On 2005-02-21, Mechtilde Stehmann penned: > > As a husband of a debian-women and a father of two daughters working and > playing with computers I have observed women and men have different kinds of > approaching the computer. Girls and women will think and read first - boys > and men are learning more by try and error. So girls are often pushed aside > - even if they have the better ideas to solve a problem.
I don't think this is specific to computers, either. My husband and I have encountered in a variety of situations, but two specific ones are cooking and mountain biking. My husband will happily cook up a meal by just picking some stuff out of the fridge and pantry. He just grabs some stuff and goes. Me, I need a recipe, and if I can't find exactly the same ingredients, I won't make it. I've finally gotten to the point where I'll make soups on my own, but I'm concerned about screwing up. The same happens in mountain biking. My husband never took any mountain biking lessons, and yet he is a proficient mountain biker. He tells me to "just try" things that scare me, and that I think about them too much. But I've found that there are many women-only mountain biking clinics in the area, so apparently I'm not the only woman who would rather get some coaching and tips before trying something tricky. Of course, just because one man and one woman share this dynamic doesn't make it true for the rest of the universe. But I've certainly seen this played out, and I truly wish I were more willing to experiment and just try new things. The one area where I happily experiment is my own computer. I think this is because I know enough to know what types of experimentation are dangerous, and there's very little I could do from which I can't recover. I've been rolling my own kernel for years now, and sometimes it seems like the only way to do that is trial and error! I do look for documentation on the web, first, if I can. -- monique Ask smart questions, get good answers: http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html -- To UNSUBSCRIBE, email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] with a subject of "unsubscribe". Trouble? Contact [EMAIL PROTECTED]
