder/Owner: All Things Bugs
> >>> Capitalizing on Low-Crawling Fruit from Insect-Based Innovation
> >>> http://allthingsbugs.com/**about/people/<
> >> http://allthingsbugs.com/about/people/>
> >>> http://www.facebook.com/**Allthingsbugs<
> >> http://www.facebook.com/Allthingsbugs>
> >>> https://www.facebook.com/**InvertebrateStudiesInstitute<
> >> https://www.facebook.com/InvertebrateStudiesInstitute>
> >>> 1-352-281-3643
> >>>=20
> >>=20
> >=20
> >=20
> >=20
> > --=20
> > Amanda Newsom
> >=20
> > ``Life shrinks or expands according to one's courage'' -- Anais Nin
> 
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