On 4 Apr 2020, at 23:27, Jessica Clarke <jrt...@debian.org> wrote: > On 4 Apr 2020, at 23:16, Elana Hashman <ehash...@debian.org> wrote: >> >>> El sáb., 4 abr. 2020 a las 23:53, Jessica Clarke (<jrt...@debian.org>) >>> escribió: >>>> >>>> You can raise your voice and disagree wholeheartedly whilst still being >>>> polite. >>>> Even if someone is a huge bigot that doesn't give you free rein to be >>>> rude, as >>>> tempting and justifiable as it *feels*. >> >> This is tone policing, and I would like to request that members on the >> list stop engaging in it: http://www.robot-hugs.com/2016/01/tone-policing/ > > No, it's not. Tone policing is about requiring you to remain calm. All we are > trying to say (and what the Code of Conduct that you are required to follow > says) is that you must be respectful towards people. Moreover, Miry was *not* > saying that the line *had* been crossed, she said that we're getting "quite > close". Emotion is allowed. Just don't attack people, as per the CoC. > Besides, > being trans, I am not speaking from a position of privilege in this > particular > context, not that I think it even matters here.
And in fact, quoting the text at the bottom of your comic: > There is a difference between ‘that’s a shitty argument’ and ‘you’re a > shitty person’. I saw Miry as trying to ensure it doesn't devolve into the latter. Jess
