Nori Heikkinen writes: > Helen Faulkner writes: > > http://www.debian.org/devel/join/nm-advocate: > [...] > > Count the "he"s. I get 13. This doesn't seem to be, based on the > > stuff I've been flicking through, particularly unusual. And people > > wonder why women find debian unfriendly to them!
I have mixed feelings about it. I wish we (=women, feminists) could get past the language thing. I think we waste a lot of energy and good will on issues like language and lose momentum for the things that are really important. However, the example Helen gave seems fairly extreme: it almost seems as though the author went out of his (<- masculine pronoun, I think that's a safe assumption in this case!) way to use gendered pronouns even when there was no reason for it. Rewriting, as Carla and Helen have done, to minimize the need for such pronouns seems a much friendlier approach. As to what to use: I used to be one of those annoying language lawyers who winced when someone used "they" as a singular gender neutral pronoun. "It's not accepted English, 'he' is the accepted generic." But even aside from the fact that English is and has always been an evolving language, which means there will always be some constructs which are not currently accepted but soon will be, it turns out I was wrong to think that. I just checked the OED, and the use of "they" as a singular generic pronoun is definition #2 and dates back to 1526; while in the section for "he", I couldn't find any clear reference to its use as a generic singular pronoun (though there are references to the use of "he" for neuter nouns, where today we would use "it"). I found no reference to he/she at all, though my OED is not current. (Er, sounds like I'm still an annoying language lawyer, just one who's changed her mind? :-) So I'm going to use "they" in my own writing, for now. I find "he/she" stilted and annoying. Of course, for examples, alternating genders as Jenn described works fine. Anyway, I still think we shouldn't waste a lot of time and emotion over sexist language. But in cases like the NM pages which seem to go to great lengths to thrust the masculine pronoun at us, filing a bug to rewrite it in a more neutral way is worthwhile. ...Akkana